New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in August, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (39), 2 (38), 3 (52), 4 (45), 5 (26), 6 (27), 7 (19), 8 (35), 9 (43), 10 (46),
11 (53), 12 (43), 13 (38), 14 (23), 15 (30), 16 (42), 17 (50), 18 (51), 19 (27), 20 (42),
21 (36), 22 (44), 23 (54), 24 (54), 25 (50), 26 (32), 27 (33), 28 (48), 29 (26), 30 (44),
31 (26),

Archived questions from: 23 August, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from August, 2010)

Dating: Help and advice

Shaving down there...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...

Caught him with a man! I don't know how I can trust him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - My name is Thelma. My boyfriend and I met a few years ago, we were friends for months before we ended up dating. We've been dating for over 2 years. He and I have never had sex, as of right now I am almost 26 and he was 2 years older than me. We ...

Girlfriend is still hurting after sex !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were both virgin's but after 8 months of being together decided to have sex for the first time. I've read in articles that sex can hurt first time for her but we have had sex numerous times now and she is still hurting ...

Ignoring me all over again!! what gives??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Ok so I was with my ex for 8 months. We lived together, both had our own kids, the works. I was madly in love with him as I thought he was as well. Well we had a huge fight and he ended up moving out. I called/texted/emailed him almost daily. It was ...

Is it bad for a woman to date someone 3 years younger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I am 20 years old, fixing to be 21 in a few weeks.. and I really like this guy who is 17 years old. He can act pretty mature for his age but i'm not sure what others would think? Is it bad for a girl to date someone who is 3 years younger? ...

Confused Attractions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I told a girl that I liked her. She rejected me. We became close friends and my feelings died down. However she came back to me months later and said that she has feelings for me now, but she is confused as to whether she does or not. Are her ...

Do you think every guy deserves a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hey i was just wondering do you think every guy deserves a second chance? In the begning of are relationship i told my bf if he ever cheats on me its over. (i was cheated on before by me ex and i kept giving him chances over and over and i dont ...

I need some advice as to how to rectify this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - There's this guy I like. I played soccer with his sister, and his mom was my soccer coach. We've known each other for about five years (that's how long I was on the team), however, we've never really spoken much on account of both of us being kind ...

Is there a future for us? or is he just trying to wean himself off me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Not Sure what to think , We had been dating for almost three years when we broke up 3.5 weeks ago. He had decided he wasn't ready for a commitment, one because he was in major debt and two because at 36 had to move back home with his parents ...

I'm grossed out over a guy I kissed before summer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Ok, so here's the deal...I have a boyfriend right? we dated for like 2 weeks then school ended and it was summer. before summer began we went to a party together and ended having our first kiss. During these two months of summer i've been missing ...

Help with man in denial

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I have dated a man that is in denial. I love him with all of my heart and want to him to be happy. He has in past fallen into drug addiction and much of it relates to his denial. Recently he decided that church could cure him of both his addictions ...

Should I forgive my ex for sleeping with someone then wanting me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hello everyone: I am in a tough position and need some helpful advice. My boyfriend of 2.5 years recently broke about 7 weeks ago. He broke up with me because we were fighting a lot and neither of us were very happy at the time. But we both sti...

Is he serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - My current boyfriend is 16 years old, and I'm 19. He's mature for his age (for the most part) and is extremely romantic and sweet. I love him to death. We met in person this summer after talking online (he lives in Ireland and I'm in the US), and we ...

Insecure girlfriend, need help fast!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I've been dating with this girl for 6-months now. I can feel our affection is growing day by day. However, she has some insecurity issues. She is 28, and I'm 24, she was divorced a year ago (kind of lost faith in men). Yesterday we went to t...

Told him how I feel now he is acting different

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Im quite confused about how my friend now feels about me. I have 2 questions here so please help me to figure out both points :) I always thought he did have feelings for me but we both seemed shy, he never spoke to me like he did anyone else....

What is it with my bf texting but not calling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Do some guys just not like calling? My boyfriend seems to only like texting and we only talk on the phone every few days. If I call him then he does answer or call me back but i just find it a bit strange. Has anyone else been in a similar situat...

Advice on going into a new church

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - Ok I come from like a Baptist family. I just recently found out I have Catholic roots, and I have never been to a Catholic church before. And I just wonder what ladies will think of me if I goto a Catholic church? Will they be turned off or ...

