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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

What do you say to a girl who thinks you only like her for her breasts? And how to ask her out if you can't breathe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - If a girl thinks you only like them for their breasts what would you say to them? How do you ask out a girl when you can't breath around them? ...

Thanks to my ex I feel extremely insecure about my small breasts

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - This is going to sound stupid, but I have a huge complex with my small boobs, thanks to my ex. We didn't break up because of that, we broke up because he was abusive and too controlling. But the thing is, in some occasions he bluntly told me ...

15 years ago we slept together but now he wont?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - We spent two seperate nights together years ago, nothing happened just a fumble, I knew he fancied me then and the feeling was mutual. 15 years after the fumble I saw him again the first night we walked and talked he was sweet, but we slept alone. ...

How do you regain confidence after a brush off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - How do you regain confidence after a brush off? The guy I was seeing and I found ourselves at a work related event in which we didn't know anybody, it was only us from our company. So I sat with him (we had a friendly brake up, and were still sp...

He wants to let things go "day by day". Do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I'm single female w/no children. I have been dating this guy with 7 children for 4 months now. When we 1St started dating he stated he don't trust women and how his relationships never seem to last b/c of his job (bodyguard) and his children. I ...

He says he is young for a relationship, does this mean he has feelings? Should I try for an LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - More than just good friends? I have this really good friend and I have known him for 5 years. At the moment we are in different countries and we only stay in contact through facebook. I have had feelings for him for long. So on April fools day I sa...

Be kicked out or have a happy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Hi, i met my gf when I was 19 n she was 16, for the first year I wasn't aloud in the upstairs part of her house let alone in her room and i wasn't aloud to stay past midnight.. When we had been going out for a year her mum let me go upstairs but i ...

Should I Get Back With Him?? So confused..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i just want a little bit of help and advice please. i am still stupidly in love with my recent ex boyfriend, we have been broken up for a few months and during this time we have always kept close contact as 'friends' but still had the relation...

How do I approach this situation delicately?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I recently got into a relationship with one of my close friends. In about 3 weeks we will be going to school 7 hours away from each other. He's very tight financially because his parents are unemployed and he's paying for college on his own. I, on ...

She sees her guy friends more than she sees me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - My girlfreind is constantly putting me second best to her male and female freinds. she seems to think that i try and make her sit at home all day everyday whilst i work, but this isnt true. i dont mind her seeing her female freinds whenever she ...

Family won't accept b/f because of religion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) - My mum told me that she will never accept my boyfriend if he is non muslim an less he convert to islam because i am muslim as well as my family. my boyfriend has alwayz been there for me whenever i needed him and now he kept on asking me if i o...

Is it a problem if she's taller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - So my question is, are guys put off if a girl is taller than them? I'm 5 10, and love being tall. My ex bf hated it if I wore heels, though, as I'd be maybe an inch taller than him. So now, I've been asked out by a guy who is maybe a little bit ...

Just getting over a bad break, now two guys seem to be interested

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have a dilemma and would like your advice, please. Having been single for 9 months (I broke up with my ex bf of 9 years after finding out he was cheating on me for the second time) and thinking that I was no longer interested in relationships, I ...

He doesn't seem to want to plan for the future and pushes me away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Wow… there are so many “break” or give me “space” stories, I feel like I am in the right place. Thanks for the stories ladies. I hope someone can give me advice on mine. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years officially and I have ...

We're getting serious, but I have questions about her past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - First off, I'd like to like to state that being as this is anonymous I want to be as honest as possible. Sorry if i sound like an ass or not.. and honest / constructive feedback is appreciated! I have a girlfriend I recently met about 6 mon...

I feel like the nice guy who always finishes last...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Ended a relationship last year that ran for eight years but we basically became roomates - hadn't had sex for three years. Felt ready to start dating again this summer and have been seeing someone who I thought was really nice. I have never been ...

Tired of being dished the crap in relationships! How do I become a stronger woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i need some advise. i am 28 yrs old and all ive ever done is let men run all over me in my relationships. how do i become that strong woman and put my foot down. im tired of crap...

My girlfriend just left me and I want her back. How should I proceed?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend just recently left me. She danced around a couple of reasons such as her issues, she pushed me away, etc... But in the end she said I was a really great guy, a really great boyfriend, but she wants to be single. We dated for almost...

He doesn't make time for me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi. I have always enjoyed reading this site as it seemed like people were always honest and nice, so im hoping someone can maybe help me. Ive been going out for my boyfriend for about 11 months and he's always been super sweet and nice, and a...

I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept ...

Jealous of his past .. does he still love them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - In the beginning, me and my boyfriend started off as friends so we discussed a lot of things with each other. He shared a lot of information during that time about his past relationships. He shared details about the sex they had, the parts of the...

What does everyone thinks about women choosing men who are similar to their fathers as husbands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am adopted but was raised in what I would consider a fairly dysfinctional family unit where my mother is dominant and my father is very submissive. I am, however, very traditional in my views and believe that in a marriage a wom...

One minute she acts as if she is interested the next not so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid Kind agony aunts I call on you today for some guidance if I may, I’m in really in unfamiliar waters at the minute and kind of facing several challenges in my life at the minuet that I’d appreciate some guidance with. Ok, a little bi...

My boyfriend does not trust me and is rushing me into sex with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 15 and I have a boyfriend who is 16. We have been togther for 5 months and he means the world to me and he always tells me that he cant even imagine living without me. We are pretty close and comfortable with each other; we have the kind of ...

