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*issingU
writes:I was with this guy for only a little over a month. We were very close and bonded very well. But he felt I was insecure and kept pushing him away when he was trying to get to know me better, therefore he decided to cut off completely. It's been two months since, and I still find myself missing him and thinking about him. I know we've only been together for a short period of time but why does the feeling feel so strong? I wonder if someone can tell me whether as a guy, will he also think of me and miss me too? Or am I the only one that's feeling this way?
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reader, GentleGiant +, writes (25 September 2013):
If you are in a relationship with a man who makes you insecure then drop him. Why in the hell are you pondering and beating yourself up? A relationship is about sharing, exchanging,loving and giving and taking. It appears by your own words this never happened. Its over dont worry about it and in the future if somebody makes you feel little or insecure dont bother or waste your time with them. This will only end in grief for you. Be smarter and do not be afraid . Sorry to say i do not think that this man really gives a rat ass about you or cares and really why in the hell should you. Put your efforts in looking for Mr. Right. Keep moving and take this experience as another life lesson.
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (24 September 2013):
 "will he also think of me and miss me too?" if you kept pushing him away he probably felt whats the use and backed off, he more than likely still thinks of you.
"we were close and bonded very well ". pushing him away made him fell like he was doing all the work to get into your heart, while you put up a wall to block him. now you miss his attention, and love he was showing too you.
if you want him back in your life i would suggest showing him that you are interested in him. bring the wall down and let him in your heart.
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reader, MissingU +, writes (23 September 2013):
MissingU is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe didn't have sex. Feelings were mutual. Yes, at times I was crazy and pushed him away.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (23 September 2013):
 Do you feel you were insecure? Is it possible that he was insecure and projecting it on you?
When you related to your short affair you described it as very close and bonded very well. So I wonder if this is all one sided. Unless you acted crazy this guy maybe using an excuse to break it off. If this is true I would leave him alone because he is not worth your sadness.
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