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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to spend time with me? What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my fiance one year now and we only see each other twice a week. The two days out of the 7 he would rather spend at home or with my family. I get all dressed up trying to look cute and you would think since we only have those two ...

I told myself that I would never mention marriage to him again, but at the same time, I don't really want to help pay for a house that is only in his name... what do I do here for the best?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I have been living w/ my boyfriend for 2 yrs. We have been renting. He is now working on getting a loan for a house (to buy) and we have started house hunting. He has been talking about putting the house in his name only. I don't really care for...

Is it ok to try new things without discussing it or am I right to be upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I am sexually active with my bf of 9 months. Last night we had sex and he pulled out and jizzed all over me. He's never done that before. We use birth control and he didn't need to do that. I got mad because he didn't ask first. He says he shouldn't ...

My ex best friend just so happens to be my boyfriend's best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 mths now. His best friend just so happens to be the girl i grew up with, an used to be best friends with. we are no longer friends because she slept with alot of my boyfriends in the past an have ...

Do you think guys can grow on you or that if there's no instant attraction there never will be????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I've been on a few dates with a guy. He seems sweet but I've not felt any real attraction. He's quite good looking and ticks a lot of the boxes - he's intelligent, got a good job, sporty etc but for some reason I've not felt a real spark. He's ...

How do I go down on my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - My ex-girlfriend taught me a technique that produced her first blended orgasm where I would gently suck around her clitoris and hum while my lips were pursed and shake my head left and right to gently pull the surrounding skin area while stimulating ...

What's the best way to use a vibrator on my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have talked about using some sex toys but neither one of us has any experience with them and she's a bit quiet in the bedroom and usually likes it better when I take charge. Any tips on the best way to use a vibrator or the ...

I never kissed anyone and now I might like a boy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - A guy really likes me and he keeps asking me out. I think I like him too but I'm really not sure. I'm really worried about kissing him as I've never kissed anyone before. Please help :(...

How do I know if I'm gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - The thing is I do fancy boys but I do fancy some girls as well. When my friend messes around I feel very uneasy. How do I know if I'm straight, bi, or gay?...

How hard is it to have a relationship with someone who is bi-polar?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I have been involved with a lovely man for about five months now. We had known each other for about six months before that but just as part of a group of friends. Things have become quite serious between us and we have begun to talk about having a ...

I made a commet to my boyfriend and I don't know if I hurt his feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hello everybody, and thanks for read my post, I think I said something to my boyfriend that wasn't good, we had a discution 2 days ago, he is a very quiet guy, he doesn't raise his voice, but I am very volatil, and sometimes I say things that I ...

I get nervous talking to girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - This is my first time asking someone what should i do in my relations with a woman. I lived in Sweden originally. I am from Iraq and have been here in Sweden for 9 months now. I am 17 years old. My problem is that I have this fear of talking ...

My LDR needs too much attention and he becomes tempermental!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hi all, Please help I need your advice. My relationship with my long distance Bf for 2 yrs is getting to be in the rock bottom. Our plans to meet each other has been push through due to some personal problems. Lately he has some major problem...

Has he changed his mind? He told me all he wants is a bit of fun.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I have fallen head over heels with a guy I work with. I thought he felt the same but he says he just wants a bit of fun which I am taking he just wants sexually favours which he knows that I wont do as he calls me sheltered. He goy annoyed when I ...

I have lost two friends over us dating! How can I restore my friendships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I have been feeling really sorry for myself recently and it's a bit of a long story so here goes... I'm currently learning Spanish at university and last year I met a really great friend who came from Spain and was studying at my University in En...

STD from a dog?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - I came home from work early and saw my girlfriend at the time uploading videos to the web. When i logged onto the PC i went to check out what she recorded. It seems my ex-girlfriend engaged is sexual acts with my German Sheppard. She literally had ...

How do I help him through this? He's married and I love him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I fell in love with a married man, we are perfect for each other and we have been together for 6 months, he says he is in love with me too. He has not been happy with his wife of 9 years for a very, very long time and planned on leaving her even ...

What should I do to smell better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Okay i am a little embarrassed. My boyfriend says that when I am on my period I smell a bit. What should I do to smell better. I have seen the wipes in the supermarket, should i use them or baby wipes?...

I think I am obsessed with a guy I work with, any useful tips please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I think I am obsessed with a guy I work with, I can't get him out of my head and I feel that if I don't see him, my day is somehow incomplete. I have tried staying in my own office and blanking him, but it's not working. Has anyone got any usef...

Where am I going wrong, please tell me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I made a bit of a fool of myself with this guy I thought liked me, I asked him out which took me ages to build the courage to do, and he said yes, then he didn't turn up, I see him nearly every day and we just talk like nothing has happened, and ...

