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Why am I falling for a guy whose cheated in the past?

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Question - (25 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what is wrong with me? why am i in love with a player? hes cheated on his past two gfs and im sure if i get with him he would cheat. i never liked him before only recently i have never done anything with him. i just think about him alot. he doesnt kno. wat is wrong with me?

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A female reader, lostlove76 United States +, writes (25 January 2010):

It's just like the forbidden fruit. However, you know what he entails so basically you are entering at your own risk. Not to sound harsh but please don't allow yourself to fall because it's only a matter of time you will be writing back talking about the pain he has caused. I must say that once a cheater always a cheater until he loves himself the right way he will not be faithful. Cheating is not something that you have to do it's something we choose to do. Good Luck be strong and resist the forbidden fruit.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2010):

Maybe your self esteem is low and you're looking for someone who can provide you with excitement? Or maybe you're hoping that he will change for you so you can feel very special? There are several reasons you feel this way. There's nothing wrong with you as such. This seems to be a stage that a lot of women go through when they;re young, either because they crave the excitement a bad boy brings, or they hope they can change him. So I think it would be a good thing for you to look at yourself and see whether you're feeling low or underconfident, or whether there is something missing in your life that you can fill with something other than a bad boy.

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A female reader, Roadster73 United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2010):

Roadster73 agony auntYour lacking in good self esteem, just read a few pages of this web site and see how messed up people get when they r in a unfaithful relationship!!

Don't do it, find a man secure enough in himself to be with one girl!

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