A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am in college and have never had a relationship.I've never had my first kiss or a boyfriend. It's scaring me a bit because lately I've been thinking of myself as undesireable. It's not as if I'm drop dead ugly, I honestly don't know what it is that's making me an anti-magnet for guys. I don't get it at all, and at this point it's making me frustratedI don't know what to do. I don't think I'm a wallflower, but I'm not so in-your-face either. Any Ideas? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, 13AF +, writes (8 October 2008):
Be confident in yourself! Meet new people. Sit in at a poetry reading at a local coffee shot. Go to a cafe concert. New situations=new opportunities. But mostly, the more confidence in yourself, the more reliable men will notice it. I'm not saying make yourself up into something you're not but be comfortable in your own skin.
Love and Luck
A
female
reader, chandra Mcmillan +, writes (8 October 2008):
Honey, You should be proud that your still pure, some girls loose all their innocence at a really young age and trust me that makes you feel worse when your older.
You will get a kiss, a boyfriend and have sexual contact with someone but when it happens it will be worth waiting for. The only men that diserve to be with you in these ways are men worthy of you.
I would also like to say DONT PUT YOURSELF DOWN,
You are most likely georgeous inside and out please dont think this is your problem its there's.
Hope this helps!
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