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Dating: Help and advice

I'm seeing a guy that is 5 years older than I am and I'm scared to tell my parents about him.

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29 October 2008 (F) - i dont know what to do......im seeing a guy who is five years older than me and i am scared to let my parents know....

The pain will never stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my current girlfriend for exactly 6 months now. I love her more than life itself, and she's everything I could ever ask for. However, there's one thing that absolutely tears me apart on a daily basis and feels like the pain wi...

He is very angry and says I don't care about him...what more can I do??

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29 October 2008 (F) - My 20yr old boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for about ten months. over of which he has gotten a dui and lost his license for a year. i moved 4 hours away from him, for school that offered me a scholarship, about 3 months ago. i have been ...

It feels weird having sex with him because we are so close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Okay im confused. I have this friend named chris. I have been friends with him for 6 years. He is gay. But i have had sex with him twice. I see him more then a friend. Like a husband, cus i can always tell him everything. I don't know if i'm in love...

I'm 20 years old and am in love with a guy who is 40 years old. My family thinks he is too old for me. Do I follow my heart ?

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29 October 2008 (F) - Hi I really need help in deciding whether i should follow my heart or my mind. Im 20 years old and am in love with a guy who is 40 years old.when we are together nothing matters and its like the time stops.we both understand eachother, care ...

Should I keep having sex with him? I'm 13!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hello! Basically I'm 13 and I have had sex with the same guy over 20 times. Is that bad cos if it is then I'm gonna stop doing it but we're madly in love and we're basically going out so I don't know what to do. thanks for the help! x...

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every ...

I might be pregnant with my ex's child but he has moved on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 4 and half months. We spilt up in the space 3 days, he had a new girlfriend and he rings me up saying he would still like to see me but now he's been moody and moaning at me just because I still have feelings for him, he ...

Is my best friend jealous of my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with this guy and he loves me but my best friend or supposedly, keeps making remarks about him and saying that she doesn't like him. When she doesn't even know him, also on my birthday he came round to wish me happy birthday but she made ...

How can I help support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - He is upset with how his life is right now with working and lack of money? How can I help and support him? And what is the differance between emotionally connected and mentally connected? Because he told me that he connects with me emotiona...

I just want him to know how much this is hurting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been on and off with this guy for almost a year now; and about 2 weeks ago we broke up while i was away, but he didn't really give me a decent reason. - so then I was major sad, trying to figure out why he finished things when it was perfect ...

How can I stop myself from getting upset when his feelings are not what I want him to feel?

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29 October 2008 (F) - How can I stop myself from getting upset when his feelings are not what I want him to feel? How can I tell what he is thinking inside his mind?...

I'm so excited... Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Alright here goes, me and my boyfriend of a year and a half are trying 2 get pregnant 4 a year or so now and I believe now I might be pregnant, my period hasn't started I've thrown up a few times, I'm only a day late though I really hope I am, I ...

I just don't want to miss a wasted opportunity.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hi everyone this is my first post, just wanted your opinions on something. I went out with this girl for 2 months, and just ended up getting messed around by her. She changed from hot to cold from day to day, one day would love me, next day would pr...

Should I believe he really has feelings for me?

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29 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met a gorgeous guy about a month ago. We instantly hit it off but i wanted us to take things slow and i told him i wasnt ready for sex. He understood. The problem is that now i feel things are moving just too slow. We only s...

Does he still love her...?

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29 October 2008 (F) - Please help me, I dont know if my boyfriend is still in love with his ex girlfriend? We have been together for 5 weeks now, he is never sentimental with me. When i confronted him about this he got angry with me and told me i was being stupid, ...

Is my boyfriend sincere with me?

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29 October 2008 (F) - hello everybody, I have a problem with my boyfriend, I had a talk with my boyfriend a couple of days ago, my boyfriend has a very hard time expressing his feelings and affection, he is extremelly shy and he gets embarazed of everything. We have been ...

He cheated while I was at my brother's funeral and left me for the girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I had a boyfriend of 5 years, we were so great together! We have two kids! My brother died and so I had to fly to florida to get to his funeral and my neighbor called me while I was there tolled me that my boyfriend had a girl at my house and she ...

Why is this guy ignoring me, after HE asked me out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I used to see a guy two years ago, who i did get on really well with, we were instantly attracted to eachother. we started seeing eachother and it was fun until other people made him out to be a liar, and i got paranoid and accused him of lieing ...

