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Dating: Help and advice

Transitioning from Best Friends (13 years) to Dating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - While I have always felt an attraction to my best friend, we have never really considered the possibility of him and I being more than friends. See, we've been best friends for 13 years now and have the same small circle of friends, which include ...

Do you think men can change or do you think cheaters will always be cheaters?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 years and have been living together for 8 years. I moved out real young at the age of 17. Everything was going with well with he and I until and we talked about having kids and a couple of months later I was ...

My girlfriend is a workaholic, please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now, and have known her for 5. And I am pretty positive now that she is a workaholic. She always told me that she had a weird work schedule, saying sometimes she would have to work lat...

Boyfriend is ignoring me... why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hi, i need an advice, i think my boyfriend is ignoring me. In the past, he dissapear for over one month, but he appear and told me he was very sorry for it, that he really missed me and he know he did bad, because he found he was getting emotional ...

Don't understand these feelings...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the past 4 years. I really love her, and we are both certain that we are going to get married someday in the near future (I've been planning to propose in the next few months). My dilemma is that ...

His ex is still in his life and it's really getting to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now; but his ex keeps popping into our lives every so often. Now usually i wouldn't hav a prob with this but the thing that ticks me off, is that she never pays attention to me wen I'm around!! she ...

I wanna stay but have suspicions something is going on... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my biyfriend for over a year and a half and about 6 months ago he moved away so we were in a long distance relationship , since summer started i moved out here with him , im only sixteen going into grade 12 and my mommy told me i ...

My boyfriend is extremely passive and it gets me frustrated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hello, I need a suggestion... So I have my ordinary/daily/every-day problem with my quiet boyfriend. Lately, though, he is trying hard to "contribute", so I interpret it as a sign of "I really want to make this relationship work, but I don't know...

Do we have a chance of getting back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I am so lost and confused. my boyfriend of only 3 months and i know its not long but we just clicked it was amazing. he broke up with me but that same day we talked it out and got back together. well it happened again but what im confused about ...

Does this make me a homewrecker???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I met my bf in college and he seemed like a very nice guy. We started talking a lot and we really liked each other. He asked me to be his gf and i said yes. But soon after i got a call from this girl telling me that he was married and that he has a ...

Should I suggest we go on a weekend trip? Or would that be going overboard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - My bf's birthday is in 3 weeks and he lives 2 hours away. I got him a small gift already and planned to spend about $40. Well, I'm moving out of my apartment and into my dorm the week before his birthday, but he said he still would like to co...

I want her to love me... not say that I'm boring!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Hi guys, right to cut a long story short, I was needy / clingy, she got mad, we nearly split, we sorted it out and now have sorted some "ground rules" no texting 100 times a day, no constantly telling her I love her, couple of days ago she says that ...

Urge to pee when we get intimate...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Okay so every single time my bf has fingered me, and he starts to go faster, I really need to pee. I stop him and go to the toilet but then feel like it again. I haven't orgasmed when he has fingered me - but is this peeing sensation the le...

Boyfriend and his female friend at the cinema... and I don't like it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I am 25 and been with boyfriend for almost a year. He spends a lot of time with his female best friend and I know it's innocent but they went to the cinema together alone, and I got upset when my boyfriend mentioned it to me. He was annoyed I made ...

Girlfriend still friends with Ex boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - So basically here is this weird situation. I have been together with this girl for 4 months. 6 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend because of his cheating and says that she has no feelings for him, would never sleep with him etc. Yet i notice ...

Boyfriend sex issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we have the worst sex life I have ever had in a relationship. I love him more than anything and hope we get married someday. We have talked about a future together and are planning to move into ...

How do I initiate something sexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm 15 and the other day I was wondering how I could broach the subject of doing something sexual with my boyfriend, not sex, something like oral. He's not very outgoing usually but when it comes to touching me or vice versa he's very con...

He's completely flaked on our plans and even though he's still nice to me he's being a little weird...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I'm freaking frustrated. I've been dating this guy for a month and 1/2. He calls daily/every other day (2x sometimes). He doesnt have a car or his own place. We saw each other a lot but i stopped goin as much cos it got expensive (he lives 35 min ...

