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writes:guys am in a long distance relationship with some chick,she introduced me to her sister some months back,weeks after the intro to her sister we had a misunderstanding that led to a breakup,i used 2 call and chat wit her sister during our breakup,we ended up as great friends with the sister such that we chat and talk everyday,now we have kissed and made up with my lady and she is giving me tough time about her sister,she complains that we are to close and we spend more time on the phone as i spend with her...help guys wher did i go wrong and how do i fix this...
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reader, sneha09  +, writes (21 March 2013):
 Better if you get answered by a man because most girls are going to say you to stop talking to her sister.Its not that you have some bad intentions but the thing is that this thing can reduce your girlfriend's confidence to a great level(even if she is not insecure).
When she urges to talk to you,you were spending your time with her sister.That may make her think she loves a person who is less concerned about her,who doesn't like to spend time with her as much she likes or who is too much bored with her yet she can't do anything because she loves that person.
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reader, LususNaturae  +, writes (20 March 2013):
If you want a relationship with her the only way to do that is to stop talking to her sister altogether... ignore her even. If you can't do that then you don't really want to be with her and it would be best to just break it off instead of string her along.
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