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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Should I feel guilty? My ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids, we haven't had sex in over 2 years, and I have started seeing someone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - my ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids we have had no sexual relations in over 2 years he hasn't even tried. he doesn't kiss me or tell me he loves me. He doesn't even touch me in anyway. I have talked to him about it. he said ...

I'm married with 3 children, one of my children may belong to my lover. How can I make everyone happy? I don't want to lose my husband.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I got married eight years ago to a man i seriously thought was my soulmate. Shortly after our wedding he started shutting down sexually and left me wanting for more. Since that time i have had a few affairs, nothing that would threaten my emot...

My wife stresses about EVERYTHING which in turn causes much stress for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hi everyone - I've been married now for around 9 months. When my wife and I were first dating everything seemed like we were on cloud nine, we got along really well and did not have a single drama. The few weeks before our wedding however things got ...

Why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - i need help understanding something. why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger? and i dont mean just a few year either. im talking 20 years or more. and why would anyone want someone that much older? i have read all ...

Why will he not tell me the truth? Is my husband gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband for 12 years. In the beginning of our relationship he put a porn video on to see if I'd be willing to watch it with him. Just a few seconds on there was a shemale on the screen. He quickly turned it off and said he didn'...

Thirty Three Years of Marriage with the last 6 years of no sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I haven't had sex for 6 yrs. I brought a vibrator and love using it... I've tried to make my husband want me by posing naked and doing sexual dance moves ... He is still not moved by my moves, does this means he doesn't want me? ...

It seems like my husband is attracted to everyone but me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I asked my husband why me never says anything nice to me I asked him is there anything you find attractive about me. He said I can't think of anything but he said to me in front if exwife that I'm jealous of her cause she's pretty an your big fat ...

My husband never wants to have sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - i just wish he would come on to me or somebody! I'm 43 and lonely. whenever I try to have some time alone with him he always make sure that he bring someone home with him I've got a friend or something or just blows me off I almost thought about ...

I know I deserve way better than this! What do I do about this marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ok here is the situation at hand, my husband, I just don't know anymore with him, on 4/27/13 I was having bad chest pains and I was thinking about going to the er, he wouldn't even go with me, he said that all my anxiety attacks are coming from me, ...

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiati...

I am in love with my x boyfriend, but married to another, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - To make a long story shorter.. I met Brac about twelve years ago in a chat room. He was my friend that listened to all my guy issues. Was there for me all the time.. He is getting his masters degree soon, but when I met him he didn't have that in ...

I suspect my husband may be gay or bisexual and now he's told me to leave the house! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hi I will be married almost 10 years soon, my husband hasn't taken me out very much, usually we go away a few days once a year. We don't go out socially but he goes out with his male friend. We haven't been sexually active for almost a year! He ...

Husband has gone away again to think... I really need some help and strategies

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My husband of two years has left the family home again for a few days to "clear his head" and to "sort himself out" and I'm bewildered! We have had discussions (not arguments) with one another recently as we understand the marriage is not as good ...

Where is my marriage ending? Unhappily ever after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I'm unhappily married to a man more than twice my age approaching his 70s. While we dated, I knew he was not the right person for me. I however admired his maturity and intelligence. I was at downnest point with no money, career and basically messed ...

We don't have any kids and I even hate to mention this, but should I run before it's too late?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My husband is a jerk and very careless with money! I don't even know where to start!!! Ok, I've taken a few deep breaths and I think I'm ready to explain. My husband is very naïve when it comes to all things money. For example, he wants to tak...

Married 19 years and my wife has never had an interest in sex. Why does she not like sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I, too, have the common (and perhaps the oldest) question: Why doesn't my wife like sex? I have been married for 19 years. I've been very successful, we've traveled, and we even purchased our dream house and live a comfortable life. 19 ...

Should I stay in my marriage with 3 children? Or step out with someone who makes me happy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I have got myself in a real dilemma and could really use some advice. I have been married for fourteen years and have three of the most beautiful children a woman could ask for but I never really loved my husband and got married for all the wrong ...

