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female
age
30-35,
*anlow
writes:During my freshman year at college i met a guy we are from the same country, we were friends but not that close we just greeted each other when we met in the collidors, and then a year passed by without seeing him or hearing from him and then last year during my third year we met again and we exchanged phone numbers and from that day on we have been communicating on skype, facebook and whatsapp. he never really called and one day when we were intouch on skype he told me that he likes me and i told him i liked him too and he invited me to his place, we live in two different cities and i went down to his place we made out and nothing happened afterward and he told me he loves me, and without being sure what i was saying i told him i loved him too even though i did not expect these words too soon like that. and he asked if we could start dating that will read to a relationship and i agreed. he kept joking about our future about having kids with me and starting a family and i did not respond anything to that, after i left we kept in touch through skype and texting and never really called on my cell. and one day he just stopped texting for 4 days and i never texted him and on the 5th day he just texted me whats up? and i never replied because thats not what i expected from him to say after disappearing for 4 days in other words we are no longer in touch like we used to when we were just friend. i need help on what to do about his behaviour which is living me in doubt because the bottom line is i like him and i think about him all the time but his actions are not what i am expecting from the way he treated me when i visited him and what he said to me.. that meant so much to me
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (12 March 2013):
He doesnt sound like someone who's really interested. You nevr got a good foundation in the first place, then to build this relationship on a long distance level doesnt seem practical to me.
Just relax and keep an open mind. He may not be the one for you. Watch his actions and see if he qualifies to be your bf. Meaningless msgs that come once in a blue moon are not acceptable. He must show effort that he also wants this to work. Otherwise my conclusion is that he just wanted a bit of fun.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 March 2013):
 there is no way he loves you or you love him... folks that throw "I love you" around like that can't really understand what love means...
you like him... but the first time you met with him you were physical... not a good move for a woman who wants a man to respect her. Sadly many men will judge you if you are physical with them too soon.
he said he loved you so you would have sex with him.
forget about him and move on to someone new.
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