Help!!! I'm getting feelings for my boss!!!

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3 August 2010 (F) - i am in a really good relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years but lately i have been getting feelings for my boss! i have no idea as he is so not my type and i know nothing could ever happen due to the fact that he is my boss and also he doesn't ...

Where are all the real women???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - I was what is called a player in my early 20's. Now I am 36 and a single Father to my amazing 5 yr old boy. I haven't dated since his mom left 5 years ago. I tried a couple of times but it seems like games. Most women are not interested once they ...

His jealousy is tearing us apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I've only been with my boyfriend for around 9 or 10 months. He has a slight problem with jealousy, I can recall plenty of times he's gotten really upset about my past relationships and hook ups (which I've hardly had any of either) a...

Why am I still having these feelings for my ex when I'm happy with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I even feel awful saying this but... I have a new boyfriend who I really care about, he's a great guy and I have really strong feelings for him, everything between us is fine and I don't understand why even though I have moved on I am jealous of my ...

I revealed something very personal about our relationship and he found out and broke things off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Me an my partner have not long broke up, we have a 3 month old baby together and i love him so so much, i really want him back. The reason we broke up is because i told his cousin's girlfriend that he was pressurising me to have sex not long after i ...

Is there a part of him that regrets breaking things off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I went out with this guy for 8 years. He was very loving, but he split up with me. Days later he was with someone else. They've been together about 18 months now. I'm over it although I still care for him as a person. Thing is, I am moving on, an...

I am seriously stuck between a rock and a hard place right now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and I really do love him! I am just worried about the fact that he isn't ready to settle down and may never be! We have had our ups and downs just like any relationship ever does! He actually ...

Is there a way to turn resentment into joy when it comes to every day life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Is there a way to turn resentment into joy when it comes to every day life? There is no spark in my relationship and instead of fighting all the time and getting frustrated about chores, bills, or other day-to-day necessities of life, there must...

My girlfriend says she wants a break

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Ok so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months + and today she told me she is losing feeling for me and she wants a break. She says she doesn't want to lose me and that she still loves me. She says she needs a break because we talk every ...

Date for the first time - what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys, just a quick question. I'm meeting this guy for the first time tomorrow and I have NO idea what to do. I don't know what to talk about - we've been texting a lot already so I know we do have quite a lot in common already but still - and I ...

How to handle her insecurities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - I am dating a woman who had intercourse with a man for 8 years, who she continues to represent as one of her best friends. They sometimes went to live sex clubs together. She tells me that she just did it for the sex, until he decided to date a ...

Is my girlfriend just the sluttiest girl on the planet???

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2822 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Do girls ever like "having a train pulled on them?". My girlfriend has had a very lurid sexual past, as have all her close friends. She unveiled all this to me soon after we had said, "I love you.". I have been dealing with some jealousy/maybe a ...

Ladies, what's the big deal with making the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 August 2010 (?) - Hey Guys, I've been posting on this site for a while now and there's something that's been bothering me, something that I just can't figure out. Why are women so afraid of, adverse to or just straight up against making the first move? ...

Am I overreacting for getting annoyed at my boyfriend texting his ex at 2am in the morning?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hey, I have an issue I would like some advice with... I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have found he often texts other girls... only girls that are friends but one of which he has slept with in the past... nothing serious just a o...

Am I wasting my time? We just started dating again....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I'm confused and frustrated. My guy and I got back together 8 months ago after being apart six months. I am wanting more of a commitment from him . All he says when I press the issue is I want that to just not yet . When I say you knew what I wanted ...

How can I convince him I wasn't 'checking up' on him or 'stalking' him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a man for a while now and things have begun to get very important. We've talked about finance, living together, he even met my parents the other week. Yesterday I messed up totally. I went to supermarket and on the way back I ...

Should I just blank him completely and get on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Okay, so this isn't much of a big dilemma. I'll tell you the story from the beginning. I fell in love with this amazing guy, Who I thought was actually a genuine person; He was really sweet, nice, funny and understanding, But It was all too good to ...

