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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Does he love me even though he says he doesn't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Last school year my friend and I began to hook up. After he graduated he left for an internship across the country and left me in our hometown. While he was there he would say I miss you etc... When he came home before going to college we hooked u...

Is it a good idea to allow my boyfriend to sleep with other girls while I'm away at College?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm eighteen years old and about to go to college. The problem is that my boyfriend doesn't want me to go, because he hasn't finished high school yet. I think it will take him three years to finish, and I don't want to go to a communit...

My deployed Bf does not trust me anymore. How can I make things better between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4283 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hey , I have been with my deployed boyfriend one year and half . We had a great time sure it were a lot up and downs like everyone else. I do love him so much and want to work out things . It just he seems still hurt from his past... And he d...

How can I help my boyfriend and get him to open up about what is troubling him? Or does he need some more support than I can offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Well I'm back together with my long distance boyfriend and everything was great, or so I thought. Lately he's been slowly going back into his old habits we talk less almost not at all and when I do talk to him his responses would be "i don't know" ...

I'm in a LDR and falling for another man. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I've been with my current BF for more than 2 years, but we've spent more than 1.5 years in LDR. Honestly, it's a torture, but we managed to pull it through and in a couple of months we'll be able to see each other again for good (i'm going back ...

Is it really her reputation that she cares about or there's really something she is hiding from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - now, we have been in a long distance relationship for over one years. i think she loves me but that too she likes to flirt with other guys who are good looking. Plus, she never discloses in front of any guy that i am her boyfriend and give me the ...

Is him "opening up" to me a good sign or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - This guy I'm talking to, we are semi LDR (100-ish miles). We've met once, in person, when we first swapped numbers, have been talking ever since end of 2012, we are planning to meet in a few weeks, this has been confirmed. We have built quite...

Accidental phone call leads to devastating news - he's getting married and has been engaged for 6 years! Now he's ended contact! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, plz i need your advice on this becoz i am going through the worst days of my life. i m an indian muslim girl, been in a long distance relationship with a pakhtun pakistani guy since 1 yr. we met online and deeply fell in love with each ...

I want to make a family with him but I don't like how our relationship is on again off again. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4288 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I'm a asian girl who fall in love with a europeian boy that younger than me 3 years , we met each other in my country and we definitely fall in love each other , we 're in relationship until 1 yr 8 months then see each other again ..because that ...

I asked about our relationship status and it comes out that he thinks we should just call ourselves 'friends'! I'm totally heartbroken, should I just say good riddance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a little over a year now and everything seemed to be going well and the relationship was definitely progressing. Because we're long distance however we don't see each other as much as we'd like (but up until this point ...

I fell in love with a boy who lives faraway but only communicates on facebook.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - SO .. I'm in love with a guy .. he's not from my school and he lives near my city ..i see him about 4-5 years and now i started to have feelings for him.. those feelings are very strong it's the first time that im in love like this ..i added him on ...

Should I be concerned that my LDR boyfriend doesn't text or call me as much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm a single mother of two. I've been single for 4 years and while i have went out on dates, I never found anyone that I thought I could have a future with. Here's the thing I met a guy about a month ago, he is really sweet a respectful to me, ...

Perfect LDR Relationship suddenly falling apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi, i am from Toronto and currently in a online relationship with an absolutely amazing man from Florida. We met at a dating site and we clicked immediately after talking for 3days. He told me "I love you" on the third day. i was a bit confused...

I'm a worried girl! Why is he trying this now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - I'm married for over three years now. I'm having 2kids with my husband. My hubby doesn't stay with us, he travels for some months then come back but recently on his 3 consecutive visits, he started wanting to have Anal sex wit me though I hav always ...

Two months no contact. Did she ever really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - Help please, It’s been two months now I haven’t received a call or text from my girlfriend, we were together for three months, during the first month all was fine... Two months back she started complaining about having insufficient airtime...

He keeps saying he'll come see me, but it hasn't happened. He only works 2 days a week, couldn't he find time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - So, I've been talking to this guy for 3 months now via text/couple of phone calls. We met during Christmas break, in person and started talking in a friendly/flirty way, by the end of January/beginning of February, things got a little bit more ...

