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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Help please, It’s been two months now I haven’t received a call or text from my girlfriend, we were together for three months, during the first month all was fine...Two months back she started complaining about having insufficient airtime which I don’t believe to be true, she is 20 years old at college and I don’t buy her story of not having airtime...Whenever I called her she was this loving girlfriend I met but my problem is that she can’t spend time with me. Help! Does she really love me or she is playing with my feelingsThank u
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 March 2013):
 I'm sorry OP,
she never loved you
she's not worth the pain and effort you are going through now
delete her info and move on.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (22 March 2013):
No offense but if you still question what's going on after two months with no contact, then that's the real issue here.
To most people, two WEEKS (or less) of no contact should be sufficient to take a hint.
I doubt whether the two of you ever had a real relationship. It sounds like you made a bigger deal out of things than they really were. That's my guess, but I'm not sure how to offer any advice here.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 March 2013):
 I think you can be safe in assuming she does not love you. How much time did you spend together before things fell apart? And I mean, in real life, face-to-face, actual real time breathing the same air in the same room.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (22 March 2013):
 2 months and no contact? OP you have the answer right here she doesn't want this!although its very immature of her to disappear without saying anything!
May be her priority is 'college' now,I think you should take a few steps back and let her make her choice!not contacting you for 2 months I think she already as!
But if you need closure,you could call her and ask\tell her that you feel the relationship is reaching a dead end as she has disconnected herself from you,and if she wants 'out' then so be it but you need to hear it from her,so you can move on!!
Good luck OP
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