How can you tell if someone truly loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hey, my question is how can you tell if some one truly loves you? In the past with my ex's i used to love them and i thought they loved me to but at the end i found out they were just useing me and trying to get in my pants. Now iv been dateing my ...

Having trouble getting into the dating scene!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I put forward a question here awile back and received excellent suggestions/opinions/advice. I thought I'd do it again. I'm a 55-year old male. For whatever reason, I've inherited the "youthful gene". No complaints about that. When people gues...

Advice for sensitive guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - Hi my names dave 22 and i am a sensitive guy. I met a girl jenny 19 on a drunkern night out 4 months ago, wasnt really looking for anything but ended up in bed with her that night. we carried on meeting at hers watching dvd's and having intercourse, ...

14, he's 17, what can we do that isn't against the law?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - just a question i am 14 and i like this 17 year old and he like me and if we did get together what am i acctually allowed to do with him without it being against the law ??? ( i know not sex ) thanx :)...

Does she really like me or is she just trying not to be attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - so me and this girl like each other but don't show it up easily though she is much younger than me i am just waiting for her to give me a hint that she is willing to talk to me ,as i get close to her she kinda get nervous n looks down or pretend i m ...

I get nervous on dates and my mind goes blank

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Help! My conversation always dries up in social settings-dates, with groups of friends... I get nervous on dates and my mind goes blank. With groups of friends, I used to be a bit of a chatterbox with my friends when I was a teenager, but I was ...

I like this guy but he is not over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - okay, so ive started talking to this guy online about 4 months ago, thats when he his gf broek up with him, they had been together for 3 years and he still really loves her, but he knows he's never going to get back with her, and he's now started ...

How often do you get a "spark" when dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering what you think about my question... Basically, I had great sexual chemistry with my first proper boyfriend, when I was 16. We were together 3 years, and the spark never died, but we grew apart. The spark with my next bf was even ...

Boyfriend buys jewelerry and expenisive gifts for his married woman friend...is this appropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I have a dilemma ... I have been dating someone online for 5 months ... he is early 30s, I am late 30s. Neither of us has ever been married; in fact, he has never been in a serious relationship longer than 5 weeks due to many violent episodes ...

Cheated on my boyfriend...don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I've cheated on my boyfriend and now I just don't know what to do. I'm beside myself with guilt, and feel so upset and disapppointed with myself, and above all, scared. I can't eat, I can't sleep; I'm physically sick because of what I have done. I ...

Cowgirls first rodeo....any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - hi new b/f really likes me to go on top but i always feel awkward in this position as i don't know what movements will turn him on,does it have to be hard and fast,how can i feel more comfortable on top,really want to get it right...any tips?...

Has anyone had a relationship work out w/ an age difference of 10+ yrs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Why does everyone say that a relationship with a huge age difference will never work? I have been dating Greg for 6 months, I will be 20 next month and he is 32. EVERY ONE always says that he is only in it for the sex yet our relationship is NOT by ...

We sleep together but I'm not ready for sex....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, he is super sweet, nice and amazing. The only problem with our relationship is that we haven't yet had sex. We are both virgins. I am totally not ready for sex yet, I'm only 18! He's 18 too but he is ...

Does he like me or was he just comforting and looking after me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hello i need some advice. After a night out last week i wasnt feeling to well, self inflicted i admit. I was walking down with two friends, one of which i usually walk part way home anyway. I wasnt feeling to good at all and walking home i was just ...

We're both shy and it's creating a problem! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hey... ok i have a slight problem, me and my boyfriend are both really shy.. before we started dating we could talk to each other really easily but after he asked me out we dont have much 2 talk about because we are both shy around the people we ...

Long distance confusion...any help would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - (MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted together) 1)-I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years.We get along great , told each other things ect...But , the thing is when he goes shopping he mentions it's with a girl then whe...

We freeze up and don't know how to talk to eachother in person!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - hello all. i have a beautiful, smart funny and sexy girlfriend and i couldn't be happier its just when we meet up in real life we sometimes freeze. we find it hard to communicate to one another when together but online we chat for hours. i don't k...

He can't choose between me and his gf! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - i ve been with this guy for the past 1 year....he s got a girl friend but he tells me i m the best and he cant choose he's messed up....i ve been giving him chances but yet he tells me i'm pushing him. he s done alot of stuff/ things for me n ...