This whole situation is messing with my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I met this girl at a big bon fire about a year and a half back. we started dating less then a week after we met. we dated for 5 months, she got drunk, cheated and we broke up. almost no contact for a couple of months. we started talking again an...

Pregnant and resentful of boyfriends other children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I am pregnant with my boyfriends 4th child and I'm becoming increasingly resentful of his other children. It's gotten so bad that I can't even bear to hear him mention their names and I dread them staying over on weekends. He doesn't seem to show as ...

What should I do next? should I ask him out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...

Difficult relationship with plenty of love and lack of trust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend some time now and 99.9 of the time we are perfect. Were both young but very much in love. I'd do anything for him and he'd do the same for me but the crowd he hangs around with are not very reliable. A few of them have ...

What do guys my age think of young ladies like me???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I live with my dad, grandma, and my dog. I ...

Is she joking or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Hi! I'm 16 and a little confused. I've had this on and off relationship with a 15 year old girl. It's a long distance relationship and i only get to see her on weekends and holidays. When i do see her we usually end up going back out but when ...

It's been three weeks since the "date" what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I recently found a guy I had dated 20years ago again and we started talking and texting each other every day for a week then went out on a date and all the feelings I had for him back then were still there. The date was great and he asked me out on ...

I should not get back with him right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I'm getting confused over my ex boyfriend. We broke up back in April, and got back together for like 3 days in May. Ever since, we've been broken up. During our almost 4 year relationship, we had many problems, because he was jealous of my past. Due ...

Should I wait longer to ask her out again or do it now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I have recently been thinking about asking my ex girlfriend who broke up with me saying she needed space and time to think about 2 1/2 weeks ago, if she would want to, i guess for lack of a better word, go on a date with me. We had a day about a ...

How can I find out if he is falling for me like I am for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I don't know if anyone can reall help me, as I know that I have no choice but to hang in and see, but any feedback would be appreciated... I met a lovely guy online last April and started dating him in May. He is in the RAF and lives on base an...

Why did I put up with this for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. For the first 2 years my partner's ex-wife and son lived abroad but have been living in the same county for the last 4. Just before they returned we moved to a different part of the country for better jobs ...

My boyfriend won't tell his female friend that he is dating someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for over 6 months, we've said that we love each other and spend most days/nights together. He has a lot of younger single female friends. He goes for coffee with them from time to time without me. Last night he went to ...

Was it what I did, or does he just not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Well, I've signed up and paid for a couple of dating sites. I've spent £60 in subscription and i was really annoyed to find that a lot of guys aren't even paying subscribers and can't read or respond to messages. Anyway, I saw one guy online and h...

I am afraid I may lose my friends if I brake up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with the same guy for a little over 5 years, we used to have sex all of the time but over the last two years I have lost interest in having sex with him. I'm not sure what to do about it, I know it's caus...

I slept with my bestfriends boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - i blacked out and ended up sleeping with my good friends boyfriend, at the same time his best friend and i were seeing each other, i screwed up, now what should i do? ...

Is he really interested or only being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have history with a guy I really like. He also expressed an interest in me and his attraction to me. But we didn't act on it out of respect for the fact I was married. We kept in touch via the email and online chatting occasionally but it was ...

He came on strong, then backed off -- am I being played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I need opinions. I’ve been “seeing” this guy for 8 months now. We are not officially dating, but in many ways its like we are. In the beginning, we started out all passionate and intense. He pursued me like crazy and then it was like once he reali...

Super Affectionate in Private, Cold in public

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am a 29-year-old woman who has been dating a 40-year-old guy for over a year and a half. When we met and started dating, he had been divorced for a few months. When we first started dating, we kept it quiet because we know a lot of the same peop...

Why is his communication so lousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - The first time my ex and I broke up, I called, text, emailed him regularly with no responses! By the time I had finally just gave up, he showed up at my house apologizing and telling me he missed me and still loves me. We get back together for about ...

I know there's something special because otherwise why would we have made out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hey i dunno whats going on in my life but if you could help me i,d be grateful. For the past three weeks i,ve been meeting up with a guy and making out , giving head , fingered and other tings we never went the whole way. He 's starting collage soon ...

Freaked out BF in bed and he left!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - ok -- this is going to take a second so I will do a TL;DR. first, this is a throwaway account b/c... so, here's the deal: tonight I totally freaked out my boyfriend. I had hidden a piece of a hot dog (about 2 inches) which I had broken off before ...

Would an amusment park be a good first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - hello i just need ur opinions about something, is it a good idea to take a girl to an amusement park in your first date ? i mean some games might be scary and the girls might not like getting that feeling in a first date lol but im just wonderin...

Living with somebody's bad karma

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I feel Like I'm in this incredibly complicated situation.. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and there always has been a presence of a women from his past. I'm in my mid 30's and my BF is in his early 50s. We both been ...

Did she lie to boost my ego?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - So I told my wife the other night that she's the best lover I have ever had. She smilied, waited a bit and then said, "me too baby." I don't know what the pause entailed though. Just taking in the moment or deciding whether or not to tell me a ...

Moderate Love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - It is inevitable to state that a vast majority of teenagers like me and other youthful individuals have this rather weird desire to indulge in relationships. But there lies an extremely crucial factor we tend to ignore,which remains a shame. We all ...

I cheated and now I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - So I am actually not the "victim" here, I am the one who did the cheating. I am 17 years old and have been dating this girl for the past month, and I really truly care about her. However, I was drunk and made out with another girl while on vacation ...