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Dating: Help and advice

Advice on secretive ways to keep in touch

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. EVER. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot...

My Plan to get back with my girl (please critique)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - I need help with this situation, as I'm slightly confused. 5 days ago, I saw my girlfriend for the first time in 3 weeks, as she is off working at a camp over the summer. We have been dating for 4 months and we haven't seen each other on a consiste...

Havn't been on a date in a while, what should do to prepare?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for some advice on how to get the guy! I've been asked out by a guy at work and am a bit nervous. Haven't been on a date with someone I actually like for 7 years. Split up with my ex 6 years ago, after he cheated on me for the ...

Please help I want to be with her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me ...

Am I wishing for something that could never happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - She's married, I'm single and not in a relationship. She comes over often when her husband is at work. At times she has lied to him that she's been over by me but I'm sure the neighbors are watching. One day her husband called her from his place ...

How do I ask her on a date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - dear cupid i do fancy this woman that lives in the same street as me how do i approach her. it a long time since i went out with a woman. she is single like me but a bit younger than me....

I'm not sure if I should meet this guy alone or not.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if i should meet this guy alone or not. My friend must have told him about me, my friend is female, by the way, because she said he kept asking her to ask me to meet up with them both. she also said that he really likes me, and he said ...

Tattoos... a turn on or a turn off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - Help, i find tattoo's a real turn off my gf is planning on getting one, im worried it would make me feel less attracted to her tattoo's i dont mind on other people, i keep my opinion to myself unless asked on what i think about tattoo's in g...

In love after only 2 weeks???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Is it possible to be in love after only 2 weeks? We have been some what friends for 2 months and started dating and have completely fallen for each other. We feel connected in so many ways. We feel as though we have known each other forever. It ...

Moving on from an alcoholic

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Hello, Ive been with an alcoholic for a year now, he doesn't drink everyday, but when he does he can't stop and can go on for four or five days. He told me he was a bad person and warned me of his drinking when we first got together. When s...

Getting a blow job while asleep...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - Hai Everyone out there... Im really curious and excited about getting a blowjob asleep, Me and my GF have discussed it and she really would like to wake me up with a blowjob, but she asked me a question, that "If I give you a blowjob while yo...

Broke up but I've found out I'm pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - ok here it goes boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after 5 years of a relationship. he said we never get back together not a chance so i sent an email to all his friends saying how much i loved him and to look after him. and he wouldn talk to ...

I suspect my daughter's partner may be gay - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I saw my daughter's boyfriend in the back of our car holding hands with his best friend when I turned round and they immediately pulled away from each other. immediately he became narky and critical of my daughter and struggled for next few day...

I don't want any drama involving his ex contacting me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - ok so, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months and last night I called him and he told me that his ex/ babies mama went through his phone and now has my name and number and that she may harass me. He said she has been coming around to his house ...

What's the best thing to do... and how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Background - I was with this boy for over a year and I only broke up with him because I was depressed and didn't want it to affect him; I loved him when we were together and I still do, and he's always telling me he loves me still. After we broke up...

Sometimes I feel as if there's hope... other times I feel I've lost him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - my bf broke up we have been together 3 years and he wants me to fight for us bc my behavior was very clingy ever since we decided to get engaged and stuff, i guess i was scared to lose him! long story short, he has cut down everything. he told me ...

Do virgins turn guys off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. The guy that I've been talking to just asked if i am or not, and I'm scared that things will change between us or he will think of me differently when i tell him that i am. I'm not "saving myself" for ...

I'm doubting whether or not this guy is for me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Hi. I need advice. I've been with my bf for 5 years..and i do love him. He has his idiosyncracies of course but overall i know he's a good guy and loves me very much. He'd do anything for me and he's told me so. My family tho lately seems to ...

Do I deserve better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our 5 year anniversary meant nothing to him. He told me that. He never even remembered even though he knew it was a big deal to me. I'm going back to Uni soon and he's never ...

He doesn't seem to make any effort for me any more...

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17 August 2010 (?) - Hey guys I've got a small problem. My bf of 2 years is working so hard, he works 2 jobs and 12 hours a day. We barely see each other. When we see each other I wanna make it special. I take him to restaurants or surprise him with something else. Wh...

He might be losing his love for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for over 2months now and its been great yer we agrue and that but we don let it affect are realtionship. anyway ive had cancer for over 3months and yes he knows but thats not the problem. the other he sent my friend a text tell ...

At a crossroads in the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, help me find my sanity and put this little mellodrama into perspective. I'm a grounded, confident, 30 something that has always had a solid steady dating life, and while I haven't found the one, I take the ups and downs in stride. I ...

My sister is trying to break us up!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year and we are totally in love. but theres a problem with my sister. my boyfriend had a three day fling with my sister three years ago. when we started dating she was obviously annoyed but a year ...

Do I have a reason to be annoyed at my boyfriend's dad for scamming the system?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I have have boyfriend I love dearly but his family really ticks me off. Or I say he and his family get on my nerves. He always bragged about his childhood when he was back in his country when they vacationed in these nice resorts and on christmas ...

How can I build up my confidence around women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - Hi how can I build confidence to ask a girl out. A couple of years ago my mum died and I lost contact with alot of people got heavy on weed and I aint had a girlfriend now I dont no how to go about it...

