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writes:hi, I'm 20 and I have a boyfriend. We've been together for about 3 years now. I really love him a lot, we're kind of a "happy couple", you know. But 2 months ago, I cheated on him with his best friend. We went to a birthday party together (my boyfriend, let's call him X, his best friend, let's say Y, and I) and were having fun. But X had to leave early cause he was working the following day. Y and I stayed, and kept on drinking... a lot. And then, I don't know how it happened, but we started kissing. Then it felt awkward and he just left. But then, just few minutes later, I appear to have called him, so he went back and picked me up and we went to his place, not far from there. Nothing really happened, we didn't have sex, but it was really close... The problem is, now, I just keep thinking about him. I love my boyfriend, undoubtly. But... the 3 of us had been friends for a long time and we're always together... the 3 of us. And seeing him all the time is kind of awkward. We've already talked about what had happened and decided not to tell anything, and to pretend nothing ever happened. But I can't explain it, I just can't stop thinkin about him, about what happened, about what could've happened... about what could happen now. I don't get it myself : do I love him or something? I don't know how I feel about him... please help me understand!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionif u really loved your boyfriend, i don't think u would think that much about your so called feelings for that other guy... u should just try to see whiwh one seems to be more important for u
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