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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I was at my happiest with this boy. How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

15 October 2008 (?) - the only time in my life when i was truly happy and even that didnt work out , and i do not know why ! you see this lad that ive got history with just isnt leaving my head atm. in summer he liked me, ill admit it he grew on me, then that didnt work ...

He won't "jump through ANY hoops" in this relationship. What does a guy really mean when they state something like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend of 3 years, recently made a statement to me that he won't "jump through ANY hoops" in this relationship. What does a guy really mean when they state something like this?...

She thinks I'm over sensitive to a lot of things...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - So I was with this girl for 2 years, we broke up for 4 months and have just recently started talking and being intimate, possibly getting back together. However there are some things coming up that bother me a lot. She thinks I'm over sensitive to a ...

On the road again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hope this is not the end. And although nothing has happened yet I would like a bit of insight. My boyfriend and I started originally as a long distance couple. He had ties to where I am..a few friends and his company's HQ were where I live. ...

How do I go about gaining a relationship when we have already had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I am a freshmen in college at the moment. A couple of weeks ago I met an amazing guy. He is a junior. I made the mistake of having sex with him already. Every time I see him I like him more and I'm beginning to think that I want a serious ...

I haven't told my family yet that I'm pregnant!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hello, Im a 17 year old high school senior who will graduate in June 09. This year has been a good year for me, my grades have gone from a/b honor roll with the occasional c to all a's taking dual enrollment classes and planning to leave home to ...

What does a guy mean when he says he is "chicken" in getting together with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - dear cupid, We are both married and I asked him if he wants to get together? He said, we would have to be discreet. I was like good he likes me.. but when the time came, he told me he is "chicken" and didn't want to get caught! What does he mea...

Pleeeeease say he isn't gay!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - dear people, I need help - me and by boyfriend have been going out for 5 years, I never used to wonder if he was gay until recently, I mean he has a friend who acts so strange and seeing them both together makes me wonder what kind of relationship ...

I don't want to get hurt by my ex again and feel we're getting too close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Early last year me and the ex split up and two weeks later he started going out with another girl, claiming he wasn't ready for a relationship. He cheated on her a few times with me and broke up with her twice. We had a few fallings out but were ...

My jealousy is ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - i m a very jeluos person and everytime my boyfriend talks to other females i get so angry but i know hes not going to do anything and i think if i dont get some help with my problem then me and my boyfriend are going to break up and i dont want that ...

Break up to make up or should I drop her like a hot coal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - Ok so If you get a chance, read my other questions for a better history. Basically I was with this girl for almost 2 years, best relationship ever, lasted through a pregnancy with another woman. But In the end she started to go out a lot, almost ...

He's stressed out about a lot of things, is this his way of saying it won't work to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Okay, I've been going out with this guy for around 3 and a half months (4 if you count me going on holiday, but we kept in touch through email). I'm crazy about him and I thought he was crazy about me. Since I got back from holiday we've had some ...

If men see my qualities, why don't they approach me? My friend says I'm amazing but doesn't want to disappoint me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I am a 20 year old woman, I have been told that I am good looking, smart and can talk to anybody.. if this is the case why do men never seem to approach me? they always come up to my friends. the only guy i think i truely love is one of my best f...

We're 'friends with benefits' is that bad? and does he mean it when he says he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - If I am not with someone anymore but were friends with benefits, is that bad? And if I am in love with him, and he says he loves me too, does he really mean it?...

There's no sexul chemistry, am I right for wanting to take a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I need advice, I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years to the day. He is an awesome person and he treats me like a queen, however I have never felt a strong chemistry with him, especially in the bedroom. Recently I met someone with whom I have a ...

How can I get over my abusive boyfriend without turning to alcohol?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I went to a friends place because i was worked up about my now ex because he beats up on me. My best friend had thought i needed a drink to clear my head and calm down. She gave me 4 shots and a couple of big glasses of alcohol 9 percenters. I got ...

My husband left me, had me arrested and now I have a restraining order on me and he has a new love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - my husband left me 2 weeks ago.he has his own place that he never gave up the entire 2 years of our realtionship.anyway,i went over and went in without permission and although i didn't find proof of infidelity,i found out he had a pay increase by 4k ...

Why aren't girls attracted to nice guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - Why is it that girls aren't attracted to nice guys? I'm always nice and courteous to the girls I like, and always listen to what they have to say, yet they won't go out with me, girls say that chivalry is the best quality a guy can have, but they ...

He's not there for me like I want him to be. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend and care about him and God knows I do but he can't do anything for me. He dnt give the kind of attention I need and not as affectionate as he used 2 be. Everytime I try 2 leave him . He blames it on me and I on the other hand d...

Does he want me or his girlfriend? He can't have both.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I ended things with my ex over a year ago, it was hard and hurt me, but I had to becasue he wouldn't commit to me, in the way I wanted him to. He wasn't happy, and asked if we could jsut carry on etc, etc, I couldn't do it, even though I still felt ...

Is it unreasonable of me to ask her to stop contacting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I went through a recent breakup. We were separated for several months. During this time she dated someone briefly. She denies it but I know she was very attached, if not in love, with this guy. He was involved with someone else ...

