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I like someone else, but am jealous that my bf does too.

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Question - (25 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a couple months and its been progressing slowly. He is my first boyfriend but im having a feeling that i want it to go by faster, he hasn't kissed me yet and i want him to. but lately there's this other guy i like and i know its wrong but i cant help it. hes so nice and fun, my friends told me that if i want someone else i should break up with my boyfriend which i don't want to do. They don't think im con seeded though but they also don't think is should lie about my feelings.

another girl my age who im not really friends with likes him to and his friend told me that he likes her. it makes me so angry and jealous that they like each other and im not sure how to handle it. if it was someone who was my age and not her i wouldn't mind i would move on but i cant move on if its her

im not sure what to do plllllllllease help!! :(

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A female reader, unknown_unknowns United States +, writes (26 January 2010):

unknown_unknowns agony auntI don't think you're conceited, but I don't think you should lie, either. Stay with your boyfriend for now, but don't rule out Mr. New. Sometimes GIRLS make the first move and kiss guys, you might just be waiting forever. . . I'd recommend that you make the first move and give your boyfriend a kiss. If it goes well (just kiss a bit, don't go too fast!) then maybe you should cool it and stay with him. If you feel jealousy for your boyfriend chances are you have feelings for him still. It's okay to feel attracted to your friends. Mr. New might be a good choice after you've had some practice with Mr. Now. The things that make us friends with each other are very similar to the things that attract us to one another.

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