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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I lost my virginity to him and we were friends with benefits for months but i felt like I was being used so I said no more. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his gf but then he started to freak out about this new label and said that he felt pressure to always hang out w/ his "girlfriend"I told him that nothing has changed and if he wanted space, i would give it to him. He said he did but then the next day we hung out and I asked him what he wanted and he said he didnt want to lose me and wanted to keep hanging out to really get to know me and see if he wants me as a gf. He also said we shouldnt have sex anymore. I havent seen him or heard from him since thurs of last week (i went away for the weekend) i dont want to call him cause I dont want to sound needy or pressure him. Is he confused about this new relationship and needs more time or are we over? I know that he doesnt treat me like I deserve to be treated but for some reason, i cant live without him and im afraid of losing him. Help what should I do?
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reader, karlgoo +, writes (7 October 2008):
 I think he is just nervous and maybe really likes you and does not want to rush things so you two can stick together longer. Don't worry about sounding needy if you call him. I am sure he likes you so he won't fell pressured. Just ask him if he wants to hang out and then see if any serious conversation is appropriate or not.
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