After a one night stand things have gotten really confusing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I had a one night stand with a man 3 years ago,we kept in contact perhaps three times a year since, with him just coming back to my place to stay , but no sex , This year we met up and have been on holiday abroad 3 times we stay at each others h...

How do you make people fancy you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - How do you make people fancy you? ...

Worried about our friendship because I like her and she's in a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - Hello, I started university two weeks ago. There is a girl on my course who I quite like. We hang around together a fair bit, and I think our friendship is growing. However, I find myself feeling quite attracted to her. She's pretty cute, she...

He sends mixed messages and won't even come out with me without a reason. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Im unsure on what to do. please help me. 15. me and a boy at my school like eachother. He has confused me. But iv spoken to him and he says he isnt ready to progress anything. When i try and ask him to come out after school. he says and do what? ...

We've broken up, and he's moving to iraq for a year - will we have a chance when he comes back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hey there everyone! Well, me and my boyfriend broke up 5 weeks ago,( we argue alot over stupid staff) after dating for a 3 years. We still see euch other, go to dinner, he is telling me that he still loves me, but he just want to be firends with me. ...

We've broken up because we're different religions and she wants me to change...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - hello.._ im win.im a half japanese phil. im from japan.. im not good speaking english sorry if i will miss_ i need help;_; i have a problem right now.. and i dont know what to do... im very very sad... because of my girlfriend.. today we...

Exclusive, non-serious relationship. Is it worth being in one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - My question is, should I have hope in an exclusive non serious relationship turning into a serious relationship? Non serious meaning (nothing more physical than the occasional hug and holding hands, talking and going out and having fun). Basically...

Am I nitpicking or do I have a valid reason for having hurt feelngs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Be honest...am I nitpicking?? Last night I took my boyfriend to dinner, what I ordered was HORRIBLE, he even said it looked bad. I couldn't eat it at all..I had a few bites of my sides and then just didn't touch the meal. My boyfriend loved hi...

My partner lies to me - but I love him - should I give him another chance ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 6 years after we met through one of the dating ads in a local newspaper. We clicked immediately, enjoying many shared interests, laughing at the same silly things and generally sharing life together. We did not move ...

Could my boyfriend be bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Could my boyfriend be bisexual? I have this weird feeling inside that something is not right in the relationship. My boyfriend would be happy only having sex every other week. He never gives me oral sex unless I ask for it. He acts like he is ...

He is so controlling, how do I get out of this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody well I have a problem and hope that any one can give me some advice. Well I was engaged with this man for 16 years and he never asked me to marry me, I have a 4 year old son with him and 2 teenage daughters from previous marrage. My ...

When her husband died my boyfriend "comforted" her too much for my liking...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with this guy at my work place for more than a year now, our relationship started a few months after I had joined the organisation, from the time we have been going out everything was going on well and I really enjoyed the ...

When does the honeymoon period end?

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15 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My partner and I have been together for just over a year now. We started living together after just four months, and got engaged around the same time. My question may seem a little strange, but we love each other so much, our sex life...

He told me I had no "presence" as in when I was in a room I didn’t stand out and faded into the background.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Sorry this is quite long! I went on a date last night with a guy who I've fancied for a while and who I was getting signals from, as in he kept asking in a roundabout way if I had a boyfriend and said a couple of times I looked "cute". I was to...

He cheated and told me right away but I don't know whether to break up or give things another chance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do, I found out this weekend that my boyfriend cheated on me and he came clean straight away and said that he wouldn't blame me for leaving him but he said that he wished that after I've thought about it I would give him another ...

How do I make her have sex with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - I am a 19 year old man and have been dating an 18 years woman since April 2007. We had sex once in November 2007 and now that we are in a long distance relationship I called her yersterday and she told me that she is not prepared to have sex with ...

My girlfriend says she loves me but I know of 5 other guys who really like her... should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - Well my girlfriend says she really loves me but there are at least 5 guys that I can think of off the top of my head that like her so should I be worried that she'll cheat at all??...

Now that I am single and make a few stupid decisions does that make me a bad person?

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15 October 2008 (M) - I am 18 years old. Me and my ex girlfriend went out for 7 months, and it was the best 7 months of my life. Before her, I had not had sex before, she was my first. She had slept with 2 others before me. She broke up with me, and after that I was ...

My girlfriend thinks it's nasty if I "go down" on her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend have been talking about oral sex lately and she says wants to give me a blowjob but thinks it's nasty if I go down on her therefore she won't let me. Is there anything wrong there or anything I should be worried about??...

How do I get out of a GOOD relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - im 18 years old and im dating a girl that is 17. We started dating 2 years ago as of march 3rd 08. ok so iv been dating her for a while as you can see and she is great. shes cute, kinda funny, sweet, and we have alot in common. she was ...

When will I find another serious boyfriend? I miss loving and being loved.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - so my last serious bf was over a year ago.. I've met a few guys since then but I don't feel like I felt when I met my ex.. I want another serious relationship and it sounds corny but I miss loving someone and I miss the love from a bf. when the hell ...