My husband said he'd pack up and move to be with his first love! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I just recently found out that my husband's first-love contacted him. I also now know that he was the one making the attempts to find her He says he is still in love with her and never got over her. He also wants to continue contact with her to ...

How do you deal with a spouse who shuts down when something truly upsets them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - My wife has been through so much her entire life and she definitely is a rock. She is the motivated type who when faced with a problem doesn't get flustered or crazy she just finds a solution and gets it done. There are times however that when ...

Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...

My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...

So do I still have to wait? In spite of the fact that he has now reached his marrying age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - we broke up recently because when we were together, we couldn't control ourselves of being so intimate. As much as possible, we don't want to have sex without getting married.. He was asking me for marriage but i refused because he's still takin...

Sexless marriage and clinically depressed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (M) - I have a problem that seems to be just the opposite of some recent Q and A's. We have been married for 33 years and busted our humps to correctly and lovingly raise our Daughter and Son, now 31 and 24 years old respectively. Nobody could ask for a ...

My wife is very aggressive in bed, I feel emasculated.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

21 April 2013 (M) - I have a unique problem. My wife is too aggressive in bed. She has been the one taking initiative right from day one, The first kiss, the first time we had sex, she literally pulled me on top of her. It's been four years, and it seems when we...

Hubby has no job and exchanges sexual pictures with girls online. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Ok im not sure what way to turn... i can really go to my friends like i want too because i dont want them to judge.... but all ive done is cry today... i been with my husband for 15 years off and on but only been married 4 months... we have 5 lil ...

I lied to hubby about child being his, marriage is unhappy and another child on the way! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I am 35.I met my hubby 2009 through a friend. Immediately we fell in love. I have a good job. He works as shop cashier. I was abit uncomfortable and embarrassed with this, but later accepted him. He however intelligent, hardworking. He was sharing ...

My controlling Aunt wants us to change the date of our wedding. How can I deal with her reaction?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Recent events have upset me and dare say ruined my wedding ...Please read... My aunt (my dad’s sister) has always been a bit controlling. I remember when I was a child she'd always have tantrums and cause arguments if things didn't go her wa...

I feel like a dating mess. Insight welcome. How can I meet someone new?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - I was in 11 year marriage that was dying a slow death. I wasn't happy neither was wife but for some reason neither of us knew what to do. I was approached by coworker and had affair. At the same time wife was too. She chose affair over marriage...

Does my husband not even care enough about me to answer these questions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - i asked my husband, does he think i am beautiful? He said he didn't know. He never looks at me that way. When i asked him what he likes about me, he said he doesn't know. What do this mean or what should i do? ...

MIL from Hell and a Husband that will not live on his own!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - Hi, I am a modern girl with some simple dreams. I want to be happy....lead a comfortable and satisfying life. Recently i got married to the love of my life....The problem is his Mother and the locality where he lives. My husband works in a MNC in a...

A 22 year old marriage over due to my disabilies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

19 April 2013 (M) - Please help, Iam a 45 year old man , I have had type1 diabetes since age 3 this plays a huge part in what I need advice with , I have been married to the same super beautiful wife for 22+years . I met my wife when I was 22 and she was 17 at the time...

I'm afraid my insecurities are interfering in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I’m in need for some advice. I would like to be sexy for my husband… but I have no idea how to. I don’t think I am sexy or have to looks to be considered sexy. I love my husband and I love sex with him. But I’m scared. I have always ...

I'm married and still in love with my boyfriend. How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - what i do i m married n still loving my old boy friend amit raj but he rejeced me, i did marry because i was no options in my life but i dont love my husband i found hes greedy of my money n name n fame. i made his career but i want divorce i m ...

I found out my husband has Alexithymia. I think my marriage is in trouble!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - I need help. I think my marriage is in serious trouble. My husband has always had a problem showing emotion, sympathy, compassion and empathy. He also has always spoken in monotone, no emotion in his words. When he says "I love you" you don't f...

