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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

What does she want? What can I do to get her to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Ok, this is a long one, but I want to give you all the details. Enjoy the read! I wrote a question on here about 5 weeks ago just after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We had been together a year and we got on really well and loved each other...

Now I'm single and he's with someone else. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - There's this boy at college, that I've had a crush on for months, and he used to like me, but at the time I already had a boyfriend (a total mistake). I didn't like him then either. Now I'm single and I know I've fallen head over heels for this guy, ...

How does a person who has been molested know when they're ready for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - How does a person who has been molested know when they're ready for a relationship? How does the molested person know that what they are feeling for some guy is really real as opposed to just being obsessed with the person?...

Is he interested, or just checking me out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - hi, i have known this guy for about a month and basically today we decided to meet up for a coffee, he said he would text me telling me exactly what time today because he had university. anyway we had decided around 5 so he texts me at that time,...

Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate and they leave you...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Just so I can gain some strength and hope.... Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate, best friend and the love of their life... only for them to leave you to go back to their ex wife or husband?... Yet you have ...

How do I attract him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Im 19 and im guessing he's like 22 or 23. I dont really talk to him in class, but he always looks at me and he for sure knows my name because he gave me my quiz back without me telling him my name while everyone else did. I want to show him im ...

What can I do to stop these insecurities ruining what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi. im pretty much with a guy... by pretty much i mean that we know we like eachother bt he's at uni atm and we're gonna see how it goes when he gets back home. my problem is that i get so jealous! i cant help but get so insecure. when ive been wi...

What will happen to the relashionship if I kiss him and he doesn't want to be kissed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, and we haven't even kissed yet. He recently admitted that he was frigid, but I would like to kiss him. I feel confused. I would kiss him, but I don't have the confidence to just do ...

There is a picture of my boyfriend and his ex hugging, on a wall in his parent's home, where he llives. It bugs me, how do I bring it up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend lives with his friends. In their house the is a wall that has all their pictures and stuff. One of the pictures has my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend in it, hugging each other. It is a group picture, my boyfriend didnt put that on ...

If she loves me shouldnt she want to live with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I love my gf and she tells me that she loves me more than anything in the world but whenever I mention us living together she is not intersted. when we are together we have a great time, i can feel the love from her and we feel like we are in o...

This guy has helped me out a lot, but does not want a relationship, am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - This guy and I went to high school together (he had a crush on me, and I didn't know it), I graduated and moved away. He graduated the next year, we lived our lives for the next 20 years and ran into each other one night. We started talking on the ...

Dating for six months, he wants to break up suddenly, why, could I have a guy's opinion please??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - From a males point of view why is he pushing me away and being so mean i dont really understand? me and this guy have been dating for about 6 months now and monday we was fine not fighting or anything and he calls me and tells me he is moving out ...

My long term boyfriend went to a strip club, got a lap dance...

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31 October 2008 (F) - Long Term BF went to a strip club, got a lap dance (2 actually) sat around chatting with the strippers and says it's harmless. Let me give a bit of background, both divorced, in a ltr of 3 years, we've got a great relationship, very direct and ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Hello Okay, i am incredibly obessed with my girlfriend and we have dated almost 3 years already and we've been breaking up and hooking up again every few weeks but there are still stuff that are still bothering me? Last year me and my frien...

Boyfriend is suddenly distant, haven't seen him in two weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of almost six months and I have been exclusive since nearly the beginning of our relationship. We usually see each other once or twice a week, due to our work schedules and the fact that we both have kids. Last week he went by himse...

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip...

The man I am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment.

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31 October 2008 (F) - The man i am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment. Although i don't agree with him i see him because he is interested and i like to spend time with him. When i meet him i develop feelings for him but i try to hide them as he ...

Curiousity killed the cat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Last week my boyfriend and I almost broke up. He was troubled with the idea that we were meant together. We talked it over and were still together. Tonight he went out to a bar with his friend even though I asked him to stay home with me. While he ...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

Is this what you would call 'love'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years and I love him very much but I do worry that I dont know what love is and so worry that maybe I dont love him.I know its silly and im 23 years old,I feel like I should know better.I ...

Hope I can get an honest answer here!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi! hope i can get a honest answer here...i've got a bf and i love him a lot and he loves me the same way. he's very nice and kind. only i'm not used to the kind of relationship he's got with his sister...i think i'm a bit jelous and i'm almost ...

Should I stick with her and try to work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I'm 20 years old. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. About a month after we first started going out I was very drunk and cheated on her. I let her know and we talked it over and got over it. We got along really well after ...

How many times do you call your partner per day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - She works at night time and there will be days she works alone in her department. She text for me to call back. It happened few times so I guess she is lonely. I decided to call her everyday during her break time. The problem now is, she do...

Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you ...

Why has he left me to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - It is late at night and I am sitting here not knowing what to think or how to get through this. My partner of 4 years has left me tonight to go back to his wife. He never divorced her but left years ago to have a fulfilling and loving relation...

