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writes:Hi...I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now...I met him through his brother and started a long distance relation ship. He lived in NY and me in FL..I decided to meet him after talking to him for 7 months..It was like love at first sight..we couldn't get enough of each other..he was really nice..I was sweet to him..and now its been about 3 months since I moved in with him. He has changed completely. He is starting to call me unnecessary names..has told me that we are not right for each other..and he has doubts and he complains about the age difference. we are 9 years diff. There are more good..than bad days. I just don't know what to do..it feels like he is the one always causing drama..instead when the girl is suppose to do the nagging..he is doing it? I love him very much and he loves me as well but..I'm confused..can somebody please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): that's right, you'd better move on before it get worse.
in a healthy relationship partners don't call others names.
once you moved in he realize that it is not what he wanted and he cannot hide his angry feeling. so he is pushing you away.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Erm... "the girl is supposed to do the nagging"? You might want to think that through a bit more, it's kind of sexist and untrue.
Why don't you just go your separate ways? Why don't you move out? He's already acknowledged that you're "not right for each other" - it sounds like he doesn't want to go out with you anymore. If I were you I wouldn't stick with someone who thinks they're not right for me. You could probably do better than this guy.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 January 2010):
You have discovered an interesting problem that haunts a lot of men and women. You both fell in love so quickly you forgot to really take time to get to know each other. He now has you, so he can use and abuse you. I would really think about whether you want to be with this guy, because it sounds to me like you'd be better moving on now before you get really hurt. You must always take time getting to know a man, even if you fall in love quickly and this it's meant to be. Because often enough it ends badly.
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