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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:now, we have been in a long distance relationship for over one years. i think she loves me but that too she likes to flirt with other guys who are good looking. Plus, she never discloses in front of any guy that i am her boyfriend and give me the excuses that she doesn't want her reputation to go down.One day, when some of her friends(who were only boys) came to her house and started teasing her by my name. she called me and told me that i am a nerd and that she hates me, and wanna leave me forever. but suddenly after her friends left she called me and said that she said that only to save her reputation. now the thing is that after four or five days after this incident, she told her friends(who were again boys) that i am not a virgin and that i use girls for sex and leave them.When I again asked her why she did this, she again said the same thing that she doesn't want her reputation to go down.Is it really her reputation that she cares about or there's really something she is hiding from me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 March 2013):
 NEVER take abuse from anyone. This young lady is being emotionally abusive towards you.
I would consider breaking up with her if she can't stop putting you down in public.
If a person can't be committed in public as well as in private then they are not truly in the relationship.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (27 March 2013):
Man, I know you're young, but it's time to learn that you need to stand up for yourself. If that means leaving someone who you like (but who disrespects you because of peer pressure) than so be it.
Is something going on? Yes! She's being a crappy girlfriend! Drop her and find someone who will treat you properly. Then she'll start respecting you because you'll show her you have some balls.
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