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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

B/f broke up because of my good looks and what his friend said??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, It took me two days to even talk about this,cause I'm unable to wrap around what happened to me.. My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me yesterday for a reason sooo silly and immatur'ish' if I can say.. When he first met me,he was very...

Once I ejaculate, I tend to never want to see them again. Is this normal???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - I'm 17 and I'm always making new friends on Omegle. I'm gay and tend to masturbate with the strangers on there. Once I ejaculate, I tend to never want to see them again. Is this normal? Or is it a psychological reaction? Also, do you think i...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

Could my hunch be right? Could he turn into a stuffy old man who doesn't know how to love life and enjoy life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I feel really comfortable with him. But something bothers me. He does not seem to have many friends. Perhaps no close friends at all. He talk about work colleagues. It's as if he arrived in this world and never made ...

I think I like a guy my friend used to date and had a recent break up with. Where do I go with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hey, I have this friend who i've only ever seen as a friend but recently i've started to think differently about him. I think he's pretty attractive but he makes me laugh all the time and ive started to think that maybe i do fancy him and am inter...

How can I rebuild relationships with friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - i'm really disappointed in my self. i made a group of friends a year ago and over time i have dissapointed them because they told me they always have to take care of me and my things because i get drunk and loose my stuff and never come on time. ...

Do I help a friend? Or choose my ex and hope that she chooses me also?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - my ex girlfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago. we broke up for a lot of different reasons. we love each other but we are very different people with very different personalities and viewpoints. we have had talk of getting back together bu...

Am I too old school or he has boundary issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I am having some issues in my relationship, and I don’t know if its due to boundaries issues or me being old school. I grew up with a lot of guys, I get along with guys better than girls, but I have female friends ...

I can't date him but don't want my friend to date him either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I've recently joined a band and have feelings for member in it. He asked me if I liked him but I didn't want to make things awkward in our band so said know even though I really like him. Over the last few days a friend of mine has been talking to ...

Boyfriend often visits Facebook of a sexy bikini girl as an entertainment. Is it okay for a serious relationship with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. The matter I'm going to talk about is: Faithfulness! (oh yeah old issue) *** Brief of the matter: I've just found out he often visits Facebook page of a sexy party clubbing young girl; and sometimes leaves comments, link of song, fl...

Does anyone else have this problem where you're really good friends with someone one day, and the next day you wish you weren't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Like, I will be the first to admit that I love making online friends. It's so much easier to communicate, and there's no judgement in between. It's fun, right? But there's one guy I'm friends with. I've been online friends with him for about... 7 ...

Still single and sick of it. How do I put the Zippity Do Dah into my life and Spice things up enough, to learn how to successfully date and become a partner to a nice girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - I posted here before 4 years ago. I imagine you probably receive hundreds of messages like this regularly. I thought long and hard about whether to actually send it. I actually wrote something sinilar to this at the beginning of the year ju...

Guys please: Considering that I'm a 20 year old virgin, the question is, am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I should also start by pointing out that I'm not fat or ugly, in fact I'm blonde with big boobs (both of which are real), a small waist and really good skin (I swear I'm not super up myself). I've dated (bu...

Why is he so interested to see the inside of my home? Does this mean he wants to get serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hello y'all , I have been dating a guy for a few months - close to 3, but I have known him for a while. We were friends before anything happend. Things seem to be going well, we don't text every day, more like every other and I see him once, so...

How do I come out to my Mom and tell her that I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the ...

How to fall out of love with best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Long story short; two years ago, I made the classic mistake of falling for a guy who I was in a "friends-with-benefits" situation with. I was a completely innocent, naive sixteen year old, and he was eighteen and pretty experienced. I'd love to ...

Is it too late to send a gift to a friend who helped me in a bad time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - i recently got a divorce and don't have alot of friends but one of my friends here offered me to stay with her. i lived with her for a month crying and moaning about everything but did not even get anything for her, just a card and i feel really bad ...

