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writes:my girlfriend I were dating for 6 months. I lied to my girlfriend. I lost her trust. How can I get her to trust me again. We are broking up for about an month now. I want her to trust me again. She has stuff in her past that she doesn't want people to know about. I also told my friend what we did sexually. She can't trust me anymore. Is there any way I can get the trust back. I do love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): It shocks me that you disclosed personal information about your girlfriend and your intimate moments together to your friend, expecially when you say you "love her". A relationship is supposed to be about trust, and the fact that you broke that would have upset and hurt her emotionally.
I'm not sure what you can do to gain her trust back, because everyone is different. All I can advise is to try and stay in contact with her, maybe become firends and show her that you have changed? Make her realise you know what you did was wrong, and you are willing to make it up to her. Only she can tell you whether there is anyway to get her trust back.
Good luck and best wishes!
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