Is there anything I can do to stop feeling like I'm replacing my ex with my new guy...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hey. Urh, I have a feeling this could go on a while. Where to start... Lol :') Well me and a boy went out for nearly two years, we broke up in February. He was abusive and really hurt me numerous times and cheated on me more times than I can remem...

I can't seem to make anybody really interested in me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I am 18 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm very open about everything, and I always say whatever I think. I value people for being different, though sometimes I feel I have an impatient and rushed personality. Maybe that's why I can't ...

I think I am in love with him but my parents have forbidden us to see each other! How do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm 16. I met this guy this past school year, which was my freshman year of highschool and his senior year. We became pretty good friends. I ended up falling for him. Too bad he's 18. He finally admitted that he has feelings for me, this ...

We are having problems after only being together for a month! Is he showing signs of being possessive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for a month now.In that month we had so many arguments because sometimes i dont call him or cause i cant go out sometimes or just because i didnt call him when i went out with my mom. Is he showing signs of being a ...

Is it normal to hate being at this school because I feel it is the reason for splitting us up?

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3 August 2010 (F) - Any kind of advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated.... I just graduated high school and decided to go out of state. Right after I chose to go out of state I met a wonderful guy... He was someone I truly fell in love with. We dated f...

I like this guy but I'm shy! Tips, please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - There is guy up my street who i really like, but we dont go to the same school. I really want to talk to him the most we have said to each other is hi and bye my mom says he likes me too but im not sure. I need help im to shy to talk to him please ...

Wait for what I want or settle for the guys who want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I am 21 years old girl and i have never had a boyfriend but i would love to have one. There are a few guys that i know are interested in me but none of them are the kind of guy i am attracted to. But my question is, should i continue waiting un...

Why do some girls act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - this is more complaining than anything else..its an observation i have made..i have some friends with boyfriends who i would say are the type you would have really absolutely and positvely nothing to worry about..and the thought wouldn't even cross ...

Is it weird that we've never discussed our financial situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I was talking to my mom the other day and she says to me that it's strange that although I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year I don't know much about his finances, salary etc. I've never wanted to know or asked, and he hasn't asked me ...

Should I stay with my moody girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - I have a girlfriend of 7 months and my head has been so twisted the last 1.5 months about what to do... Some times I could see me being with her but the next day I want to end it all. She is very moody and gets poutty when something disappoints ...

I left it too late and now he won't talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - My crush Ian has stayed up all nigh texting me , talking to me on myspace and facebook but I feel like we haven't talked in forever. We always flirt and hangout and he's like my big brother except I like him. He is always talking to me and I play ...

He pushed me too far and I hit him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I hit my boyfriend in the nose and made it bleed last night after catching him at a club dancing with some woman, what do i do now? We have a history which has been filled with lies, cheating, arguing, but never has he been physically abusi...

Was he just using me for sex while travelling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Ok, so about 3 weeks ago, I met a guy through a friend of a friend. He's Polish, grew up in France, and is going to music school in Amsterdam. We hit if off at the very beginning, and hung out a few times. He did many sweet things to make me ...

Having trouble deciding whether to settle down with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I'm a teenager and I normally don't take my relationships to seriously. The last relationship I was in lasted for about two and a half months. Unfortunatly I got really attatched to him!!! On the fourth of July he told me that his parents were ...

Should I kiss my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

3 August 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been out for a just over a month now and my friends keep saying i should kiss her. one day me and a few of my friends and her and a few of her friends went to the cinema, and after she got off the train on the way home two ...

Overwhelmed with feelings, is this more than a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Hi. How do I tell if what I'm feeling is a crush or something more? Since about two years I've grown closer to someone who was at school with me. I really like him but I don't understand what I'm feeling. I've never felt remotely attracted to any...

How much patience do you dole out in a relationship before you become a doormat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - I'm hoping folks can give me some perspective on my current relationship. I feel like I'm at a cross roads personally, and I don't know what to do. If I was to reduce it to a question, it would be: "Do I invest more energy in this relationship, or ...