Its been 5 days and he has not contacted me. Any ideas why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - I went for a drink with an acquaintance last Wednesday night. I wasn't sure if it was a date or not as we were sort-of-friends, but we didn't know each other very well, nor had we ever spent any time along together -- anyway, we had a really good ...

How do I help my friend? She's afraid to tell her family that she might be gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My best friend and I come from two very different backgrounds, she's from a religious family who don't accept homosexuality, I come from a family who support gay rights. She was talking to me the other day and said that she was scared she might be...

Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...

Why did he stand me up???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - I met a guy on a dating site a little bit over a month ago. And since day one we would text every day. He was looking for friends at the moment since he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship two months prior to meeting him on this site. we ...

Why has he contacted me after 5 months? Does he want me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I have had no communication with the guy I was in a friends with benefits (FWB) relationship with for the last 1yr 4 months - now 5 months later I receive an email from him out of the blue saying 'Hope you are fine. Tell me what is ...

Just when I thought I was over her, the feelings have returned with a vengeance! How can I let her go for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, I am in a bit of an odd situation here... So, many years ago back in 10th grade, I met a girl, and fell hopelessly in love with her. I thought about her every single day. She was perfect to me, and I connected with her on an intellectu...

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice ab...

He's a great guy, but modestly uptight...should I give him a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hey Cupid, I need some advice. I struck up a conversation with this guy over the summer and we hit it off pretty well. Since our second date, we've established contact on the phone and he's a nice guy to talk to. Personally I feel as thou...

Do I tell my former teacher how I feel and risk ruining our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - I am a freshmen in college now about to be 19. For the past 4 years I spent in high school, I grew extremely close with my high school band director: single, no kids, late 20's. Problem: I have developed STRONG feelings for him, perhaps even fallen ...

Who do I believe? My friend? Or the guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Sorry in advance, this is probably going to be long. I've been joking up with this guy since July. From the beginning we said it wasn't going to be serious and if either of us wanted it to end we would say it flat out. We got closer over the weeks ...

How can I encourage a girl to love me again? Because she hates me now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - there was a girl she loved me but i broke her heart. She told me her secrets and i told only my best friend. He told her. i love her so much and she hates me now i tried to talk to her but she dont want to talk to me now i said sorry to her and...

I want to make new friends but can't seem to do so

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - hi, this is just a list of my feeling and i would like to know if anyone has any ideas on how to help me get out of this rut. ok so i used to have a group of good friends but they went to university and i stayed here and its not easy to travel t...

My friend/partner took advantage of us while they were housesitting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - My husband, son and I went on holiday last month for 2 weeks to a family wedding abroad. Usually when we go away my mum has a spare set of keys and comes to check on the house etc... However this time she was coming with us so my friend and her ...

Help!!! I'm so unhappy with myself... how can I pull myself out of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I'm so unhappy with myself. I'm a terrible person and have lost all the people from my life because of it. i had a best friend from 13 years who did a lot for me and gave me eveything i wanted. i betrayed him and asked him to leave when he ...

Help!!! I want to be MORE than just friends with her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - I'm 34, only recently discovered I'm an introvert. I'm not much outgoing since I truly hate loud groups of people. I'm not a very quick speaker, or overly witty. But i'm a kind guy and I know who I am and I know I'll make a great boyfriend for ...

Waiting for her email.... or taking action?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - I had an amazing 3 month relationship with a girl. After 2 months she started pulling away, avoiding sex. After 2 weeks of that we had a confrontation about it and she said she still wanted to be together. She lives in another city so after 2 ...

Help!!! How do I take things to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - hello , added this girl on facebook about 6 months ago, messaged each other every day, got her number and started flirting and chatting each other up. Eventualy i ask to meet her so we met up, at the end of the day (we only whent to town) she ...

Is it normal to get on so well with a mother in law?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I am getting married in six months to my boyfriend of 4 years. I have known my fiancé since we were toddlers, and know his parents for almost as long. His parents like me a lot, and mine like him. I get on really we with my (soon to be) mother i...

