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writes:My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 months her dad is really protective. We were holding hands this weekend and later he asked her "Are your hands on each others legs when you hold hands at all?" her being the good daughter and obedient tells the truth which I don't mind but he then says "That is too personal, don't do that." Before this weekend he said it was ok if we kissed but only if it is front of him...(like if he drops one of us off and we want too? what the heck!?) I want this to be our decision and to kiss when the moment is perfect..not oh well i want to kiss you bye. We are never really alone a long time and I am just sort of frustrated about this please help To give some background here are some links of previous questions about this girl.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/her-parents-think-we-are-kissing-too-soonare.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-know-this-sounds-ridiculous-but-i-want.html Reply to this Question
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reader, karlgoo +, writes (7 October 2008):
karlgoo is verified as being by the original poster of the question she is 14 i am her first bf...Yea i agree that she should bring it to his attention I asked about talking to him about it and she said that she was scared that he might get mad at her
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Did you ever consider the fact that maybe he himself is sexually abusing her?
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reader, karlgoo +, writes (7 October 2008):
karlgoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso her parents approve for sure. Her dad has said to me very personally that he is glad his daughter and I are dating and wants us to for a long time. so i know he trusts me and her i just dont understand why we can't make more decisions about our relationship and not him dictating every intimate thing...(not like sex or anything)
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