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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I date this married woman knowing that she'll never leave her husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Alright around 4 months ago I met this girl and her husband. Both very good people I was going through a rough time. She helped me through a lot of it and we became very good friends in the process. Well early on in the friendship I fou...

Proving my love for him? How do I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I am 18 and seeing a 27 year old, we are in love and we got in a arguement the other day. he told me that I need to prove to him that I still wanna be with him.. How do I prove to him that I wanna be with him?...

Broke up with my boyfriend for this other guy... now he doesn't want to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I don't know where else to turn. I was with a guy for a year and 7 months. I'm 17. Hes 25. meaning I got with him when I was just gone 16. I believed I was mature enough to handle him, his daughter, and all his baggage. He cheated on me several...

Nervous about possible complication.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I met an awesome man almost a year ago and we slowly developed our relationship but we never really spoke about what our expectactions of each other are and now I found myself confused because it seemed like we were together but I didn't feel a ...

Can "dry sex" make you pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hey my girlfriend and i recently had "dry sex", i never came and was dry(ish) she is due for her period, but 30 min (ish) ago she was complaining of pains in her abdomen. Could this be pregnancy or is this normal, thank you ...

Over the past year our relationship has taken a turn for the worse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for five years and we have two children together, over the past year our relationship has taken a turn for the worse. He went to prison and then cheated on me and got another girl pregnant. It's actually at the point ...

I feel as if I don't get a lot of his attention any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - This is kinda long, but I feel as though I need to explain. I have been with my boyfriend since december 2007. He is now 24, I am now 19. We became really close really fast. Everything has always been great. My dad loves him, my mom loves him, his ...

I've had offers to be with other guys but I want to stay with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5883 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I've been with this guy for over 2 months now and we got on so well at the very start and we have told each other that we love each other. I dont no if i do love him because i have never felt love with a man before but it feels real. He is 25 and i ...

I'm a punk kid, loud with my friends... but shy around girls that I like. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I am 17 and extremely shy at times... especially when it comes to school and girls. It weird because i am a sort of a punk kid and have no problem yelling exactly what i think in the middle of downtown or at a show or when i am with my friends. ...

Is it okay to confess to this girl that I like her? We're a little close but not that much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I need help. Anyway, I'm a tomboyish girl but many doubt my preferences. Some of them thinks I'm a normal girl while others think I'm a lesbian or bi. In truth, I'm into both but 70% of my attraction are into girls. Anyway, I still don't know ...

Are they jealous that I was getting all the attention or was I really behaving slutty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I went to this party with my girlfriends. There were about 5 guys there that I used to be friends with and havent seen in a long time. I said hi and started drinking and dancing with them, while they were hugging me and flirting with me but I ...

Why hasn't he told everyone my real age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16. His mother's side of the family know I am 14 but his dad's side think I am 15. The two families don't talk. He has recently started a new job, and goes to collage once a week. He has told all of his new friends that I ...

Deep down I think she really IS the one...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi Guys and Gals, I really need some advice. Me and my longterm gf of 3 years broke up just over a month ago, we havent spoken or seen each other since the break up. Today i get a txt from her saying she has some of my belogings and i have some ...

We were experimenting... could she be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi, me and by girlfriend were experimenting the other day. She was wearing shorts and her pants and I had my penis our rubbing against her (on top of her shorts). I didn't cum, and there was hardly any pre-ejaculation cum (was practically dry). ...

Is there any way of putting an end to this relapse of depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Hey, For the last 2 years I suffered a lot of depression. But this year, I got over it as soon as I got a boyfriend, OB, who is absolutely lovely. But the thing is now, I'm having a relapse coz two of my supposed best friends, SM and AG, are bein...

He slept with her during our break up to get back at me (I had cheated), now she's pregnant, how do I cope and move on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Ok. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 40. We have been together for 3 years now. Recently we broke up because he was pushing me away and I ended up sleeping with someone. No excuse I know. Anyways. We broke up and he was introduced to this girl who is 2 ...

She said she wants to focus on her girls, but why does this mean that she has to completely shut me out of her life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hello All- Looking for some opnions and advice here. Ive been seriuosly dating a woman for about five months now. After being in previous relationships Ive come to appreciate what a normal, healthy relationship is supposed to be. We are both single ...

Once, twice then enough!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years. my concern is when we go out in public my fiance will home in on a woman and then keep looking at her until he get her acknowledgement. he tells me he loves me very much and time will tell in the next ten ...

I can't get my boyfriend turned on... Guys opinions wanted!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just doesn't get turned on! He won't get hard EVER. I do so many things. I spent over $100 on two little outfits to make him happy cuz he said he liked those but it didn't work very well. It's so frustrating and I don't know what to do. ...

My boyfriend likes his female friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been going out for a year and a bit more.. but recently.. he's had something going on (not cheating)his uni friend.. he likes her, like next potential gf. a few weeks before today he was suddenly cold to me.. from a buildup o...

Feeling super lonely after finishing my master's, where can I find people with similar interests? I'm too old for the youth clubs!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - I've been feeling super lonely since I finished my masters. This problem is compounded by the fact that two of my close friends have left the country for good plus I find it very hard to meet girls (who are relationship worthy). Other friends have ...

Best friend trust or love for the boy we both loved as kids. Truth or lie now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I need advice asap! Okay, there this boy we'll call him Tom and there's my best friend in the world Kim. We tell each other everything and are super close for so many years now she is also my blood cousin.Well here's my problem when I first met Tom ...

Young love! On and off around other people, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Mkay, if this helps... I'm 14 years old, haha. Alright, so I have liked this girl for a little over a year and we so has she..... We've gotten pretty serious this month, and whenever I get a chance to talk to her, I do so. The main problem is ...

How can I get her away from these abusive dates of hers? I really do care for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - i have a problem with a girl i want to date. it seems that she wont even notice me. im nice to her, ive even asked her out once. i have listened to her problems but she keeps on going out with total dirtbags. she's abused in these relations - both...

After a year he's suddenly stopped paying attention to me, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together for almost a year, everything was going great, now all of a sudden he can't pay attention to me. He calls me or sees me once a week, when I call him he talks for a while then says he'll call me back and doesn't for ...

Am I right to feel somewhat insecure, and maybe all of this wasn't just my fault?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things..i wish my ex would come back but i have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years i was with him. i wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle ...

Please tell me what to do? I'm a nervous wreck!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been talking to a man for several months now via phone and email. We went out on our first date and it was wonderful, we had so much in common and everything just seemed to fall into place. He asked me out on a 2nd date and eve...

I don't want to have sex for a while, but he gets angry and says I don't love him!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and were so in love with each other. im 14 and he is 15. Now dont judge me or think im a slut cause i really didnt mean to or want to do it. But we had sex and i almost got pregnant. My mom found ou...

I'm just looking for a little guidance on who and how to choose out of the two.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Ok, so here's my problem, it's one of those two girl problems. About a year an a half ago, I met my current girlfriend, who happens to be my first, and we've been going out since then, she's the only girl I've ever been physically intimate. It's...

His wife is in denial about the divorce and keeps harassing me online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my wonderful fiance' for nearly a year and we planned to get married by the end of next year. However, his ex found out about him getting married by hacking into his email account and she went livid. (She is really obsessed with ...