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Dating: Help and advice

If you guys know of any secret methods of talking to each other without getting caught, please let me know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk ...

Confused but still want to give things a go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - hi all, im so confused at the moment. ive been with my bf for 6 months now but were both really busy so dont get to spend much time together. he is busier than me generally so often when we make plans sometimes they never happen. I end up getting ...

Help needed! How can I get things back to the way they were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we recently broke up 2 days ago. We both agreed we bickered too much and it was starting to take a strain on our love. So the only thing we didnt agree on was that I want to work things out and ...

Is she scared of a new relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Hi i need some advice, i have been seperated from my wife for over 2 years now and never wanted a girlfriend...... until now! i got talking to someone over e mail through work and we are both the same age similar interests and both in the same ...

Help needed! How do I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Hi I have been on and off with my partner for 8 years at first when we met I thought it was just a fling, he was in the country for 6 months, but we were in separable. I later found out before he left he was married with a daughter and had...

PARANOID of being cheated on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I am so worried all the time about everything. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We love each other a lot. However, I worry a lot about his past. The girl he dated before me is beyond beautiful and they dated for a little over a ...

Intimacy gone after only a year

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 1 year now. He's 3 years older than i am, and we are in the 20's. I've been told that in the beginning of the relationship, sex is always great. Well i've read somewhere. But lately i feel that i'm ...

Am I sending the wrong signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Hi- In the past year of dating I've run into a number of men, who seem to be far more sexually aggressive than men I've dated in the past (lean over and kiss me without any warning in a bar; try to have sex on the second date despite my being cl...

Help in attracting a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - So I want to know why I can't get or how to get a bf my age or at least close to my age? I'm 16 in my third year of high school and i've only had one bf in school at least! I have dated one 22yr old one 24yr old and a 14yr old! There has been guys ...

My friend's being drawn to a player

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - This is a friend's issue (seriously) and I don't know what to tell her. Her guy treats her fine but won't commit, is sort of a selfish lover. This guy she met a while ago wants to make her dinner and has been flirting non-stop via txt, I really ...

OCD in a relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Is there anyone out there in a relationship with someone who has an OCD. I have just started a new relationship and she has told me about hers. I have read a bit about them but don’t fully understand the implications yet. I will read more over t...

How to keep your man interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - After the initial dating period, when we have got to know each other..every couple can get a little bored! Not with each other but routine.... some people actually like routine because it makes them feel secure! Others Don't.... but WE ALL feel it ...

Is this grief or just a bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Ok, I have a question. About almost 2 years ago, my husband died tragically from an on the job accident at 33 years old. I was in a deep depression for a long time, and I to this day, am still grieving. I have three children that I have to take care ...

The proposal!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (?) - Hello people, last week i went to my boyfriend's country to meet his parents which was in portugal, and they were a lovely family especially his mum. we've been together for 1 year and 5 months now and we normally talk about marriage and kid...

He's blackmailing me since I broke up with him...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 14 months and he he will not accept that it is over. He keeps threatening to come and house and tell my parents all my secrets and if i don't reply to his texts he rings the house phone which means i have to ...

Why is this boy sending me mixed signals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I met a boy recently, very randomly who asked me for my number while I was browsing the CD section at the library. That same boy proceeded to ask me out on a date to which i cautiously accepted as I had not been in the dating game for a year after...

If I started a relationship with her would it compromise our jobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I really like this girl at work, shes a few years younger than me but one of the most beautiful and kind girls I know, I don't really know her that well though, and I would like to eventually have a relationship with her, but the problem is I'm ...

What should I do about my moody boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...

I still think about him, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - So I been dating this guy, we had a 6 month relationship and during the relationship, I broke up with him about 2 or 3 times because I didn't know what I was doing, and our relationship was long-distant, and I didn't want him to grow tired of me, so ...

Is it wrong to love my brothers best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Okay I'm 15 and my brother is 17 his best mate is 18. 3 year differance. My brother and him have always been best mates and I have always got along with him, we always mess about and joke on. I have felt that I have realy liked him for over a y...

When is it the right time to stop hiding our new relationship? And is it too soon to talk to my new boyfriend about moving away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Ok - i am writing cause i am unsure how to handle my thoughts about this situation. I had a boyfriend of 7 years - the last 2 were relatively dead and we broke up about 4 months ago now. Amoungst many reasons we broke up - one of the main ones wa...

Should I date my ex's best friend?

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16 August 2010 (F) - okay i really like this guy..problem is he is my ex's bestfriend and i dont no if i should try and make it work with me but its hard coz he flirts with me and stuff??????????????...

