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writes:Hey. :) So I have a serious issue. I got a date to homecoming and everyone keeps saying the guy is gonna kiss me. Problem is, I have no idea how to kiss. I've never had my first kiss and I'm not one to like practice bc how are you supposed to practice on a non-moving object? Exactly. Anyways, my point is, I'm totally fine with this guy wanting to kiss me bc boy do I wanna kiss him. I just need to know how to kiss. Like what do I do? What does it mean when people are like "it comes naturally"? That doesn't even make sense. I just want to know how to kiss? How can you practice? How do I know if I'm doing it right? Please, honest answers here. I need some info on this. Thanks xoxo
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reader, justinsmuse +, writes (26 September 2013):
justinsmuse is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks :) I actually did ask my mom. Her & my stepdad made it incredibly awkward seeing as they tried demonstrating it by kissing each other lol. But, I'm not really nervous anymore. I looked some stuff up on wikihow, yahoo.answers & things like that. I just checked out to see how to know when he's gonna kiss me. Thank you again. :) if you can, answer my new question? This guy is sending mixed signals now. :/
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 September 2013):
 I was wrong about youtube. I just searched "how to kiss" and there are 10,000,000 results. So I think you have something to work with.
Talk to mom, she'll help you out.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 September 2013):
This is going to sound weird, but I'd ask your mom about it. She knows you have a date and are likely to have a first kiss. Moms are actually just ordinary people who were once teenagers like you and had their own experience of a first kiss. Amazing, I know, and probably pretty strange to think about.
When I was your age, I practiced using the back of my index and middle fingers as though they were his lips.
I think a key thing in kissing is to not to get all fish facey and sloppy on the first kiss. Some light pressure, slighly parted lips, avoid using your tongue for the first kiss for sure.
There are probably a million youtube instructional videos on it too.
Relax. Don't try to pretend you are super-experienced at kissing, because you are not.
And definitely ask your mom, she'll probably really surprise you.
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reader, R1  +, writes (24 September 2013):
 I think you will be fine, let him take the lead and follow what he does, then as you feel more comfortable you will work out what you like and don't. I don't think there is any real way to practise kissing without actually doing it!
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