She's starting a new job soon so I want her to pay towards the rent and bills, how do I bring this up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - So been with gf for 5 years most of long distances. Back in Aug we moved in together I own the house and she was going to pay rent for $250 Month. With her not makes much money I said hold on to it and when u get better job you'll be able to help. ...

If you were in my shoes, would you stay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - i've been seeing a girl for about four months now. i'm very happy with her and we have a very healthy relationship together. she tells me she definitely sees a future with me and i thought i did, too. my problem is that she told me today that sh...

He cheated. I told the girl, but she went back to him and he forgot about me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I Really need help with this one... So I have been doing a long distance relationship with this guy since last january of 2012 I was going to school in vegas and he lives in huntington beach 3 hour drive not bad. We actually saw eachother alot in ...

Long distance guy is refusing to let me follow him on Twitter or add him on Facebook?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Going to try and keep things brief. There's a guy im talking to, we are long distance, he lives about 2 hours away. We originally met in person, we have been speaking for 3 months and have not met since but we are planning a visit sometime within ...

Should I say something to her about how we seem to be drifting apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - My best friend of 10 years is drifting away from me. We've lived in different countries for the last 5 years but had loads of phone contact and it's always back to normal when we see each other. We know the intimate details of each others' lives, ...

Long distance guy doesn't like phone calls. I need more than just texting?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I'm 20, talking to a guy that's 21. We live just over 100 miles away. (I still find that LD if you can't see the person spontaneously) I'm in university and he graduated from university last year, and is now taking a gap year whilst working a...

I met my online long distance guy but is it worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I live in a small city in Canada grew up here all my life and have struggled meeting guys I like. I recently tried match.com and met a guy who lives 90 minutes by ferry away. We had chatted very often for about a month and then we met this past ...

My ldr says I spend more time with my sister than with her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

19 March 2013 (M) - guys am in a long distance relationship with some chick,she introduced me to her sister some months back,weeks after the intro to her sister we had a misunderstanding that led to a breakup,i used 2 call and chat wit her sister during our breakup,we ...

I never thought a long distance relationship would be so hard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, first of all, I really want to thank you for your time and good will to help. :) I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 months now. The last time I saw my boyfriend was a month ago. The problem is - I just miss him so much!...

Army girlfriend problems...should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - H everyone! So I'm dating someone in the army for almost a year although we've known each other for years. He's based in Hawaii while I live in Illinois. We're vey much in love and I know this is the man I'm going to marry. He has three years left ...

Is this a good sign that he would take me seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - He is on a trip for a month or two. before he left we hung out together all the time he always hold my hand trying to get to know my friends, and also told me about all his friends and his life plan. he's really sweet. we kiss all the time and also ...

Why was he lying? I am so confused and heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - heyy ...i need your advise please i know my story will be long but if u have the patience please read it ...thank you. so i was in a relationship with this guy for a year. in the relationship there was passion extreme love...but there wasnt trust fr...

Is there the slightest chance that my deployed exboyfriend with a pregnant ex will contact me or want to get back with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - 4 years ago I met this guy who I really liked, sadly we lost contact and even though I use to think about him loads i accepted it wasn't meant to be. 3 months ago I had a friend request from him on Facebook, I accepted and we got chatting. I went t...

I broke up with him in the hopes that he would realize he still loved me if he felt he was losing me, should I have been more patient?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - I'm unsure if I made a huge mistake or if it is just my mind playing games with me. I had been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. I moved to Florida a year ago so one out of those two years and a half were long distance. At first it wa...

She's not the romantic type and doesn't show her affections very often

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

17 March 2013 (M) - Friends for two years with my now long distance girlfriend, we have been in a relationship for about five months with a view to have our first meeting in person this year (she's in Thailand, I'm in the UK). The problem is, she's not the romantic ...

How to go about confused situation of my new relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

15 March 2013 (F) - I am interested in a guy I have met through a matrimonial site, I have never seen him in person as he lives abroad for work. Since, we have talked on phone and chatted on the internet, I feel like he is very close to the ideal man i imagine ...

Do I tell my girlfriend about my past?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

14 March 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and it has been going great. I work in a different state but travel often to see her and will be seeing her in a month. In one of our recent conversations a topic i am not comfortable with ...

Should I leave him or stay because I have had enough of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

14 March 2013 (F) - I have been in a LDR with my bf n have been together for about 4years now.im from another province from his.So i started stayin with him this year. Things have been very hard for me coz he would choose to go watch soccer at night and leave me alone...