Any advice for a man wanting to get involved with a single mum with 2 young kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Simply put, I'm in love with a 27yr old woman with a 1.5yr old and 5yr old. She and the ex were never married and were on and off a few times over the 6 years(i think). She rents a unit, is a great mum and works long hours in retail to tr...

I'm 19 and a virgin!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - i'm 19, a virgin, and deeply ashamed to be one. what's worse, is that I have absolutely no experience, not only when it comes to sex, but with anything concerning affection (kissing, ect). recently i've been talking to this guy and I think something ...

Is she wrong to give her ex a present like this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl. I really like her a lot. Yesterday she tells me she is going to her ex-boyfriends birthday party, which I am fine with as they are still friends. Then I find out her birthday present to him is that her and a couple ...

Should I wait while he gets over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (?) - [Mod note - OP's own title] Hello... So, there's this guy... We have dated before about two months ago, it only lasted a couple weeks. We decided to break up because he was still in love with his ex... We stayed good friends. His ex is in a relatio...

Love this girl but she sends conflicting signals. Is it something I'm doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Okay so I met this girl in 2009 at my job we talked a couple times and ended it a couple months later. About 4 months later he hits me up out of nowhere in October and eversince then we've been talking EVERYDAY. This was around the time me and my ...

We broke up, but now he wants me back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a little while ago and he has asked me out a couple of times since but I don't want to go through all the mess all over again. We broke up becuz we argued all the time. My friends don't really like him and say I can do much ...

How can I attract a decent guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - okay so i am 18 and really frustrated with how to attract boys, i am a virgin and i feel like that is my defect, i get hit on alot but not by the guys i like :( is there anyway i can stop being single without the mind games that come along with ...

Amazing guy, second date. Do it or make him wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Hi all, Well I need a little bt of advice so here goes. On Thursday, after a night out with the girls, I came home a little tipsy, wide awake, nothing on TV, and I decided to phone a chatline. (sad I know, but we've all been there?) Anywa...

Dating my cousin. How judgemental will society be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a male and I'm dating my cousin. She is not blood related to me, but do you think that people will still judge and criticize us? I love her very much and I want to be with her. I just hope people won't judge us....

Annoyed by BF not talking to me but he has his reasons. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Is it wrong for me to feel annoyed at my boyfriend for not being able to talk to me? Our work schedules conflict so we can't always see each other in person. He doesn't have a cellphone, doesn't have internet, or any other way of contacting me. He ...

Want to break up with BF but not sure I can face the dating scene. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I have no choice but to leave my current boyfriend...I love him but I feel like we have no future. We want different things. Me: marriage, a kid or two, loyalty. Him: no kids, "labels," or marriage. So, I'm cutting ties before I fall in love. But, ...

Long-distance and her mother hates me. Suggestions on how we can stay in touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

No sex until marriage, is there a future in this relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - I am a male dating a 41 year old woman for 2 years who wants to wait until she is married to have intercourse. I do understand and lover her very much enough to wait if we get married. We have had forms of sex in the past in our relationship as it ...

How do I stop caring for him too much, it scares me a little??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend brought up moving in together and I don't think I handled it well. I was driving through a hectic carpark at the time so I was half concentrating on not hitting anything and half listening to what he was saying. He started out saying it ...

One guy has really fallen for me, and he just won't leave me alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend...but um, this guy "Drew" has fallen hard for me. Driving down to just see me as much as possible when he's broke and forced to sleep in his car, I've never asked him to, he claims hes here to see my city but then beeegs to hang ...

She's done a lot of confusing things, but wants to win me back, what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl for about 11 months now. We met a month before that while she was dating another guy. Though she said things like she wanted to kiss me, I flat out refused while she said she was still in a relationship with the other ...

Summer romances, which do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - I have recently gone on vacation and met this amazing guy. We started out as friends but, by the end we started to really like one another and we even shared a goodbye kiss. Sadly, we live hours away from each other but, we still keep in touch now ...

He's really annoying me and I don't know why. but I still care about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - ok, so i'm 18 and i've been talking to this boy for three months nbow.. and he's really nice and sweet but might be a little bit clingy because he's not really been in a real relationship. he's going off to colege in two days and he's been trying to ...

How do I get rid of this insecurity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - My bf of two years hurt me just under a year ago by seeing his ex without telling me even after saying he wouldn't. I lost a lot of trust for him then. But wanted to give it one last go. So we've been working hard together ever since. Problem is now ...

How do I bring up the topic of marriage and kids without sounding wierd?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my bf almost a year. He is amazing in every aspect and is everything I've ever wanted. He is the shy type so I was surprised when a few months ago he would start randomly bringing up marriage discussions ie. "I was ...