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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I feel as though he resents me over uneven income.

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13 October 2008 (F) - Is there a solution to uneven finances? I am thinking that men have a harder time jobless and at a lower level income ( unemployment income) for the most part. Any ideas? I sense my boyfriend (well we are separated over this) harbors quite a lot of...

I fell in love with a man.. but he's really a woman... and now I'm so confused. Please help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just ...

How can I feel better after breaking up with my first love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hi, i have a problem about me and my ex. we were recentley dating but he says he doesnt want a girlfriend at the moment. im not sure what to do i am still madly in love with him and i didnt want to brewak up with him. he said nothing would ever ...

Do you think it's worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - is it woth it?? I like this boy so much.his names casey.I loved him since 8th grade.hes kinda short,has pale skin,freckals,has curly red kurly hair that like an afro,blue eyes and wears black punk clothes.he dies his hair brown.he looks across fro...

More physically intamate with my platonic friend than with any boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I have a friend, whom I have known through mutual friend for a long time, but have become very close with in past few years and especially after his fathers death. I thought at one point, that he may have romantic feeling towards me and I towards ...

I feel like I'm suffocating. I don't know what I can do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I'm sorry if this is long or boring but I am really in need of some guidance. I live in Canada and have been dating my boyfriend Matt for two years. He lives in Ireland and for these two years, we've maintained the long distance relationship. ...

I want to go to the prom but not without my girlfriend, how can I work around this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Prom is coming up. I am a junior and my girlfriend is a freshman. At both of our schools you HAVE to be a junior or senior to attend. I want to go but I do not want to go without her or without a date....

My long distance girlfriend wants to break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Well it all started a year and half ago. I was 21 and she was 18. We met over a friends house. She chased after me and we evetnually started dating and were happy. We didnt see that we had much in common at first and almost broke up after a month ...

Is my vagina too large for my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts, I am worried that my vagina is too large for my boyfriend. I am 30 yrs old and have not had any children, and he has a large penis (it must be 7 or 8 inches and is quite wide - certainly the largest I have encountered). Al...

Personality change!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - So I have been together with my boyfriend for 2 months today. And at the beginning of our relationship he was all sweet and always wanted to be with me and made time for me if he could. He always made me so happy when I was in a bad mood. He would ...

I want to stop hiding my relationship from my mum but am not sure if she will understand and give her approval.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - i am 13 years old and i have known this guy for a year we got together and i have been with him for 5 months now. my mom doesn't approve of me dating she would most likely get mad i just don't know why she doesn't approve. i want to be open with...

I am scared that it will be too late for me to have children soon and I want to feel not just loved but also desired.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I need some advice I am 32 years old and have just embarked on a new career after a period of unemployment and ill health. I have been with my partner for five years, we do not live together and when he stays with me for any period of time w...

Obsessive girlfriend or sneaky boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I am in a (mostly) amazing relationship with someone I am truly in love with. We have been dating for over a year. In the beginning of our relationship, we had a lot of problems because of his previous girlfriend. They talked on the ph...

I'm falling in love... should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I think I'm falling in love with this guy that I'm in an unofficial relationship with. He says that he wants to wait and see if were compatible enough to be together and I guess I can understand. We live about an hour and half away from each other. ...

I'm nervous around men as I have no relationship experience, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I am loiking for some advice. I am in my 20s and I have never had a boyfriend, I work with a lot of guys and have recently fallen for one of them, although I have no experience with men I always come across as a bit of a flirt because I am so ...

We met on line, I don't know if he remembers that I have a child, I want him irregardless of the distance and all of his flaws... but does he want me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - hi! please help! i've met this guy online and we connected instantly. was only a member for a day or two when i came across his profile and i thought i'd send him an interest. he got back to me and since then we have been chatting via ym for months. ...

I'm getting mixed signals from him and I'm getting sick of this. Any ideas on what made him change his persona on both occasions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I work at a local theme park. Over the course of the summer I have become friendly with Mike. Two weekends ago we worked side by side all night. He was very flirty and nice. He gave me his hand warmers and placed one on my forhead. He asked me about ...

I talked to another guy at a party, he was entertaining and made me question my relationship with my boyfriend, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - im feeling really confused just now, i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and its been great ive never wanted to be with anyone else... he makes me feel happy just knowing he's around but the other day we were at a party and i met a ...

Why is sex causing my boyfriend discomfort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - When I have sex with my boyfriend I rub him raw... I know I'm small in that area and he's larger than I'm used to, is that the problem or is it because we are doing it too long and I'm not wet enough?...