Our sex life changed after she read those books and now I don't know if she is teaching me a lesson or what to do now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (M) - my wife of 20 years about 6 months ago started reading the 50 shades books and after 19.5 years of marriage and basic sex every 10-14 days she started wanting sex more and more which doesnt sound bad but eventually started doing things she never did ...

Is my husband at the root of all my problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - I have had such a difficult couple of years. Long story short. -I have been a stay at home Mum for nearly 4 years. Gave up my sort of "career" to raise my two kids. Which as left me feeling neglected and unappreciated. - My parents are div...

How many more years am I suppose to invest in this relationship when I am already tired and over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - My head tells me to leave him but my heart tells me to keep on fighting for his love. He is so indifferent towards me he no longer comes to have lunch with me and he is gone all day. He says his works keeps him busy but what about me what about hi...

I'm tired of feeing sexually neglected!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I could use some advice. Im feeling neglected sexually. My husband and I have been married four years together 6. Im a stay at home mom by day and work partime nights 10-230am as a waitress. My husband works nearly fulltime and also trains ...

Am I wasting my time trying to save this marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - My husband of 13 years had affair that went on for 6 months. She didnt know he was married and he never told her. Didnt. Take long for me to figure out what he was doing and i never left our home all info i learned thru different things. Its been 6 ...

I'm losing my hair because of stress. Will it grow back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - Please help. Last year my husband left me. First I heard was by email from his lawyer as I was overseas at the time on a short break. To cut story short i came back he had taken most things. We had been married 20 years he has not spoken to me ...

I told him about the dreams that kept me from sleeping and he reacted harshly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - I've been having reoccurring dreams lately about discovering that my husband cheated before we got married. These dreams have been vivid enough to wake me in the middle of the night and upset me enough to the point of not falling back asleep. ...

Husband cheating, left me. How do you go on after this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - im soooo hurt. i dont know what to do with myself, or how to get over this betrayal. my husband of 15 years was caught red handed with a 23 year old. and now he has packed his stuff and told me he does not love me anymore.... i dont understa...

My husband is ill and no longer interested in sex. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - My husband has a lot of issues with his heart and lungs (chronic obstructive pulmonary disease). He's only 66 but acts like 80! He does not want me to show him any interest in sex or anything and acts like he wants to give it all up. help! ...

Valid reasons to leave your partner after less than 2 years marriage.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (M) - Some of you may remember my posts in the past. Well the good news is that we have been getting along well and building our future together. Bit there are two big pressures that I face on a continual basis. The first is the fact that I am expect...

Married for nearly nine years, together with my wife for eleven and a half years and I've fallen for a 20 yr old girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I have been married for nearly nine years and together with my wife for eleven and half years. Recently the marriage has been going through a lull and I fell for a 20 yr old girl. We get on really well and cant stop wanting to be together...

Going through divorce, having an affair but this guy wants to just slow it down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - I was in an abusive marriage for a long time and started an affair with someone I'd been attracted to for a while. This person was a good friend to me and also a confidante. Very quickly my husband and I separated and are going through an ...

I don't like swinging but my husband doesn't want to quit

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been swinging for 3 years and I was never really interested in it to begin with.now when I tell him I dont want to do it anymore he says but we are having fun when in actuality its him having fun. He gets a little to flirty ...

I'm thinking of filling for divorce because my husband never backs me when his friend disrespects me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - I am 50year old woman who has been married for 19 years. My husband isis a retiree. We have a 16 year old autistic son. Since the beginning of my marriage, my husband's best friend has been a thorn in our marriage. His best friend is a 70 year old ...

GF was my Boss's mistress, and she never told anyone until the boss revealed it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4271 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - please help me. i just found out my girlfriend with whom i have recently taken very seriously had an affair with my boss (while he was married. he is still married). she once told me the story of how they met and things that went on. To spare you ...

PMS wife, Tired of being married to a shewolf!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - I've been married for five and a half years, and as far as I can remember my wife has had some pretty vicious PMS. Growing up my mom never did so maybe that's why I never figured out how to deal with it as a man. Previous relationships we...