I'm getting confusing signals from her... is she interested, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Maybe you all can help me make sense of this. There’s this girl at school that I really like, but she’s being so confusing. I met her last year. We have some of the same friends, but have never really spent much time together one on one. We were ...

Is telling the truth one option? How do I get out of this tangled web of lies that I created? My Imaginary Gay Boyfriend is causing problems with my ex and I

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Firstly let me just say that I am a really honest guy, who doesn't normally lie (truth) (Hard to believe when you hear my story). But one lie I told recently has snowballed into ...

Just want to be friends. Should I be afraid to text him? Because I don't want to seem desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - So about two months ago, my crush's girlfriend broke up with him. Until then I didn't really know him, but we're in the same major and he likes to hug people so he'd always give me a hug. After a while I got his number and we talked and flirt...

Man with little response...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I have been spending time with a man who became a widower 18 months ago. I didn't want to be involved in a rebound situation and he admitted he felt vulnerable so we literally are just friends. The problem is, now I have been spending time with him ...

Shall I walk away, or take a very big risk???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I have Just started some part time work after getting my life back together from an abusive relationship. A man in my work place has for several weeks been friendly but until recently didn't realise he was attracted towards me. He has now made it ...

Help!!! How can you be in love with someone you have never seen???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - Hi I really need some advice. I have been talkin to a guy over the phone for 4 months. I know him since over a year since we used to Facebook chat regularly. I'm 18 and he is 25. Our families know each other very well and are practically fami...

I do love him... but do I love him enough to be with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I'm so depressed and have no zest for living anymore. I just feel so alone and stupid.... I'm 22 years old, and i recently broke up with my bf (28) after 2 and half years. My bf/ex was working in the states alone for the whole of our relationshi...

If you love them... TELL THEM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I loved jake. I really did but he was so popular and I was like the most un-popular person in school so i was scared to tell him. Eventually I told him i loved him... He went quiet and Macenzie asked what was wrong and he told EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!! H...

If I play out this fantasy will is ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I am single, not been seeing anyone lately and I have a friend (a boy) who i spend lots of time with, he is younger than me about 2 years, I am 25 and he is 23 and I knew since i met him and he wanted to f*** me and I didn't think of him in any way ...

It's weird to think that it was only a week ago yesterday that I had really strong feelings for him and now, well they're gone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - How is it my feelings for this guy disappeared so quickly! The guy who I had liked for two months and used to get butterflies in my stomach over, when we kissed i got that tingle feeling and i was in complete bliss whenever i was around him. He is ...

Why do you think she would have just stopped texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M) - This girl I like we would always see each other on nights out, kiss a lot and just have banter, it was really nice. But then recently I started becoming lazy in texting her and I could tell things were dying out with us when we saw each other, i ...

I got too clingy! How can I show him that the old me is back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - please help ive made an awful mess of this. ok i have a good friend and during the summer we became close. hes been with a girl 5 years. she has a lot of issues which hes explained. she needs lots of space, goes out drinking with guys from work and...

I don't approve of boyfriends friendship with this girl. what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been arguing for the past few days about his friendship with a girl who continuously flirts with him. he says the flirting has stopped after the first time I confronted him about her texting him saying"call me so j can give...

She is not demonstrative. Am I unreasonable being irked that she will not initiate any hugging nor kisssing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (M) - Hey everyone, I've been a relationship for the past 2.5 years now. I'm 18 and my girlfriend is also 18 and we are each others first boyfriend and girlfriend. We have chosen not to have sex until marriage however there is always one thing that bu...

It feels like people in this Gaming club hate me. How do I still enjoy the club and make friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - So I joined my school's gaming club, because I love gaming and I want to meet other gamers, but almost all of the people in the gamer club seem to hate me, because one time I was with one of their friends and they kept bugging me and I lost my ...