A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, this is just a list of my feeling and i would like to know if anyone has any ideas on how to help me get out of this rut.ok so i used to have a group of good friends but they went to university and i stayed here and its not easy to travel to see them. they are always going out to clubs and stuff with there new freinds and things and im just sat here nearly all day doing nothing.i have tried making new friends but its not easy as i lost a lot friends when i came out as gay so now i have no confidence. im hoping to start a job soon in a call centre, it will be my first job ever, well thats not true i do vollenteer at a charity shop but i hate it. im hoping to make some friends if i but its not easy for me. im very shy and not talkative until i get to know people better but by then they have given up on me.i just dont know what to do. i used to be happy now im just alone all the time. i dont want to look back on my life in 30 years (ill be 50) and think why didnt i do something. i even tried being on youtube and while i do entertain people its not like having friends. i dont know what to do, im not Suicidal or anything. any suggestions will do. please
View related questions:
confidence, shy, university Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 October 2012):
 Get involved with more stuff! Like maybe, volunteer at a local theater. They always needs folks - techies, ushers, even actors (if you're into that). You can meet a lot of awesome people there working alongside of you, not to mention the audiences you'll meet all the nights of the show.
Get out there and get involved with new and different stuff! You'll be sure to meet new and different people. Good luck!
|