I'm HIV positive, how do I tell my LDR guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

14 March 2013 (F) - Hi guys I'm in long distance relationship.I love the guy with all my heart.We haven't had any sexual connection.My problem is that he is soo crazy about me and he wants to move to my city.How can I tell him I'm hiv positive.I'm afraid to lose him...

Why can he talk to his ex and I can't talk to my male friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

14 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and He's a little Controlling. He asked me to stop talking to a few of my fella friends and I said no and he got annoyed! Anyway...we've started arguing over his ex. You see when they were going ...

I've fallen for him. Should I tell him how I feel, or am I just over thinking everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4300 days ago

14 March 2013 (F) - So the first time that I talked to (Male person) was when I still thought that he was taken. So I teased him. But the real first time we really hit it off was at a church dance when I found out that he had broken up with his gf a few weeks ago. At ...

LDR "boyfriend" has changed his mind and says he doesn't want to talk as much as he did?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

13 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and this guy are sort of in an LDR thing. We met in December and swapped numbers (we met in person) but I was visiting a friend 100 miles away and that's where I met the guy and he is coming to visit me in my town in a few weeks t...

Boyfriend says four is too many guys to have been intimate with. He broke up with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

12 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. Few hours later we decided to make it a short break of 2 days or so just to take some time off. The reason why that happened? I told him that I have been intimate with four guys before we met(We are in a ...

His actions are not what I would expect from someone who claims to love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) - During my freshman year at college i met a guy we are from the same country, we were friends but not that close we just greeted each other when we met in the collidors, and then a year passed by without seeing him or hearing from him and then last ...

Are these double standards? My LDR likes it when I send a sexy video but he is refusing to send one back!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has double standards. We're in an LDR (it's relatively new - coming up to 3 months) and whenever he's horny, I will send him a picture sometimes, not every time and the pics are not fully nude, but something sexy and I have sent a s...

My long term boyfriend will not help me with my application. This is stressing me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

10 March 2013 (F) - This is my problem. I’ve been with this guy for almost for years in distance relationship. Last year I couldn’t fix things with moving my studies to his country so I broke up with him, because I didn’t have strength to do it anymore but really s...

He betrayed my trust by kissing a girl but I don't want to be the clingy girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

9 March 2013 (F) - For the past 6 months or so I've been in a long distance relationship. It was fine, although I missed him (we saw each other every 4-5 weeks). That was until he told me he kissed someone at a party and on that occasion he also said that he 'kind of' ...

Been getting to know a long distance guy, but he doesn't seem to ask me any questions about me on a deeper level?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, Before I start, this question is related to a long-distance relationship, and I know that there are many people out there that criticize it and are not open to saying anything good about it, so I would appreciate logical answers ...

I'm meeting my LDR girlfriend for the second time and I'm afraid I'll run out of things to say!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

7 March 2013 (M) - I have been in a long distance relationship for almost five months now. We have been chatting for close to a year, and I spent an amazing week with her recently - it went far better than I expected it to go, and my girlfriend just couldn't be any ...

He abandoned me in a strange city!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F) - I could do with some wisdom/isight/davice/thoughts on this...thanks Last weekend it was arranged that myself and a man I having been casually seeing on and off (he lives in another country) would meet in Milan. This involved me flying over from...

Should I move to be with him in a culture that will stifle me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I was living abroad the last 5 years and only this year i came back to UK, when i was abroad I met an Arabic guy and we developed a friendship, he is unlike the majority or Arabs he is kind of wild, out going and he loves a party as ...

A question of freedom, I like spending most of my time with my boyfriend and he always needs his space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) - What should you do when u like spending most of ur time with ur bf and he always needs his space? I m almost 4 years with my bf on distance relationship and we re planning on moving together this year. But what is concerning me lately is that e...

I'm worried that this girl might start flirting with my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (?) - Hello everyone I apologize in advance for this being long but I need some serious advice. I'll just start off by saying I have been in a long distance relationship for almost two years with a really amazing person. We are both around the same age ...

I've been fantasizing about my boyfriend's brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now and recently had a baby 5 months ago. I love him so much and he means everything to me. Like all couples we have our ups and downs but lately its been on the rocky side. Just problems with ...