Do you think that a bachelor of 52 years old will ever be ready for marriage or commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hi I am 35 years old and in a new relationship with a wonderful 52 year old man. This is not the common is he to old for me problem, however, he has never been married and never had children. Me on the other hand am divorced and have a 15 year old...

I have asked him for a break so I can get my head together, am I doing the right thing for us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hi, this is kind of long I hope you don't mind. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and I've just split up with him. I've been having a really hard time recently with a lot of thoughts going through my head so I took a break from him for a week...

His family hates me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Well, here I am again... I have been on here a number of times. Pretty soon you all will know me because I am the 65 year old woman that has been dating a 69 year old man for 3 years and 10 months with no engagement or marriage in the future. He ...

I just started a relationship with a girl who's really happy about it but now that girl that I'm in love with wants me back? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I was in a relationship with this girl since January. We fell for each other and i love her so much. We recentl broke up though in August because of a bump in the road that i thought we could work through it. But I guess she didn't think we could. ...

After falling in love with him I find out he's married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - It's complicated. I met this guy in my new office and in a month we committed to have a relationship. We're from a different race and religion, in our family culture it's not common to have relationship indifferent race and religion. (There...

I really don't like my body so I won't let my bf touch me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - hi i need helpppppppppppppp!!!! i have been with my bf for 4 months now. i love him so much but theres 1 problem. i dont like my body i will never show any skin and i wont let him touch sertain areas.eg belly legs boobs n bum. i dono how i cn over ...

I get really insecure when we don't have sex for a couple of days!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - i've bin with my bf for almost 6years now. the problems started after giving birth to our baby girl(5mnths). i became so into sex, i would get turned on by just looking at him or feel him pass by, but 3mnths afta, things changed. i have to really ...

Why won't he pay me any compliments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now, but he has never paid me a compliment. I have often made a considerable effort to look really nice for him, but he doesn't seem to notice. I spoke to him about this a couple of weeks back, and told him ...

Thoughts and general advice on this situation would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Referring to the question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-say-or-do-that-isnt.html Well since I posted that a couple of things. We have spent more time together and agree to meet at some point. One day as we were saying bye she wa...

Do I still love him? I take him for granted but he doesn't deserve it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I am so so confused. I just cant figure out whether i am in love with my man, or whether i just love being with him. We have been together on and off for 4 years. Recently, I have been feeling very little in the way of chemistry and sex dri...

We are meant to be getting married but he keeps starting fights about how much sex we have. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Is there any advice for us???? I have gone from being so very very happy when my now fiance proposed to me 2 months ago to feeling like I just want to cry. Basically we had a huge argument last week which resulted in lots of screaming and shouting ...

She terminated our long distance, online relationship. Should I still call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I am having a long distance relationship for about 8 months. She is 3x years, divorced and I am 2x. Some of her emails meant a lot to me. When she asked for my email password, I told her if we fight in future, never delete those emails because I...

Does a girl have regular periods in pregnancy or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Hey Guys, Me and my Girlfriend regularly have sex. Please note that "I DO NOT INSERT THE COMPLETE PENIS INSIDE" YOu can say that only the head of the penis goes inside and i withdraw before exploding. Now, my MAJOR CONCERN is I want to confirm ...

Did he really mean it? Or it was just said in the heat of the moment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I was having sex with my 8 month's boyfriend yesterday, and I told him that I loved him while we were having sex. I do feel it, and I am very emotional, and we have shared that we have strong feelings for each other, so when I told him that...

I love him, but our families don't get on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - hi im 30 and my boyfriend is 20, we love each other but i dont get along with his family and he dont get along with my family. what should i do? when he was locked up i was the only one there for him not his family. so should i just move on and love...

He called me by MY FRIEND'S name when we were having sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend was drunk and called me my friends name during sex. They have only met twice, and I know they are not seeing each other. How should I take this?...

We've been fighting a lot recently and now she seems really distant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I need some advice please... 3 weeks ago me and my girlfriend it seemed like we hit a rough patch I dont knw what happened but over night it seemed like things changed abruptly like she stopped talking to me as much, we didn't flirt as much, hold ...

Why am I so dry down below when we make love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Why, when me and boyfriend have sex I'm horny but when it's time for him to penetrate me, my pussy is very dry, why is that???...

Is this love or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Let me start off by saying that I'm a 15 year old girl and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend, 17, for over 5 months now. He recently just told me that he loved me. We're both so young. Is it possible to be in love at our age? What if ...

I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm very young and I'm worried about a lot of things. This is going to sound weird but I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it because I don't like my attraction to female feet. Secondly I am worried about future relatioships and sex ...