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writes:I'm 17 and I'm always making new friends on Omegle.I'm gay and tend to masturbate with the strangers on there. Once I ejaculate, I tend to never want to see them again. Is this normal? Or is it a psychological reaction?Also, do you think it's okay to go out with men 2 years older than you and overseas, even though you have so much in common?Thank you :D
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (31 October 2012):
 You're masturbating online with other guys, right?? Omegle tends to cultivate an anonymous atmosphere because there are many like you who like to chat, masturbate, ejaculate, and go.
It's very common, gay and straight, for people to have anonymous cybersex with others. It's also common to not want to have any sort of relationship or future dealings with that person. In fact, many have convinced themselves that online isn't real.
In your case, I would caution you to not make Omegle your sole contact with people, because this isn't the way relationships work. Having a revulsion with your cyber partners could be indicative of you wanting to hide your sexual orientation and therefore wanting to run from the evidence of it. Are you out with your family and friends?? Not that you have to be, but if you're in the closet, it makes sense that you're trying to cover your tracks.
Same with the being with guys overseas. Overseas means you don't have them in your life, known to your friends and family. Someday, you'll want to be yourself in public.
Keep Omegle in moderation. Too much or obsessive use is unhealthy, and you can bet that when you find a partner in real life, they won't like your use on that site. Omegle is *not* porn, and having cybersex with real people online is viewed as cheating when you're in a relationship.
Just my two cents.
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