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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Me and my boyfriend are terrible at communicating, can this be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are terrible at communicating, can this be fixed? We have been together for over 3 years but I still find it very difficult to talk to him about the future or anything like that. I know we can't go on like this, but I feel...

Where do I stand with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - Hi all I am going to try and cut to the chase here, I am confused about where I stand with this guy I met. Initially, the guy who I shall name L, approached me 1st in a bar when me and my friend were sat alone in the corner. My friend who is as in...

Am I being unreasonable in expecting my boyfriend to spend less time with his friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 28 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person I have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of ...

How late is too late to start dating in the modern world?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

30 September 2013 (M) - How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start looking for a relationship. 25? 30? 35? I mean, to really just START! Never been on a date before, never had sex, maybe never even kissed a girl. This could all be due to many combi...

New to sex and finding it uncomfortable. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

30 September 2013 (M) - Sup everyone. So I lost my virginity a few days ago with this girl I'm in a LTR with. We ended up having sex twice that night, and once more yesterday. The thing is I'm having issues/weird feelings while having sex. This might get graphic but this ...

Did he see this as a one-night thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - I have a complicated situation. A week ago, I met a guy while out, and we ended up hanging out all night (just hanging out). I am 31, and I found out later that he is only 21!!! He is not your typical 21 year old at all, more mature, lives on his ...

Together for over 5 years and yet we hardly see each other. Is moving in together the best way to improve the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - Should I move in with my boyfriend even though we hardly see each other? We have been together for over 5 years, but due to his work schedule and social commitments, we see each other once a week at the most. I don't feel we are 'serious' enough to ...

I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend I'd like to have time to spend with my friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

29 September 2013 (M) - I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend I'd like to have time to spend with my friends. We have opposite schedules at the moment for the most part, so she thinks I have all this free time when she isn't around when I really don't. In fact it makes...

I am afraid that our "relationship" is more physical than emotional for him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I've been dating this man for about 2 months now and am concerned where our "relationship" is going. When we first started talking I told him I was not interested in any type of relationship or fling or anything in between. Despite that we began ...

Yells, screams and is needlessly hostile to me. How do I deal with my BF when he is like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Needlessly hostile boyfriend, hard to deal with. I'm on my last nerve with my boyfriend, and I feel like I have no one else to turn to. We've been dating for over a year, and we're both 21. This weekend was supposed to be a good, fun couple of days ...

She's unhappy about it. Is it wrong to be in a casual relationship with a guy who has an open relationship with his Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Is it wrong of me to be continuing a casual relationship with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl, and the girl is beginning to be unhappy about it? It's nothing serious between us (though it is ongoing, around once or twice a ...

My new boyfriend's ex is pregnant. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - I am a 22 year old girl who has a 27 year old boyfriend of one month. It basically took us 3 months to actually become an item, we are so alike yet different, I guess that's why we connect, love each other dearly. Our worst fear is losing each ...

What advice should I give my friend about dating/sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

28 September 2013 (M) - Here goes nothing. I have a friend of my mine who is a girl that disclosed some stuff to me. We are close friends. Basically she "dated" this guy for about 3 weeks. I put in quotes because until the 3rd week - they really didn't go on full blown ...

How do I cope with my girlfriend when she's immature and aggressive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

27 September 2013 (M) - my girlfriend is 18 in a few months and im 20 were at the same college and our classes are close as she does photography and i do graphic design. anyway lately i asked her at college to help me do some photography and she said yes but when we ...

The night we met she went out had sex with her ex afterwards!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

27 September 2013 (M) - Advice needed please! I met this girl a couple of months ago on a night out with friends, we hit it off straight away, swapped numbers and had a really good time that night. We started dating soon after and are going steady now. Everything h...

We've Only Been Dating for 5 Days and He Jokes About Marriage, Meeting the Family, and Spending Holidays Together?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - Help me.... I've been dating this person for 4-5 days and he is scaring me off with jokes about marriage and making future plans to meet my family and spend the holidays together. We've known eachother for a few months now, in which he express...

