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writes:well two months ago I met a guy when I was out we really hit it off. He explained how he has not chatted a woman up for 2 years and is very out of practise. Also he told me how his mum was really ill and how hard things were. Well over the next month we stayed in contact by text, but I was away for one week and with his mum being ill we didnt manage to get together. Eventually we bumpd into each other one night and he arranged to take me out , that week we went out three times and got on really well. But then his mum took a turn for the worst and came home to die, during this time we kept in touch by phone and 2 dyas afetr she died I went over to see him. it was my birthday on the fri and he even got me a card and met me out on the sat night,he also the following week took me for a meal to celbrate my birthday. I then cooked for him the following week. But then I was going on a hen weekend and he was then away in london . after I had cooked a meal for him I texted him and he rang a day later to wish me a nice time in dublin. Over the hen wekend I didnt here much from him. And when I got back he didnt text or call. So I rang him on the wed eve as the next day he was going to have a hernai op. He called after his op and I suggested I pop over and see how he was doing. He said great and bless him cooked me lunch to. He then was going to scotland for a week with his dad. but we have arranged that he is coming to my friends wedding sat. I have to say though because he has not been ringing or texting me much , i thought this time I would leave it to him to initiate contact as I am beginning to not be sure how he feels. And I thought I would leave it to him as with all that has gone on I understand he prob got lots on his mind and I dont want to crowd him. He went on sunday and he has not texted or rang me once. Is he not interested or is he just in a bad place ?? i read all the rules about not calling or texting a man, as if he is really interested he will make contact. but i think this is not the usual type of guy. but also feel for me to know he is really interested he would initiate contact surely. Or am I just being selfish, he has lost his mum and at the mo just really not have me top of his priority list.
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