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Is this a good sign that he would take me seriously?

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Question - (18 March 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2013)
A female Thailand age 30-35, *btts writes:

He is on a trip for a month or two. before he left we hung out together all the time he always hold my hand trying to get to know my friends, and also told me about all his friends and his life plan. he's really sweet. we kiss all the time and also he kisses my forehead a lot too.

before he goes he said "take care,hopefully I'll see you soon.be good" so I laugh and said "you too, be good" then he just laugh and said "yes" is that mean something about being faithful to him?

because if it is I'd think I could take us exclusively. he also messaged me this morning when he arrived the hotel thought asked me if I'm coping without him. and it's been 2 days now he still messaged me everyday. is this a good sign that he would take me seriously?

oh I forgot to tell that he told his parents about meeting me and travelled with me last week. and also his friends too. but I haven't have a chance to talk to anyone of them yet. He also still friends with his ex and he told her about me. not in details though.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntOP, stop guessing. stop wondering... stop assuming.

just because a man says he wants to see your beautiful smile when he returns is not an implication of exclusivity.

DO NOT pin your hopes and dreams on a man that is not even there...

just because he's texting every day does not mean you are a couple or exclusive or that he isn't texting 3 or 4 other girls at the same time.

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A female reader, Nbtts Thailand +, writes (19 March 2013):

Nbtts is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you! It's been 3 days now and he still keeps messaging me everyday :) I guess I kinda know where about I stand . Well I guess :p

He also says that he wants to see my beautiful smile when he comes back. Then I guess he implied that I shouldn't go out with othe guys. Well at least that's what he wants :)

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony aunt"he kisses my forehead a lot too"

seriously... this is NOTHING honey... my husband never kisses my forehead. EVER.

IF you two have not discussed if you are in a serious committed monogamous relationship then ASSUME you are NOT.

being good to me means not getting arrested..... maybe it means the same to him.

NO WHERE does "being good" imply that you two are a committed monogamous couple.

Wait till he returns from his trip to evaluate where it's going.

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