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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey,I have this friend who i've only ever seen as a friend but recently i've started to think differently about him. I think he's pretty attractive but he makes me laugh all the time and ive started to think that maybe i do fancy him and am interested in just seeing where this goes. The only problem is that my best friend fancied him for ages and they were seeing each other, he only recently told her that he just couldnt see them as more than friends. I really want to see if anything can happen with this guy but i think my friend is still hung up on him and i cant do anything to ruin our friendship, i dont want to talk to her about it either as im not 100% if i really do like him or if im just lonely and want male company, in which case i dont want to cause a big fuss with her over nothing. I dont know what to do :(Confused x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 October 2012):
 Yep, you better be prepared to lose your best friend if you make a move on the guy.
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reader, MrBrightside90  +, writes (31 October 2012):
Well this is just a male perspective, But if my best friend did something like this it would ruin the friendship quite a bit.
I really dont mean to scare you, but there is this chance that your relationship with your friend will be damaged. That being said, if you fancy the guy super super much than its worth a risk ?
;) good luck!
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