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writes:Hi! I am a 26 year old. I have a great sex life with my boyfriend. But I have one strange problem. I like to fantasise other girls having sex with my boyfriend. It is a huge turn on. I like to fantasise that I am watching him while he has sex with another girl. I like the fact that he gets aroused by other girls. I also fantasise that he is cheating on me and I happen to walk in while he is having sex with others but if he had tried to do any of it in reality I would definietly leave him. What is wrong with me?
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reader, meforyou  +, writes (7 October 2008):
I'm exactly the same lol, i don't know what it is though. There's nothin wrong with you so don't worry. You can't help what turns you on :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about things like that...there are plenty of weirder fantasies out there. Like myself I get turned on by the thought of certain things that in real life I think is really disgusting. The fact that you know it's not real gives it a different feeling and lets you react in a different way.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 October 2008):
 Nothing. I used to have a similar fantasy! Blimey I cant believe I gave that away lol But I too wouldn't of wanted it to happen in real life! I dont even have the fantasy anymore, I think often its just a phase, in a few months it might be another fantasy, So I wouldn't worry.
Allsorts of things make the world go round, if its not hurting anyone and its legal who cares ey!
C xxxxx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (7 October 2008):
 It's nice to hear you and your boyfriend have a great sex life. Long may it continue! (winks). Lots of people get turned on at the thought of their significant other being taken (or taking) someone else sexually. It's a popular fantasy and there's nothing wrong with you. Rape fantasies are very popular too by many. It IS just fantasy of course, that's the good thing about it. Like you said, actually seeing him do that in "real life" would be quite another thing. In my opinion fantasies are always better left as fantasies as the reality is NEVER the same. Enjoy!
~Eve~
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