I still really love him but I also love my new bf. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - hey guys, i was hoping you could help me out! I've been in a relationship with a boy for three weeks, and he broke up with me last night because he said "i found another girl and i want to save you the pain," but then he told my new boyfriend that ...

I need this to end one way or another, before I get 'caught'!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I split up with my ex of 5 years over trust issues I had and the fact we could not handle arguments well. He never cheated on me but did things like texting his ex at 3am which to me came close. After we split, I got together with a work colleague. ...

Does it mean you don't love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - If you don't stand up for your girlfriend and defended her to your family members and adult children etc. dose it mean that you don't love her. ...

I want to settle down, he says he doesn't want to be "trapped"!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I'm 33 and my boyfriend is 40. We have been dating for 6 years. We have a good, committed relationship, but it seems that we want different things out of life. I live in the middle of nowhere (and love it!), and I want to settle down and have a ...

Why would she go back to her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - The story of my life is a pretty common one but still i needed to tell someone that is objective and doesnt know me so he/she will not judge me as harsh as my friends did. I had a relationship with a girl that we go to the same university for 3...

How can I be the person he wants me to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - i've been going out with my boyfriend for 2years and 6 months and i've always been the one who needs all the attention or basically always is the one that needs it. in the past me and my boyfriend have had problems with me being to needy and we ...

If he didnt care about me surely he would stop looking at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - right well, me, my bestfriend, and two boys who we liked snuck out at 2o'clock in the mornin together. me and the boy i liked went on are own and left my bestfriend and the other boy. we just sat there and we kissed a couple of times and we lay ...

How can I get his attention and show him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I have an french exchange student in my school. I've only spoken to him once or twice but i really, really, really like him. the problem is I dont think hes interest, and why would he? we've only spoken once or twice. I'm really shy of him but i'm ...

Am I dating the wrong guy if I don't want to get involved with him sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for two months. We met in my work where he was a customer. He attracted to me on his visits and I looked forward to seeing him every weekend, on his shopping trips. However, as we started dating, he expressed his fondness ...

Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - im a guy and met this guy.. we kissed three times and had sex once.. its love at first sight should i expect something from him? does he like me? thnx...

How to have a special day after 5 weeks no contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i are not going to see each other for 5 weeks. How can i make the day we see each other really special? I know the fact that we are seeing each other is special in it's on right, but i'd like to do something more. Thank you....

Why do men always choose to ignore me or disappear instead of explaining themselves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - So my q is why do some men choose to ignore or disappear instead of say whats going on or explaining. I dated this guy(2-3 mo)who was head over heels into me.We hung out daily,he contacted me daily.He chose to hang out w/ me instead of his f...

He wants to be with me but has a girlfriend! I don't even know how I should be feeling....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - This guy I like has a girlfriend he tells me he wants to be with me and that he wants to give it a shot he will NOT however break-up with his cheating girlfriend after dating three weeks sh has not! kept it in her pants, and I told him no cheating ...

She says she loves me but doesn't want a relationship, do I even have a chance with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - my question is that you are in love with this girl and she tells you that she loves you but she is not ready for a relationship and she wants you to be there for her and yet you want her to be near her but you get hurt because she say she loves you ...

Falling in love with my "non-serious boyfriend."

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - [OP original title] Back Story: I met this person at a bar. Went home with him. Slept with him. Hung out the next weekend. Had the conversation that neither of us was looking for anything serious. My reasoning: I was freshly out of a mar...

His reply was another bulk email -- what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I met my ex almost 4 years ago(we were friends at first ) Since back then I have randomly received emails(forwards) from him that were addressed to me and a ton of other girls. Back then ( in lust, naive and not thinking clearly and so very eager ...

Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...

Tired of playing the field...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I'm tired of playing the field now. I want to be with one person and actually have a good long lasting, loving relationship. I talked to a friend told her about this guy I've been talking to and everything has been good. Me and him somehow have been ...

Should I become a christian in order to have a chance to date her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - i have a crush on this girl. Through her i get to know that the next boyfriend she have should at least be a christian. She dont know that i have a crush on her yet. I am a free thinker. To have a chance to be her boyfriend, something inside...

Is it a one night stand or rape?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I've been wondering for a long time whether what I experienced was just a one night stand or rape. A while ago I went to visit a friend of mine at school. We went out, and I drank way too much. I remember I was flirting with this friend of hers most ...

Masturbation is a chore!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - hii, i have a big problem, All i think about is sex, this isnt an exuse but its like im addicted. Im hooked. i have a girlfriend who ive been with for 17 months now i love her more than anything we have sex once or twice a week! but twice a week ...

Do I just come straight out and say "it" or do I wait for HIM to say "it?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Hello :) my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months and I know that I am in love with him, I can't stop thinking it and how badly I want to tell him. A couple of weeks ago he came over to my house after going out one night and he w...

Are these kisses real???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - Okay, so this is kind of a weird question, but I'm really interested to know; Do the kisses you read about in books and watch in films actually exist? I don't know if its because I've never been in love with someone, but every kiss I've had with a ...

He was drunk and kissed her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 months... not very long. However, we've developed such an amazing connection. Strong, amazing, happy feelings I haven't felt in years. He's become both my close friend and lover. most importantly, he's ...

Is a 6 year age difference too much to date someone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - if theres a 6 year differance in between you and someone else would it be ok if you date them? this is just a random thought im not actually saying i wana date a 10year old, im just saying is a 6 year age differance too mutch? i have a friend and ...