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Dating: Help and advice

Where do we stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - okay well there is this guy and we known eachother for some time. we went out just to chill one day. and we ending up kissing loads.... he said to me after nothing further like meaning us liking eachother and stuff im like yeahh but he says thing...

Why does he get so creeped out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Hi I have been dating my current bf for a year and 8 months.. He's had more of a past with girls than I have (I was a virgin), he's done it with 6 girls. I ask him questions about his past experiences but he doesn't like to answer them and gets ...

The older I get the less I want a partner and kids - is there something wrong with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I'm 25 years old, with a good steady job and a small close network of friends. I have been single for well over a 3 years now - I have tried online dating since this and Ive meet up with a few people but just lately im just not impressed with what i ...

He hugs me and every other girl too, is he just a player?

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28 August 2010 (F) - well there is this guy who i have been seeing for the past 5 months, i am a sophmore and he is graduated. i see him everyday and he comes up to me smiles says hi ad gives me an insanly big hug, but he also hugs every other girl. does he really like ...

Am I the reason he does this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I need someone to talk to. My 46 year old boyfriend is a pothead. This was hidden from me when we met and he knew I was against it. I moved in with him and soon he was smoking pot with his friend. It was of course for pain from an old ingury. Next ...

How do I get him back? he is with someone else now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Well I was going out with this boy and then I dumped him, and he said to me thats alright I likee someone else and then I was going to say I madee I big mistakee then I found out that he was already going out with the girl he likeed; how do I geet ...

How should I act? I wan't her to give me another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly three and a half years and she decided she wanted a break from the relationship. It's been going downhill with arguments started by me being a complete jerk 99.9% of the time (not being self-blaming, ...

Open relationship? break? long distance? what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I met a guy this summer and we ended up going out for a bit. We didn't make a big deal about it (no change in relationship statuses on facebook etc.) but he lives far away. He left a few days ago and i am puzzled about what is going to happen now. ...

A twisted relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Ok so i do not know what to do so i thought i would come here for some help. I am 18 years old and in a very confused state of mind. It is really a long story but i will shorten it and please any feedback to this is great because i need som...

I want to wait for her, but I can't wait forever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend more than anything. We broke up a couple weeks ago, with her saying she needs time. I have no problem giving her time, but she doesnt know how much time she needs. I want to wait for her, but i cant wait forever. We still talk ...

I caught my boyfriend dressing up like a girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 3 years. This all started a year ago when he started to like putting nail polish on and wear heels and nylons. I learnt he had transvestic fetishism which I accepted and moved on... Well last night ...

Is a relationship with a high doom factor worth pursuing?

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28 August 2010 (F) - Hello! Just wanted to know your thoughts. If a relationship has a high doom factor, is it worth pursuing? Would you pursue it? I met someone recently but he lives very far, not to mention he's at a very different stage of his life to m...

How can I feel more secure in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I am 29 years old and do not have much experience with men and dating. I fell in love as a teenager, but the relationship did not work out. He always made me feel like I was never good enough for him. He would pull me in and push me away. After ...

What do I do about my long distance, stressed out bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Okay so I've been with my guy for almost three years and we are long distance right now while I'm finishing up school (just three more months!) and hes trying to find work near home. We had a lil bump in the road a few months ago where he went into ...

She wants to date again, but she's a cheater! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Hey, so i have a problem, i started dating this girl in 9th grade, and we were great together, advancing well, but then three days later we broke up. She said that it just didnt feel right, that i felt like more of a friend to her. Then a couple ...

Resolving my erection issues with my gf! Help me out here.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Hi all, I have been seeing this wonderful lady for about 2 months. I have a bit of erection (ED) issue and is currently getting helps from professional. The lady is very understanding. We haven't had actual sex yet. We discussed this issue t...

I think I am attracted to my GF's younger sister!

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28 August 2010 (M) - hi i need help i think i am finding that i am attracted sexualy to my Gf's younger sister. is this normal. it is worrying me thanx...

Should I approach her with my true feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I'm an 18 year old guy and I have a crush on my female friend who is 20. People who have seen us together have told me that we would make a cute couple. I was hanging out with her and a 3 other close mutual friends when her best friend said it to ...

His gf dumped him...how do I let him know am interested in dating him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - This guy friend of mine, we worked together until his contract was canceled. When we worked together he liked to flirt with me and stuff, but we never get into anything b/c he had a GF and we were just joking. Now, his GF dumped him, so he's try...

He does not want a relationship but still wants to see me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend online 3 months everything was going great and we still get on well. I realised he recentley was acting weird and asked him what was wrong, he then told me that he did not want to be in a relationship at the moment but still wants ...

Dancing dilemma!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - hey people!!! Ok so i asked my boyfriend to my school dance, i am excited but also nervous becuase i suck at dancing, I really dont want to embarrass myself... what should i do???? :(...

I can't figure out what direction our friendship may be taking

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28 August 2010 (M) - There is this girl who kinda blew me away the first time I saw her. I didnt really think much of it at first, but over the last months Ive come to realize I really like her. But she happens to be 2 years older than me (Im 20). Anyway, we alw...

My family and friends don't think I should have got back with him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are back together after a 3 month break, the prolem is my friends and family aren't pleased for me because its a long distance relationshop they think im stupid for it but they dont understand how i feel. Also, I have my friends ...