I have a funny smell coming from my vagina.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Heya, this has only just started but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and just recently after we have had sex and got up the next morning I have got a really funny smell coming from my vaginal area. What's wrong with me, help it's ...

Am I doing the right thing keeping this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I started a relationship with a guy thats much younger than me and when we started dating we were both in seperate relationships at the time but those relationships ended and now me and him are in what i thought was a committed relationship. ...

Why does my ex keeping popping into my head all the time when I don't want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Please help, I am in turmoil. I was with my ex-boyfriend on and off for 7 years. We got together when I was 17 and split up when I was 24. I ended our relationship because I had slept with someone else. I then immediately started a relationship with ...

He's too immature for me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a dilemma, I've recently started seeing a guy who is 4 years younger than me (he's 21 and I'm 25). Although I don't mind the age gap I'm just finding him a little immature and I don't know whether I should continue seeing him and ...

Diet advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles, I have quite an embarrassing question and I'm after a bit of diet advice? if thats right? I'm 16 and I'm 5 foot 4, size 10/12 clothes but I'm 12 stone, I have manly muscles in my arms and a four pack which really creeps me out, ...

I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was ...

Suddenly she wants to use condoms... is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different univer...

Get out of his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hey guys, just wanted some advice... I've been together with my bf for 5 months now but we got together pretty soon after he finished with his ex of 5 years... to be honest we were kinda going on while he was still with his ex but i wasnt aware of ...

What's the best way to meet up?

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30 October 2008 (M) - Hi guys, quick question, not immedialtely love related, but close enough. Only UK residents need answer due to obvious reasons Two people want to meet. One lives in Colchester, Essex one lives in Cannock, West Midlands. What's the best place a...

What could I do to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I just want to know what I can do to make my guy go crazy sexually. I don't feel like Im satisfying him well enough and would like to get more of a reaction out of him. All the things I do to him: I give him oral sex which I love doing, but the l...

What can I do to be less needy and not want her time all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. She's the kind of girl that doesn't have to see me for a whole day to call it spending time and I'm the exact opposite and so I need help to find a way to where I can become the same way so I'm not so (needy - I ...

We have been getting intimate at the cinema. I don't mind, but I don't want to get caught!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - hello, im 18 and my gf is 19, we both go to the cinema to get some alone time because we can never anywhere else, and we want to go farther, weve started to get a little more intimate at the cinema, shes given me a handjob already, she ...

Do I really like him even though I don't know him personally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have met a boy 2 years older than me on an online game. we have been talking dirty to each other qiute a lot and i like it. the problem is that i really like him but i dont no whether i should ask him if he likes me and if we should be together as ...

My ex slept with me and his new girlfriend is sleeping with her ex!

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30 October 2008 (F) - hi, last nite i had sex with my ex bf of about 2 weeks he left me to go bk to his ex but there having problams, they are not together but there trying to work it out the thing is she doesnt trust him, Anyway, shes been having her ex round to stay ...

Does he hug me just to get me to shut up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hello my boyfriend allways when we talk he stares at me smiling, and hugging me, does this mean that he doesn't give a crap of what I am speaking? does he hugg me for me to shut up? Guys please opinions...

I miss my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy that completely stole my heart. Although at first I didn't notice him, when we started hanging out my attraction to him was undeniable. The more time I spent with him, the more I fell for him. Eventually I told him how I ...

We should be close to the same stage in life now, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I never saw it as a problem but everytime we have an argument my gf says it is because or ages are different and we are in a different stage in our life as i am looking to settle down whereas she is not yet ready to settle down, we have been ...

What should I do when I see him? Should I say Hi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - A couple of months ago, i decided to get a friend to ask a boy out for me, because i really liked him and i was too busy crying because it was the last day of school lol, and we were both going to different schools to each other after that. My ...

I want to get to know him, but I'm really shy around boys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am really shy around boys. when i talk to my girlfriends i cant stop chatting but when it comes to boys I cant speak like for example the other day a guy i fancied said " hello how are you " All i could say is " fine and u? " and he says " fine " ...

My fiancee isnt affectionate at home, just when we are out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He is very sweet. I love him and I know he loves me. We are getting married nov2208. He isn't very affectionate. Well to me he still holds my hand and puts his arm around me. He wants me to go everywhere ...

What are signs that he 's falling out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now and just recently moved into a beautiful place. Everything is going great just that since moving in together we've been having less sex. We went from having sex together everyday, to only once a ...

How do I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi there is this lad that i really fancy and i can't stop thinking about him. He is really good looking and got a lovely personality and i would love to go out with him. My friends all say that he fancies me too n whenever we are together we alway...

I like two completely different guys. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i like two guys , i cant decide unless i make a mistake The first guy i like is the lead singer in a populare local band, hes allright looking, got a great sense of style.. but he can act like an idiot sometimes which embarrases me, he is soo sk...

Things are moving so slowly... does she just want to be friends?

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30 October 2008 (M) - I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i ...

He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...