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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok i hope this doesn't sound like a stupid problem but i have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and I really really like him. i haven't felt like this about anyone in ages, despite going on many dates.Well friday we went out and had a really good night. he seemed really into me. he came back to my place and we fell asleep on the sofa, was cuddling and kissing, amongst other thiings (we haven't had sex yet) but stopped short of doing the full thing. well on the nite we were out he kept dropping hints saying next time we should go to a restuarant, or where are you taking me next etc, so i think he made it obvious that he wanted to see me again.when we said goodbye saturday morning, we said we'd text each other. later that day i sent him a text thanking him for a good nite and that i hope he's had a good day. he replied "thats ok Lisa, hope you have a good nite tonight. speak to you soon x" then that nite my friend and I were out at the bars and when I came home i went on my facebook. I was quite drunk at this point.This is where i stupidly put the lyrics to a song that talk about falling in love, on to my status. I didn't mean i was falling in love with him, but looking back if you didn't know the song, you'd think i was referring to falling in love myself. he's also my friend on there so would have seen it.As soon as I'd woken up and saw what I'd done I deleted it and then put a dedication of the same song to my friend and she wrote underneath, "thanks Lisa, we were laughing at this song last night" to make it look like that was why I'd written the lyrics!Later on I went to my emails and saw that he'd commented on my status (before I'd deleted the lyrics) and had said "You deep thinking again Lisa haha x" because the nite before he had said I looked like a deep thinker and had wanted to know what goes on inside myself but he felt I kept my cards close to my chest.anyhow he must have deleted this comment straight afterward because it wasn't showing on my facebook page, but what he'd written had been sent to my email from facebook as a notification (if that makes sense) so he must have thought "oh I don't think i should put that on there after all"That was yesterday. I haven't had a text from him yet. Last week he asked me out on the monday - so I'm worried that he thinks I'm in love with him or something because of the lyrics i put on my status.He was asking me friday nite why I had not had a boyfriend for a long time and I did mention that I had gone off quite a few boys quickly. I then said that you can't fall in love with everyone you meet.Arrgh! I really hope he hasn't gone off me and I've screwed things up. Does anyone think that what I did could really give him the wrong idea?? Like I'm rushing into things??
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 January 2010):
You'll just have to talk to him again. Text him and see what he says. He might have thought that he was coming on to fast, to deleted that comment. You never know. It's a bit early to tell whether he's interested or not. Text him.
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