My tip's on talking to a crush.

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3 October 2008 (F) - Hi, My tip is: If you like a boy don't act like you're someone else. Because if you do he's bound to find out sooner or later. If you be yourself and he doesn't like you or makes fun of you, then he's not worth dating, but if he does like who you ...

Does anyone find it strange that we are 5 years apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - I am 22 and my girlfriend is 17. We have been dating for 2 years. Her parents really like me and my parents really like her. Both of our families have dinner every once in a blue moon and they've been over for a couple holidays. Does anyone find...

Got any tips on how I can satisfy her and make her moan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - Hi! I have a very natural problem., i want to make my GF moan and i try to do that by rubbing my finger on her... relaxation-part, and it works sure but... Its not enough... Got any tips? Id love to satisfy her the best way i can... But how? tha...

Has any women told there bf's that they loved them first? Or should they wait until he says it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. And I already know that I am in love with him, but I am afraid to tell him.. I've always thought that the man should tell his girlfriend first. But I really do think he loves me back, y...

Should I pluck up the courage to give him a call or just wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - A couple of months ago I started seeing this guy. We had known each other for 18 years and during this time there has always been this tremendous chemistry between us. We never got it together though because I was always in a relationship with ...

She says she loves me, but can she...if she wants to try with her mate to see if she loves him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5897 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - My gf dumped me sunday cos she said she was confused about things, and assured me there was no-one else, then wednesday she told me her heart loves two guys, her mate and myself. she wants to try things with the other guy and see what happens. she ...

What do I do to keep her from pushing me away?

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3 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend was molested by her older brother when she was 7 and again when she was 12. She is also bi-polar and the combnation of this things gives her nightmares. She is beging to push me away even though she tells me that that I am the only one ...

How do I accept that marriage will never happen for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I am 36 years old and never married. I have been living with my boyfriend of 5 years for the last 3 years. I have a 13 year old daughter.(not his) Anyway, He convinced me to quit my job and help him build his buisness. Which I did, with no pay. ...

Does sex have to feel so mechanical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Another one of the thousands of sex questions on this site, but I really have no one else to talk to about this sensitive subject. I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 8 years... but we're really just best friends now. About 4 years ago, the...

I can't tell him what I want because I'm too shy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Monk and I got married recently. He's in the military, navy, but he has a pretty decent schedule right now. Before, he used to be so romantic and pationate (oh, we sorta did an online dating while he was in A-school, we knew each other from high ...

I'm just not interested in ANYONE, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - I've never done this before, but here goes... I'm a 20 year old student, majoring in economics pre-law. I'll be graduating in the next few months, and will be one of the youngest students attending law school, so I'd like to think I have a decent ...

Is she just being nice to me or does she like me more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - Hello, i asked this girl i've known and kind of liked for a while if she wanted to meet up with me outside our usual circle of friend hangouts (because i hardly get to talk to her there) and she suggested we meet up with a few of her friends. Of ...

I love my teacher, but I will try not to see him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I began to fall in love with my civics teacher six months ago( now im in college). He's not handsome but really nice. Im actracted by his personality. He's a caring person. I remember one time he cried because one student died for car acci...

How do I get over him? I was his mistress.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - I was wondering how to get over a guy that i was his mistress. Everything was going great, then something unexpected happens that we break it off, but now we're left with the questions and the feelings....... So what do i do?????...

Am I being insecure or are my fears right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend does not tell anyone about me. No one knows about us. I work for him and when I have tried to quit once bcoz of my feelings for him (He was looking for girls for marriage at that time). Prior to this, we were dating but he sa...

My boyfriend is so shallow about my hair...To weave, or not to weave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Ok so my problem is that my boyfriend is reeeally shallow and this is why. He's creole(blk and french) he's only dated mixed females, he's told me in the past that his preference are females that have "good hair" little breast,big butt and that ...

How can I get closer to him without making it seem really weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - Hiya! I'm in need of some help with this crush problem. I like a sophomore who is pretty much amazing (to me at least, some other people say he's a bit annoying really) and every single time I see him I cannot think strait. The people I've told...

Is it possible that my penis may be too big?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for two years now and love each together very much. I am 21 and she is 20, we are both graduating college soon and want to start a life together, but here the problem. She is very petite, at a little under 5...

My boyfriend hurt his back muscle slightly 2 months ago and ever since then he has not been able to orgasm during sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

3 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend hurt his back muscle slightly 2 months ago and ever since then he has not been able to orgasm during sex. I am very confused by this because usually his back only starts to hurt after more than 20 minutes of sex but there have been ...