How do I know if he is truly interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have an old flame who I am very interested in getting to know again. In messages he sounds very interested and excited but he doesn't call at all even though he says he is going to. He claims he is just really busy with school and work so how do I ...

How can I ask this guy to spend a little more time with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a little over a month, and have a date out once a week. Usually we go out on a weeknight. I would like to maybe hang out on a weekend some time or hang out more often with him, but I don't want to come off pathetic. ...

I've been told this guy likes me, but is too shy to make a move. How do I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - So,there's this guy that i have been into for quite a while now, and i have heard from many people that he has an interest in me. i've talked to him a couple of times mostly online, but sometimes in person, and i have hung out with him with a bunch ...

I can like a guy for months, but if I go out with him, all the attraction disappears - what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I think I have a problem. It's like I like a boy and I can talk to him everyday for 6 months {without being with him} and still like him. But when I finally go with him all my attraction to him is gone [like it was never there]. It happening now. ...

How do people act on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - For the past month and half my crush and I have been talking everyday.Yesterday he asked me what my answer would be if he asked me out and I told him that I would say yes..so then he tells me "okay but lets hang out first''so I said "okay"..I really ...

I'm worried about what will happen if I have sex with my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Okay first off I'm fifteen years old and my boyfriend is seventeen. We've only been going out for two months, but we've known eachother for a good chunk of eachother's lives. (his dad dated my mom for awhile, but they broke up. I then dated his best ...

Stuck in a love triangle! How do I let him down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - hey. i mostly seem to get what i want. im talking about with guys. i start liking someone and they end up liking me too. the last guy i went out with i wanted him so bad and he liked me and we went out. i thought it was going good and i got what i ...

Is it possible that guys don't ask me out because they find me intimidating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - This is merely a curiousity question. I'm not desparate for a boyfriend or anything. I've never thought much of it before, but people are always complimenting me on how pretty I am (nice hair, good figure, or whatever is what they say). I'm not ...

Is what I'm feeling for her....love, or infatuation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - Hello. I am so confused about the feelings I have for my friend. I have "liked" my friend for over a year now, with no signs of those feeling going away. I care about her a lot. I've never felt the same way about anyone else before. But since I've ...

He asked for my number twice but never calls, don't know why..what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, i have met this guy online, he sent me a friend request i accepted and we began talking this has been going on for the pass two months, during this time we found out we had basically almost everything in common, we love the same music my ...

His porn viewing makes me feel like nothing!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

15 October 2008 (?) - hey my boyfriend looks at porn and lies about it and it makes me feel like nothing and not good enough and insecure and upset and it was going on for way to long so i broke up with him. if it is making me this upset is it right for him to continue ...

Is he ignoring me now, because I wasn't receptive?

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15 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, my guy asked for a time out, i wished him good-luck and never called him, when he came back a while after, my phone was off so he called on my sister's and also left me a msg .. 15 days later when is witched on my cell i repleid to his ...

Upset that my bf looks at dirty pictures! Shouldn't he respect my feelings and stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - hi i was really upset that my boyfriend looks at dirty pictures as it made me feel like i was nothing and not good enough... I know he loves me but he goes on about that its just a guy thing and i should just get over it! i have tried to get over it ...

I'm meeting this guy for the first time...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - ok, i have been chatting to this guy online (yes i am gay) and have fallen deeply in love with him. we are meeting soon and i dont know where to start with anything, especially things like do we kiss, hold hands etc. what do i do.. thanks...

How do I get my BF to enjoy oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years whom i hope to marry. For the first 6 months of our relationship he gave me oral sex. Since then it has been an uphill battle. How can i get him to enjoy giving me oral sex? Yes i am healthy down there, a...

I'm afraid to talk to him in person...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Like everyone else im haveing love troubles. but my question is a LIL more complicated. So here's how it began. My friend invited her to her sweet 16 party. Of course im going to go she's like my best friend. so its me her a bunch of her fri...

Guys, I need honest input! Does he think I'm desperate and does he even like me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Boys how would you feel or act like if.. u was talking to a girl u knew from primary! you gave her your number, she text you like 4 days later,then that weekend, her mates decided to ring you up and tell you she really likes you and ask if you fancy ...

His texts are shorter and there are no more endearments! How can I get him interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - I have met this really nice guy at work he and I have been chatting for along time now at work but because we work in different departments its been hard to talk for long periods. so one day he said we should meet up outside of work, so we did and ...

Girls, what do you when..you like a boy but your impatient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Girls what do you do when..you fancy a boy but doughts he will ever ask you out? not because your minging just coz well..i duno? Thanx for all opinions..do you just leave it because your the girl or what? ive texted him..then my m8s decided to tell ...

My husband got jealous of my guy friend! Whom do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Ok, so heres the thing.... I just got married in July... and had been seeing my now husband before that for nearly 5 yrs but, sometimes I miss the attention and desire you get from men when you are single. My husband has a friend (not a super close ...

I'm not a bad looking girl..what's a girl gotta do to get a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hey this is really bugging me.. im not an ugly girl but im defo not stunning but i have a gud figure..Anyway i dont understand why boys aint interested.. I get comments like your well sexy or your a sort n that rubbish but no1 actually asks me out ...