How can I deal with disappointments in a more positive way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl from school. We have started our relationship slowly, so that if things shouldn't work out, it won't change things too dramatically. We've met up outside of school in the evenings without anybody on ...

Letting go of his past

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Okay here's the deal. I am 25 years old who is dating a wonderful man (age 29) for a little under a year. Our relationship so far is going wonderfully however there are certain topics that make things very tense. The number of people my boyfri...

I absolutely know it wasn't the sex. Is there something wrong or am I just 'trippin'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I have started dating this woman a couple of weeks ago. She texted me 3-8 times per day. We saw each other 3 times. I spent the night 2 outa 3 of those times, the first night I spent the night, [in the morning] she asked me to come back that evening ...

He has an addicition problem with pain pills and alcohol.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about nine months now. He was so respectful and patient on waiting to have sex till I felt we loved each other which was over four months, and he never flirts or is innapropriate with any other girls. He is ...

Could anyone enlighten me as to why he wont text me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - hi. i've been seeing my boyfriend for two months and its going great. the only problem is he never texts me or rings me when were not together. i see him a few times a week but i feel as though im the only one making an effort. i dont uderstan...

I love her but I'm not sure we are right for each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I'm with a girl who I love but I'm not sure we are right for each other. We are also good friends and have always been able to talk openly with each other, however I'm not sure how to approach this issue. We met 8 months ago. During that time...

We broke up so why the constant phone calls?

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29 October 2008 (F) - I'm confused. After two years of being together he breaks up with me. We have had a history of him breaking up with me and getting back with me (which hadn't happen often or I'd say no more). He decides to move out. I hadn't heard from him in a ...

We had sex and haven't talked since!! I don't understand her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - So I met this woman, we went out a couple of times, spent the night the first night (only to third base, my decision. yes, I'm a guy!) In the morning she asked me to come back over that night (watch tv). I did. For the next week I get 3-8 texts/day ...

Help me get over him please, problem is - I can't find anyone I like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have liked this guy for a year now, and, even though I'm not around him almost ever, i still can't get over him. And i really really like him, but he doesn't like me. Now I want to forget about him and move on, which is really hard to do when you ...

Hoping to hear from someone one day...someone who's understanding.

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29 October 2008 (F) - I would love to meet someone that dont mind a woman having tatoos, I am 48yrs old, and so much want to be loved again,. I have been single now for almost 4yrs, I would like to know where to meet someone new that dont mind a woman having stupid ...

He denies being registered on an adult friend finder site, and now he's in a mood with me!

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29 October 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. ...

He said I can have sex with other guys because he is not sexually attracted to me, but it hurt him when I did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I need some input here. I have been seing this guy. He is not ready to commit to boyfriend/gfriend. We had a good talk last week and he said that he cares a lot about me but he is not in love with me. Said he loves me but he does not feel that ...

My step brother's ex and I like each other, is this OK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Well where to start, I have fell in love with my stepbrother's Ex-girlfriend that he does have a kid with. At first we was just friends and as time had gone on we both became each sounding board. One day we started talking about our feeling abou...

Should I marry a man twice my age ? Does age really matter ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi.I am 20 years old and I am in love with a guy who is 20 years older than me.he was married twice before and has 2 kids from his first marriage. we totaly understand eachother and have no problems in our relationship. he makes me really happy an...

He likes me, he likes me not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - well...i am really confused right now. I really like this one guy and i told him tht i liked him but as answer i got tht he is not in the mood for a girlfriend right now which i understand, because of his past experience, well a couple of weeks ...

Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...

I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. The problem is I don't know which one to choose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. the problem is i dont know which one to choose. course the other guy i have been dating him for five years and this present one its only been seven months please help confuss ...

Why would a guy say he "used to fancy me" but keep sending me mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - why would a guy say he "used to fancy me" but keep sending me mixed signals? like one night he came up to me and the bar and put his arms around me..and sometimes he asks to hold my hand, looks me in the eyes and bes really touchy feely.. ive been ...

Impulsive/Annoying GF Should I move on and see other people ?

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29 October 2008 (M) - I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for a year and getting to know her better, now we’re in a serious relationship of three months but it seems like things are not working, their just getting worse and worse meaning our relationship may come to an ...

He breaks up with me...now he calls all the time. What gives ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me one month ago. He said he loved me but needed to see others because he was too young. so he has been and so have i. The last week he has called or txt me every day. It has been about random stuff but it is every day. He ...

I spent an amazing summer with him. I go abroad and he hooks up with another woman in only two weeks after I'm gone !!!