Is it possible to not have to play games in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) - Is it possible to not have to play games in a relationship? I am in a long distance relationship. I have been in contact with this guy for just over a year. When we were just friends, things were great. But since we decided to be "in a relationship" ...

Is "the effort" ever worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I'm a 20 year old guy. I'm a college student, I'm an aspiring writer and I'm not ashamed to say that I am a geek (comics/movies/video games.) I wouldn't have it any other way. I can talk to women and hold a decent conversation with them but th...

I feel as if he just used me... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) - Hi there i am so glad i found this site as i need advice regarding my stupid affair... we met 3 months ago after a row with my partner (we have two children) i was feeling unappreciated and not been shown much affection for a while, i just kinda ...

How can I cheer him up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I'm 21, and my guy is in a deep depression, he's like sad all day, he's really hardworking though, but always sad, he isn't speak much, isn't his regular joker self, and is barely smiling. He's 30 by the way, and I met him online, I'm not ...

Is it normal to only spend 1-2 nights per week with your partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Is it normal to only spend 1-2 nights per week with your partner? My partner and I have been living together for over two years, and I have always shared his time with his daughter (to a previous relationship) and his work. He spends 3 nights p...

Help me get out of this relationship!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my gf, she is working as a prostitute against my will. Nothing i do or say will stop her, i think it empowers her in some way. On top of this, she is acting insecure, hyper-jealous, irrational, temperamenta...

Afraid of being alone...

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28 August 2010 (F) - I think i should leave the guy im dating... but i have a huge fear of being alone, i never really thought i was a great girl but all the guys i date tell me i am, yet i feel like if i leave this guy ill never find a guy to love me unconditionally ...

Bad boyfriend? How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - So im dating a guy... its been about 6 months now and we have been through a lot of drama, breaking up and him making mistakes and hurting me A LOT, breaking promises. And yet i cant seem to let him and the feelings i have for him go.. sadly i ...

I want to know more about my boyfriend's past hook ups!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

My boyfriend or this other guy? Three is a crowd...

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28 August 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for a while! When we're good we're good but when we're bad we're bad! We have separated many times, well this last time I dated a guy whom has been nothing but a close friend, he listened to all my problems, he was my ...

Whyy is she acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I'll try to keep this short. I was seeing a woman from work for about 8 or 9 months. Initially she was with someone else and we were just friends. Her relationship with this other person was pretty unhealthy (sexual assault and aggression towar...

Help this relationship please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I know this sounds bad but i have a boyfriend who's shy. He wont say anything sexual. I told him today that im a little horny sometimes...and now im afraid im losing him. He didnt reply back ( it was over Facebook ). What should i do? What can i say ...

I've been hurt so badly and don't want to get hurt again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Okay, I'm 16 almost 17 years old. I'm breaking down more than ever right now. I've been in two past relationships that were both ended horribly. When I was 13 my first ex decided to treat me like crap and never want to do anything and then have se...

I want to CHANGE for her - how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I've been with a girl for about five months now and she's very special to me. We dated for one month in school, 3 months during the summer and one month while SHE'S in college. I've always had issues and I've been clingy but I've been trying t...

How can I control my emotions with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 16 and I just turned 18, we have been dating almost a year and a half and both are definitely in love. We both get emotional and fight a lot but in the end we always want to stay together...but my boyfriend doesn't feel respecte...

Do I have commitment issues? I actually want a steady relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Okay look, none of my relationships work i can talk to a person for a while and then if we start dating its like things change and i don't feel the same way about him or i just loose interest in the relationship. Why does this happen? is it ...

It seems as though he may like me...but then he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - OK, I like this guy, and sometimes it seems like he likes me. for instance: 1-we were supposed to go to a fair w/a group, but it rained, so (over texting) he said he might go see a movie instead, and I said that sounds like a good idea, and he organ...

Is he just shy? Should I make a move? So confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - So I reconnect with a friend from high school online…we went out for like month (purely innocent) during my first yr of high school. So I broke up with him, I don’t remember why, but we remained friends. We lost contact and recently exchange ...

How can I make our relationship stronger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I am 13 years old boy and I have been dating this girl for a month now and I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make our relationship stronger....

We had a fight and he told me he has feelings for someone else...I am so confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of almost two years and i got into a fight, during this fight he told me he had feelings for someone else, but that he wasnt going to leave me for her, or cheat on me with her, so then why bother telling me? i feel like he is hiding ...

I find myself always trying to please him, but no matter what I do he's never happy. What shld I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship going on two years now. we have lived with each other since within the first few months of dating. as time has gone by the relationship has gotten very rocky. I find myself always trying to please him, but no matter ...

How can I stop worrying about my boyfriend's "big night out"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is going on a massive lad's night out tomorrow. I'm really nervous about it and how he might meet some new girls etc. How can I stop worrying?...

I want to get our own place and move forward... but my boyfriend says to be patient!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend when I was sixteen and he was eighteen, we went to different schools. We lived only about thirty minutes away from each other and have lots of things we can relate to, we have had our differences and our issues and our faults. We ...

How do you get over being the crazy ex-girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 months and I split up about a month ago. I'm ashamed to say I was the crazy ex-girlfriend. I sent him about 8 messages a week for like 5 weeks. I couldn't get over it. Some of them were really unfair. Some were saying how much ...

If he loves me, why does he want to change me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of about a year has been for the past few months, i think, trying to change me. He makes me feel so guilty about wearing too short of shorts, make up, and talking to my guy friends. Yet he can talk to his lady friends all he wants. He ...