I'm in love with him so why do I think about other men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I really love the guy I'm with. the mention of his name makes me smile uncontrollably. I smile regardless if I'm telling stories about our arguments or something funny he's done. He's absolutely amazing. we have been together for 3 months but I've ...

Interest's gone sour! Should I ask her about him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Hi folks, I had a similar question asked and answered here before but now I've got another querry on the same matter. A friend of mine wanted to set me up with a friend of her. At first, he wasn't up for it. When he saw me, he changed his mind. ...

What should I do about my ex and dating my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend (lets call him, George) of 8months and i currently broke up (14th Sept) and i went out the same night and spent time with one of my friends lets call him Pete. So Pete came and picked me up that night because i was upset and fe...

Why would he still want to keep the relationship if he has no time for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Hi, it's been 3 months now and I only met my bf twice. I understood that he has just been promoted from his job and needs a lot of travel. But then during his free time, he wouldn't at least meet me for an hour or two regardless of the fact that his ...

If I'm a lovely guy then why haven't I had one date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

26 September 2013 (M) - I've had replies from here before but nobody could suggest anything that worked so I'll try again. I'm 37 now and have never been in any kind of relationship in my entire life. No woman has ever been sexually attracted to me and I have never ev...

I asked him out over facebook and don't know what to say if he calls and accepts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - So I asked a guy out the other day, unfortunately via facebook although it was really my only option. We were studying together, but our course ended- we were never friends, but were only friendly terms.. The problem is that he doesn't use f...

My dad doesn't want me to date my boyfriend?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 20. I have been dating him for nearly a year and a half now but my parents never approved. My mom doesn't say much about the relationship but my dad is being stubborn and keeps comparing it to the past/bad ...

I'm not sure I can get into the dirty talk!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - I am in a new relationship and one of the things that my guy likes is rough sex. I can handle rough sex, but he also likes dirty talk like saying words like whore. I'm not sure if I can get into it. I'm trying to be positive about it since I have ...

Boyfriend's dad has terminal cancer and we're having trouble. Do I talk to him about things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - I was wanting to have a serious relationship chat with my bf of 6 yrs, about whether he actually wanted to be with me because he never seems that happy and thus I am never that happy. However, we've just found out his dad has lung cancer which is ...

My date stared at me intensely all night. I mentioned it to him and he said we were too different??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - I've been getting along well with this guy. We went on a date a few days ago and it all went well. However, throughout the date all he did was stare. Please, I'm really not big headed. But it was so intense that I became really awkward and shy....

Should I tell my partner that I'm ready to marry now? Or wait?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - ive been thinking of it for quite sometime now... ive been with my partner for 9 long years but have not decided to ger married yet... well he did ask me once 5yrs ago but i told him im not ready yet since then we havent talked about it again... our ...

My boyfriend says I don't have enough experience

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend told me last night that he is concerned that I don't have enough sexual experience for him to get more serious about our relationship. He is concerned that since I have only been in one other serious relationship that I cant be ready ...

Why do girls go out with swag kids who wear skinny jeans??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

25 September 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, too make a long story short, i am currently a senior in high school, and i have alot of pride in myself and high standards for myself, i stick out more then alot of other students at my high school, every guy wheres skinny jeans and ...

"I'll love you even if we break up": why would a guy say that?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months had a few drinks on Friday and said "I love you, I'll love you even if we break up". He also said he's decided he's too "selfish" to have a child. I didn't engage the conversation because he had been drinking. He knows I ...

Boyfriend in the army and I miss him. Do these kind of relationships work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - Well the start of this month I met my boyfriend and started dating him.. I haven't seen him for three weeks. I'm so used to seeing guys that I date a lot. But I hardly see my boyfriend I'm not sure whether to feel fine to miss him or if I am stupid ...

Does looking at and smiling at another woman in class mean a guy is interested in her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

24 September 2013 (?) - Hello. Just wondering what everybody thinks. My boyfriend is a group fitness instructor at a gym. I take part in some of his classes sometimes. What I noticed is that he has looked at an attractive blonde who is at the front of his cla...

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl who likes him and it really bothers me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - Hey everyone so I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or what. But my boyfriend has a girl best friend I'm not used to dating guys who have girl best friends infact I absolutely hate it! But he's been friends with her way before we started dating. They ...