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29 October 2008 (F) - Thank you for reading, I know it's a novel! Sorry!! I met a guy on a dating/social website in May, and we started dating in July shortly there after, he asked if I would be his ‘girlfriend’ I didn’t see much point since I was moving in a mont...

I finish way too fast when we have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite some time, and we have always had really good sex up until about 2 months ago. Lately I have been finishing way too fast and we usually don't even have time to switch up ...

I always have bad luck in love.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I've always had really bad luck with love. I have only ever liked two people in my life, and the first was last year. I liked her for about a year without any hope, and nothing happened, except that she got a boyfriend (and subsequently broke up ...

He says he is not breaking up the relationship, all he wants is distance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I don't understand what my man wants. The last time I was with him he told me that he wanted a distance between us ..... because he can't do two things at the same time faculty and me so he said he's gonna stay with his studies and for me it was ok ...

After a year, am I over my ex or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Okay so this is kind of a long question. Well 2 years ago I met my current GF. I didn't like her at the time but she was like my best friend. I knew her for like 3 months and then she eventually introduced me to my ex GF, also my first. Ok so I ...

How can we stop this awkwardness around each other?

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29 October 2008 (M) - This one girl and I, we've had a complicated past, but we are currently going steady with each other. I am convinced that I'm head over heals over this girl, and am also convinced that she's head over heals of me. Now, a few days ago we had a sor...

I want to date my friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I love my male friend and we had a french kiss the other night. I want to tell him how feel but I am scared that he will turn me down and that our frienship would be weird. I actually want to date him. I keep on getting mixed signals from him. I ...

Breaking up with her didn't go as planned!

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29 October 2008 (?) - I wanted to break up with my girlfriend for a while. I went to my ex (who is was first my gf) for advice tips for breaking up (nicely) and she told to call my gf. I called my girlfriend to ask her for a ride home. When she got to the house my ex ...

Gay guys... have you ever had a relationship with a straight or straight guys have you had a relationship with a gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hey gay guys have you ever had a relationship with a straight or straight guys have you had a relationship with a gay? What was it like? How did it start? let us know!! ...

My boyfriend is persistently texting his ex!

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29 October 2008 (M) - My boyfriend is persistently texting his ex all day and probably all night for all I know. We have had our problems in the past and I cheated on him several times but now we have talked through things and he understands that I'm not going to be ...

Experience Gap

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. She is a few years older than me and had a few partners before we met. I was a virgin when we met. It came out a while ago that she was unhappy with our sexual relationship and...

This married man has my heart held captive!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Did I really lose it, or was I looking for love in the wrong place? Is it too late to fix the mess I got myself in? OMG what have I done, well it’s too late for all the crying and antidepressants, regret and maybe even counseling. Love has gone too ...

Do I have any right to tuck what happened with his brother away forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy that I fell in love with for about a year. He has kids I have kids. We were pretty involved. Life happened and our path ended. His life needed him in one way and my life took me another. We still talk from time to time, less ...

What in ones mind makes it logical to mess around with a person already in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - What in ones mind makes it logical to mess around with a person already in a relationship? I understand if one is unaware, but if one cognizant of the other relationship, why bother? what makes one think that they're better than the other person? ...

Should I tell her how I feel so early on in the relationship or should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - When beginning a relationship is it ok to talk about how one another feels about them, or should i just wait it out and let things run its course? I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 weeks and I know from past relationships and my feelings that...

My ex-boyfriend won't move out, what do I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I have broken up with my now ex-boyfriend of 8 months because of him trying to get back with a ex. So as a result of that, I do not want him living with me anymore. He is not on my lease, he does pay half rent and utilities. I told ...

I want him to make a move on me. How do I let him know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

29 October 2008 (?) - what should i do? i am in LIKE with this sophmore named Dillon 'goo' Manchell who is one of the big guys on campus named Dillon. he's our school's starting quarterback, and is kinda cocky at times, and is very good looking and popular. pretty much ...

He blows hot and cold. Should I stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Right now I'm dating a guy who I really, really like but I don't know what I should do about him. He ignores me all the time, and when I ask him why he says that he doesn't want to be too clingy. I understand that, but now it's gotten to the point ...

Can anyone help me out, so I can at least get this part of my stress off my chest?

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29 October 2008 (F) - here's the deal.. i have a boyfriend. its going good i like him alot. we hang out a lot. but i have this feeling with my ex. he's always liked me a lot and now he has a girl (they're not together, but pretty much) and he hasn't talked to me as much. ...