Not sure if I want to marry him now! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hi i've been with my bf for 5 years and although i love him the fear of getting closer to marriage kinda scares me. It's so weird b/c marriage is all i used to think about with him..during our 2nd and 3rd year dating were were looking at rings for ...

Was he only acting this way to get me into bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I could really do with a few questions answering, as I'm driving myself crazy and getting really upset. I'm 18 and upto a month ago, I'd not kissed a guy, had a proper boyfriend and obviously hadn't had sex. This used to frustrate me every single ...

Not sure what to make of this guy.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone I have a quick question for you all and would love your opinion. There is this guy at the local pub where myself and some friends hang out a few nights a week after work. He has introduced himself to us and sits with us and has a d...

I don't want to seem interested in him in front of my friend and her brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - hey guys! ok, i just met this guy who is my age (15) the other day. he is my friend's little brother's friend. we all went to hang somewhere and the whole time he was flirting with me. he was trying to pull moves but i didnt want 2 seem interested ...

For the men: What clothing and attitude turns you on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - guys...this ones for you what clothing and attitude turns you on personally? i just want opinions. even if the chick hates what she looks like..if she dresses right and does the 'right things' does that mean you'll still get turned on? ...

Please, let lonely, single virgins suffer in silence!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I am not writing a question but posting some thoughts that I have had on my mind in regards to all of the positive responses that readers post on this website, especially in regards to people being depressed, single, virgins well into their adult ...

Is there any reason he may become uncomfortable around me all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - So I have this one guy friend where our relationship is really strained. When we talk we both talk a lot actually he usually goes on longer than me it's just that he barely ever actually answer the phone unless I say something is wrong or if i'm ...

How do I know if I have had an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hey, im a 16 year old girl and i have been dating this guy for like 3 years and we have recently started getting intimate, how do i know if i have had an orgasim is there some signs i should look for?...

Should I lose weight for my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I am totally in love with my boyfriend, and i know he loves me. Never would i doubt that but... I dont know if im pretty enough for him. I'm worried about my weight. I am 5'3" and weigh 106lbs. I'm not even what some people would consider chubby. ...

Did he mean it, or was he just being polite, what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I went on a first date today...it went pretty well, lasted about 5 hours, and there were a few opportunities for him to cut it shorter if he had wanted to. We ended the date with drinks at a bar a block from my apartment and it started pouring on ...

Short girl, Tall guy, How can I get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - MODS NOTE: The title you'd like has already been used, so I changed it slightly so I could post question for you. Hi. My name is J. Anyway, I have an interesting question: I am 5-foot-3 and there is this guy I like that is 6-foot-5. My question...

My boyfriend raped me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. I am 20 years old. I have always been committed to abstaining from sex til marriage - not "everything but", I mean really abstaining from sexual activity. The furthest I went with my first boyfriend was us both taking o...

Porn makes me physically sick, how can I tell my b/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Hey well iv never watched porn before but my boyfriend wanted me to try it cause he thinks i would like it. When i watched it it made me throw up i was grossed out by it. Should i tell him i watched and it made me throw up? Is that normal to have ...

I want to go down on him, but I can't for some reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - i want to go down on my boyfriend for the first time but everytime i try i get nervous and chicken out. i want to do it for him because hes gone down on me beofre. is there any method or something i can use to make it easier for me. besides drinking ...

The two loves of my teen life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - Am i stupid? i was in a relationship for a few months with this boy, and i completely fell head over heals for him. this was all new for me because i had never truely believed in love.well after about 5 months i decided it was time to prove to him i ...

Is he interested or just joking with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - he calls me baby and says my name with his surname all the time, he flirts alot. he just helped me get out of a really bad relationship with my ex (ive known him for some time now and he one of those friends where i always look for when i have a ...

My boyfriend is not doing a very good job at staying in contact!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend isn't doing a very good job of keeping in touch with me besides texting after he went to college. How should I let him know we need to try something better?...

Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and ...

Why can't I let my ex go? should I give this new guy a shot, or do I leave both of them alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of a year and a half 2 months ago because we live in different countries and the distance/trust was becoming too hard to handle. We had a good relationship, but we never trusted each other because of the distance and ...