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*rokenheart224
writes:I have a huge problem... and I don't really know what I need to do. This guy I've been with for just over 2 years decided he didn't want to be with me any more. But he still says that I'm his soulmate and that he loves me more than anything. I'm so Confused! We were engaged for over a year... he says he still wants to talk to me as long as we're still alive but he thinks it's better for us if were not together any more. The worst thing is that it was so sudden.... we're getting ready to go to college and he decided to go somewhere extremely far away from me and he wanted me to go... two days later he said he decided he didn't want me to go and didn't want to be with me... yet gave me no reason why... I love him more than anything and I know he loves me too... should I wait for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): The guy is just as confused as you are, there is a possibility that he's thinking he might hurt you if you carry on. Your preparing for college right? and your engaged over a year. . what makes you think that he's indifferent now? just remember he really does love you. he loves you so much in such a way he chose to hurt himself by leaving you instead of hurting you by being indifferent when you go to college. my suggestion. . go wait for him. . you may never know. . you really might get married someday. .
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reader, Ikey +, writes (7 October 2008):
If you love him and trust him then listen to his words. Feel the pain and move on. You will become stronger and love again. It's never worth hanging on to someone trying to let go.
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reader, Blanket +, writes (7 October 2008):
No I don't think you should wait for him. He wants to put you inside a box while he play around. After he runs around a few times, he wants to make a life with you. He knows he will be tempted by other girls so he don't want to hurt you if he falls. Don't waste your precious jewels on him anymore. Save it for someone else worthy.
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reader, epifanatical  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 No absolutely NOT! Get out there and have fun sweetee. For whatever reasons your bf doesnt want to be with you right now, just forget about it. It seems his made his decision, so dont beat yourself up about it. Dont seem like the clingy gf. If your out there having fun without him, it may just cause a knee jerk reaction and make him think twice. But as much as i say this, dont do it for him thou, nooo, do it because you want to get on with things. Sometimes the timing isnt right, you know, and we all make mistakes. Perhaps he wants to concentrate more on his study, or job or whatever, thats why he wants a short break to do his thinking. But dont wait around to find out. You will seem so much more attractive to him when he sees you can function without him. Best of luck cheers :)
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