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writes:I am in a new relationship where we have not yet decided if we want to take it real serious yet. We have just been getting to know each other. He has decided to get back into MMA fighting which I don't mind, but his time is going to become consumed with training for it. Should I be worried? He usually text me everyday. Today he talked to me for 5 mins and then later tonight still said goodnight to me, but that's all he said to me. I kinda hate the new getting to know you phase cause it is so uncertain on what will happen. I am guess that because he took the Time to say goodnight that should be enough to show that he at least cares about me? What do you think?
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reader, Lovemeright11 +, writes (24 September 2013):
Lovemeright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I hope soo I really like him and its going well so far. We do have plans on Friday do I just hope it works out and he doesn't chose to not Perdue me in the tome frame before Friday.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 September 2013):
 I think if you want to be with an MMA athlete, you must accept this. Training is very cyclical and regimented, usually starting from sunup to sundown. Oftentimes, such intensive training produces a tunnel vision that pushes aside all other considerations.
In this case, scheduling time to see each other is important. If he's training, maybe taking Friday nights as downtime for him to have a date night for the two of you or scheduling specific together times that can be regimented into training is important. Whether he's willing to consider that or not will speak into whether he wants a relationship with you, and if he's willing to do what it takes to achieve it.
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