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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - hi, I'm a virgin and I'm 18. I really do want to have sex but I take my virginity a lot serious. My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you. Do you ...

He asked my friend that I contact him which I did but he hasn't replied, now I feel stupid.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy recently through one of my friends. We seemed to get on well and after that he asked my friend to get me to contact him. I decided to so I emailed him but he hasn't replied back to me. Now I feel stupid for getting in touch and also ...

I'm 18 and have never had my first kiss or a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I am in college and have never had a relationship. I've never had my first kiss or a boyfriend. It's scaring me a bit because lately I've been thinking of myself as undesireable. It's not as if I'm drop dead ugly, I honestly don't know what it is ...

How do you flirt with a girl who has been a close friend for several years?

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7 October 2008 (M) - how do you flirt with a girl who has been a close friend for 3 years now?...

My ex and I still think about each other but I am planning marriage with another, when in reality I dislike this new relationship and wish I were single! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi ill get straight to the point! ive been very silly full stop. I was in a rocky relationship with my ex of four years on and off our problems were only caused to me basically acting like a little girl and causing arguments for the sake of it and ...

I'm so confused. Is my flatmate flirting with me? I want to know where I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Im curious for other peoples opinions on where I stand with my relationship wth my flatmate. Now before anyone goes off on a "you should never date your flatemate" thing - that's not what I'm asking. Im simply asking for opinions as I'm not 100% ...

What did he mean by this comment? He would if he could?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hello guys, quick question. There is this guy I liked but he has a gf. But we were talking about me and how guys don't really see me as thgf type. He text me back once saying "all I can say is I would if I could". I just said to him I do...

I think she wants me and is interested but why then does she refuse to talk?

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7 October 2008 (M) - hello, i just cant understand this girl. she looks at me everytime and also her freinds do that and play with her hair. so today i was walking and hit her quitely just for special flirt !! and i think she wanted that because she didnt move f...

I am her first boyfriend, she is very nervous when I am close, how can I help her relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My gf is always very nervous when we are together especially when i hold her hand or touch her leg or when we kissed for the first time. She is very great to be around when she is nervous too but i sort of feel bad for making her feel nervous. And ...

I want to spare my boyfriend the heartache when I die! Should I let him down gently by now? Or continue being with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My boyfriend loves me and i love my boyfriend more than anything else in the world and i want to spend the rest of my life together with him (yes i am gay!) I have an inherited disease called Cystic Fibrosis and i wont live to be beyong my mid 20...

I don't get engaged in conversations as I am too shy to raise my opinion or even chat! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - i am incredibly shy and do not get involved in conversations with my girlfriend or even some of my best friends because i am too shy to raise my opinion or even chat. my social life is in ruins because of my shyness and i am good in most subjects...

Should I tell my mum before she finds out herself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi, well my question/problem is this- I am 15 and recently had sex with my boyfriend of 11 month. We both love each other and don't regret anything but recently one of my friends slept with a boy from school and her mum and dad found out via her ...

My boyfriend is only able to cum through oral sex and not intercourse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I am 49 and my boyfriend of 7 years is 38. We have sex 4-5 times a week. Lately, he is only able to orgasm through oral sex. Although I don't mind pleasuring him that way, I wonder why he is having trouble having orgasms through "regular" sex ...

I feel insecure, I hate my looks and wish I had bigger boobs!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Help me, I'm such an insecure idiot... I hate my looks. I just feel very insecure. Especially with my boyfriend. Yes, he thinks I'm pretty and have a nice body. But there's this factor: a) I asked. He likes toned bodies and bigger breasts....

Please help this stupid shy girl...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - The problem is that I'm very shy around the guys I like. I am too shy to start a conversation and sth like that. At the moment there's a guy I see quite often, he sometimes works in a nightclub I often go to. So was the last week. I went with my ...

Rumours are going round my boyfriend's sleeping with my EX!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I'm 23, and my boyfriend's 25 and we live together. Our relationship's been great up until about 4 weeks ago. We were out shopping, and had fun in the sales, and I happened to see my ex (who lives in the same region/town as us). We got talking, ...

Do I go back to the ex and think of what I've missed with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do. Please help. I am currently taking a break from my boyfriend becuase I'm trying to get over my ex that I thought I was over but cleary am not. I broke up with my ex and had to change my number and email because he wouldn't ...

What to do? Strange situation...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi Well, basically, at the begginning of the year February time, me and my boyfriend had a bit of an argument, he had looked at my phone, seen I had text an ex who meant absolutly nothing to me, but I'd rather be friends than enemies at the end of t...

Am I expecting too much from people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some thoughts about this, I have been with my boyfriend 9 months, he has introduced me to his friends, I cannot say that his friends are bad people but they are people that I wouldn't choose to be friends with me because they dont have ...

Snickers is great but what is life like on Mars?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My fiance and I are in our mid-20's and have been dating since high school. We're deeply in love but our sex live is less than perfect. I want it more often than she does, and also desire more variety in the act. She likes meat and potatoes sex once...

I need suggestions on how to cope with my jealousy of his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - hey guys my name is faith and i am having a bit of an issue. i cannot seem to get over this jealousy of one of my bf's ex girlfriends. We have been dating for a year now and im sure your thinking oh my gosh not another one of these. well my story ...

Me and my girlfriend split three days ago, but I want her back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I've just broken up with my girlfriend, we was only going out for a short period of time, we broke up because she said we kept argueing. but i still want her back, is there any way to find out wether she likes me still, without out bein...