Should I move on or give him some time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - I've been on a few dates with this guy and he has been a gentleman, very romantic etc. He tells me that he likes me over and over again and that he wants to get to know me. We have kissed and cuddled only. Now my problem/ confusion is tha...

Does he care about me? He's so busy training!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - I am in a new relationship where we have not yet decided if we want to take it real serious yet. We have just been getting to know each other. He has decided to get back into MMA fighting which I don't mind, but his time is going to become consumed ...

I don't want to think I'm damaged but how do I get over a bad relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - I left a very abusive relationship a couple of months ago, and in class I've met a wonderful law student who is helping me with all the legal issues involving my ex. He has been very kind and supportive and always encourages me to keep pursuing ...

How can you practice kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - Hey. :) So I have a serious issue. I got a date to homecoming and everyone keeps saying the guy is gonna kiss me. Problem is, I have no idea how to kiss. I've never had my first kiss and I'm not one to like practice bc how are you supposed to ...

How do I bring it up in a conversation to ask if he's married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - On Saturday, I went to a club and danced with a guy. Since I was there with my friends, I didn't want to come back with him but I gave him my number and told him to meet me after. He said he needed to take his buddy back so it was perfect. Long...

Does anyone know what guys really want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Just a quick question, male and female answers welcome! It's just that there are sooo many do's/don't with dating/relationships and they all seem to contradict each other!! Mainly, I always maintain my independence with guys to 'give them space' but ...

He says he loves me, then says I'll be amazing for someone else ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a while now, we want to take things slow but he says things that make me feel like he doesn't want me. I'm left confused about the situation and I need some clarity. Last night he told me how much he Loved me....

Do I ask her before I touch more intimately?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - Dear all, I am very inexperienced with women, although I do currently have a lovely girlfriend who I love and adore so very much. We've been intimate with touching each other, but I just had to ask how touch can be taken further? I massage my gir...

My boyfriend says "don't get used to me doing things for you" and then does nice things. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, So I got into a tiff my boyfriend..earlier during the date he said 'don't get used to me doing things for you' and I don't know why he would say that when I don't make him do anything.. He never lets me pay when we go out infact w...

But why won't the next man suffer for my last relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - When most men that are approaching me seems to be using the same line the last one used to get me. I am a very successful young woman. A Christian, Community organizer, ambitious with awesome career since out of high school. My last relation...

He didn't celebrate my birthday. Am I overreacting if I break things off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month now. As far as I know, we have been seeing each other exclusively. Things have been going well this far until my birthday yesterday. I had a birthday dinner with friends scheduled for the day before my ...

My boyfriend believes I don't know how to act in social situations.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now, and in the last few months he's been making comments that have made me think he is getting annoyed at the fact I am quite shy. I've always been that way - I was seriously shy as...

Am I the only one feeling this way? Does he miss me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - I was with this guy for only a little over a month. We were very close and bonded very well. But he felt I was insecure and kept pushing him away when he was trying to get to know me better, therefore he decided to cut off completely. It's been two ...

Normal or potential abusive boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Hello, Ive been dating my boyfriend lets call him ''bob'' for three years. During the time we've dated i've noticed he can be very possessive and controlling. He is this way about my best friends, what i eat, make up, decisions about our relati...

What should I do with this guy when I move to university which is 4 hours away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - recently I've started talking to a guy who I have a bit of history with - we've both admitted that we still have feelings for eachother but I've just moved to uni and he's about 4 hours away from me.. we've been trying to discuss what we're gonna do ...

Why do guys pretend like they are looking for a great personality when it's really just physical attraction they are looking for? Why don't people just admit the shallow truth?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - From experience and observation, I know for a fact that a huge majority men do NOT give a crap about a woman's personality. They just instantly know whether they are going to put up with a woman's crap or not. If you find someone physical...

What's a good way to bring up the topic of living together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - How can I talk to my boyfriend about wanting to get a place together? We both currently live with our parents but spend a lot of time together. We have been together for almost 8 months an have known each other since childhood. I want us to get a ...