Is he not interested, or is he just in a bad place, having lost his mum?

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7 October 2008 (F) - well two months ago I met a guy when I was out we really hit it off. He explained how he has not chatted a woman up for 2 years and is very out of practise. Also he told me how his mum was really ill and how hard things were. Well over the next ...

I'm under 21 and can't go out for a drink with him and his friends! Shoutd I be hurt or embarrassed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 39 and I am 19. Despite the age difference, we have a good relationship. We have been together almost a year. The only age related problem we have is that he doesn't want me to meet his friends because they may ask us to go "grab ...

How do you ask out your best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - how do you ask out a girl whoe has been your best friend for a very long time?...

Is he confused about this new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to him and we were friends with benefits for months but i felt like I was being used so I said no more. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his gf but then he started to freak out about this ...

Is there anything else I could put in the room to make it even more special and romantic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - hey all, my girlfriend is going away for a few months. i have organised a really fancy dinner, and a posh hotel room, for our last evening, i have some surprises for her along the way...and i am also going to put some things in the hotel room before ...

He says I'm his soul mate but he doesn't want to be with me anymore...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I have a huge problem... and I don't really know what I need to do. This guy I've been with for just over 2 years decided he didn't want to be with me any more. But he still says that I'm his soulmate and that he loves me more than anything. I'm so ...

Please help me build the courage to leave my abusive boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has verbally abused and verbally abused and verbally abused me for months. He blamed it on the fact that he was going through a rough time in his Life and that it would pass as soon as he found a job. He has found a job and it hasn'...

I want to ask her if there's someone else but I'm afraid of the answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is hanging out a lot with her friends. I am okay with that because she should have her own private time to do what she likes and with the people she wants to. Usually, she goes out for her hobbies. I tried to like what she likes b...

My boyfriend is a functional alcoholic, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Why do I have to pay for my boyfriend being a functional alcoholic? Why do I get called names by him when he is drunk, He belittles me in front of friends, He does not talk to me, he tell mes that he has NO problems and that I am the problem, (he...

Is he over it or am I fooling myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through a lot in 4 years. It started with a break up and he met another girl. Then we got back together with my assumption nothing ever happened between them because I believed what he said. I would catch texts and phone ...

I worry about my boyfriend constantly for no reason.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I keep wanting my boyfriend to be with me all the time and I think it's annoying him. We've been together just over 2 years. The thing is I always worry about him and ask him to let me know when he gets where he's going. I've worried so much before ...

She said she was ok with the fact I have a girlfriend and baby, but now has disappeared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - i have a problem and i don't know how to get out of this, i have a girlfriend who also a mother of my son, as we are not living together i happen to fall in love with another girl, i told her that i luv her but i have another one who have my child ...

Must I move back home to a man that can not trust me and who is verbally abusive and make all these threats or must I move on with my own life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody, I have been engaged for 16 years and every year I ask my fiance when will we get married and his answer is always one day well. This past year he just doesn't want to do any thing with the family, he always comes home after work and ...

I dream of my boyfriend with other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi! I am a 26 year old. I have a great sex life with my boyfriend. But I have one strange problem. I like to fantasise other girls having sex with my boyfriend. It is a huge turn on. I like to fantasise that I am watching him while he has sex with ...

I feel so guilty that I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years with his best friend, now I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - hi, I'm 20 and I have a boyfriend. We've been together for about 3 years now. I really love him a lot, we're kind of a "happy couple", you know. But 2 months ago, I cheated on him with his best friend. We went to a birthday party together (my ...

What is the definition of an 'alpha male'? Come on, ladies!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - LADIES, LADIES, LADIES! Pray tell: what is your definition of an 'alpha male' exactly? Also: what do you mean when you say that a guy 'is out of your league'? Is it better to go out with a guy who is at the top of your league, or one who is at the ...

Why does it hurt everytime I have sex as much as the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two weeks. We have done it about 8-9 times and every single time it hurts just as much as the first time. I don't understand why my body won't adjust and it seems that even if i take a little while ...

My boyfriend proposed and I said no because I wasn't ready. I feel guilty.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

7 October 2008 (?) - My boyfriend of 3 years proposed to me. I told him no because i'm not ready to get married. I do feel a bit guilty cause he was a little upset. We've been fighting about dumb stuff (like who forget take out the trash.) What should I do? The guilt is ...

I think she wants to see other people during our break. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Last sunday my Girlfriend said we need a break, that she needs her space. OK i understand that and i am giving her space, she wants to call me ever couple days just to stay in touch, so i know she cares, but i think she wants to see other people ...

We date on and off, but we can't seem to talk face-to-face.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5896 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - I am a high school student (first year)and it seems throughout the past 2 yrs me and the girl have been dating on and off for quite a bit (maybe 4 times) and we always get close over the internet and txt messaging, but at school it seems like she ...

Told him I miss him and he said I shouldn't miss him because he doesn't deserve it and asked me to not fall in love with him because that truly scares him and he doesn't want to hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I am completely perplexed. I have been dating my boyfriend for going on five months now and I was just starting to fall for him hard though I have not told him I love him. We weren't able to get together this weekend because he spends every other ...

Is her dad too over protective of her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 months her dad is really protective. We were holding hands this weekend and later he asked her "Are your hands on each others legs when you hold hands at all?" her being the good daughter and obedient ...