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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He wants me to ride him but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid My boyfriend and i been having sex and he is complaining that we dont do a new position and that he wants me to ride him only one problem i dont know how to ride lol what should i do ???...

Fell for him only to find out that he's taken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy a few months ago and weve been close mates ever since he told me about a month in that he liked me but i told him i wasnt sure how i felt yet. For the past few weeks ive totally fallen for him, hes all i think about. I asked to mee...

She says she loves me but forgot to tell me...that she's with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - have been broken up with my ex coming up six months now. all the time had been saying she still loves me ect, on the 14th she had told me she still loves me, did i still love her so i answerd her, but got no answer. The next morning i get a text ...

What does it mean when a guy blows into a girl's ear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - what does it mean when a guy blows in a girls ear?...

I'm dating a guy, but I can't get over my ex bf! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - How do i get over my ex boyfriend.?? I really want to get over my ex bf, but i cant, he broke up with me nearly 2 months ago now, he wants me bk but i have a new bf now and i dont want to take him bk. but i cant get over him, i love him loads, t...

If we marry, I will have to move to his country...not sure if I can do this! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I are considering getting married. Actually, from the beginning of our relationship, our intention is to see if we were a match. Over the year, we have communicated almost every day and are completely in love. The prob...

He loves me but he is not passionate about me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for a year and two month. I am completely in love with him. We have had a great relationship from the beginning and there have been no problems. We are open, communicative and the relationship itself is really healthy. He ...

Am I being selfish shen I make love to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I don't like being on top. I feel vulnerable and I'm very self concious. But my boyfriend always asks me to. I feel bad if I don't do it. Am I being selfish?...

Will he call me after second date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - After coming out of a 5 year relationship, I have finally given dating a try to start afresh. I recently met a guy on a dating website and we got chatting and found out we shared a lot of things in common. We chatted via email everyday for three we...

Should I leave my girlfriend of 4 years for an old friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - I have recently started having feelings for an old friend. I have liked her in the past, quite intensly though I don't know if it was lust or love. She is the little sister of my best friend, which is why we never ended up dating in the past, though ...

How do I turn him on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Okay first of all, I don't want to have sex with him. Not yet, anyway. Maybe eventually. We've only been going out for 2 months and I'm only 15 and still a virgin. But I want him to know what he's missing. I want to make him groan and hold me ...

I need help with love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I'm bi and me and this girl are going out secretly. I hate having to hide my feelings. The thing is that she has a boyfriend I did but she told me she hated my past with him so I broke up with him. I don't know if she really loves me I feel that she ...

How can I "talk dirty" to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - How can I talk dirty to my boyfriend to turn him on more? Just to make our sex life better? ...

Is it the drink talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently stayed at a friend's house for the weekend. We got very drunk, and we ended up arguing. He started to grab my arms as I was smacking him, but not hard, just on his arms, but when he would grab me he would do it really ...

Why does he only want to see me alone, never with my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - ive been talking to this guy, alot!!!! we get along very well!! im really busy at the moment so he told me to call HIM when i can see him. you know, girls it dont work like that. but anyway. ill do that when i get the time. but when im going ou...

My cousin's boyfriend came onto me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - i was at a birthday party for my cousin. and my cousin and her boyfriend and their daughter were there with my aunt and uncle. well my cousin's boyfriend and are good friends. well at the party we decided to go hang outside together and talk about ...

To men: top ten things you want in a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - This is, I hope, a very simple question for you men to answer. I'm not desparate for a boyfriend or anything, but I have always been curious about how they see girls... Hopefully not as just a blow-up doll for most of you guys out there. ...

My friend flirts with my boyfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Ok so i have this friend that i think likes my boyfriend. she denies liking him but behind my back she texts him and stuff. she tells him how good he looks and flirts with him. my boyfriend says he does not like her either. but he talks to...

Do I hold out hoping for the boy I want or go out with the boy I know likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - i like this guy, he is my best friend and my friends think he likes me, i dont think he does but my friends are pretty sure. He has another best friend and my best friend told me that his best friends likes, i dont have feelings for this guy but im ...

Baby mama problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend in August 2006, we dated and then broke up. He has a total of 4 kids. 3 of them with his ex wife and 1 with another woman. I have met all the kids. Well we recently got back together in June 2008 and now BOTH women have told him ...

I need some ideas from you for him to tell me what is troubling him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with my 35 year old boyfriend for nearly 1 1/2 years. I have never been with a man this long (whilst all his relationships have been long-term) and I am not sure how to handle my current situation. At ...

I want to introduce him to my family cause I love him but he's black and I know how my family can be...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - So, I'm Pacific Islander and my boyfriend is black. I would never have been attracted or gotten real close to a black guy because of the "typical" negative characteristics that is placed upon them, but my boyfriend isn't even like that. He is even ...

Did I do something wrong during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex, I'll get on top. But a few times when I was on top, out of nowhere, he said "owe". I immediately got off. Then he asks what is wrong and I don't answer him because I'm confused. Then he says that he thinks ...

I hate being stuck in the middle?

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26 October 2008 (M) - I have a friend named Amber, who is my best friend and confides in me. She is in a relationship with another one of my friends, Adam, who also confides in me about their relationship. They have been in a relationship for about a year now and I ...

I'm 15 and still a virgin. My boyfriend is 17 and not a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Okay this is really embarassing. I'm 15 and still a virgin. My boyfriend is 17 and not a virgin. I'm really nervous about having sex with him because I want him to enjoy himself. I want him to love me even more than he does now, and he really REALLY ...

Is he going to be disgusted when he sees me naked?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and I'm ready to have sex with him. I'm a virgin and he's not. He loves me so much and i love him back, but I'm not comfortable with my body AT ALL. I find it ugly, but he says that I'm beautiful every ...

I want us to touch each other in a more intimate way. I want him, and I know he wants me too. How can I give him a "sign"? Am I rushing things ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hello everyone! I'm a girl, almost 20 and I'm really happy, i'm dating an amazing guy who really makes me laugh and I feel great when I'm around him. We started as friends, we already liked each other but decided to see if what we felt for each...

I'm in love with my very good friend's

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Okay, I'm in love with my very good friend's girlfriend. She and my friend have been going out off and on for more than two years. She loves him definetely (most of the time). However, I talk to her every day through text, and then im, and then on ...

Am I the "Back-up" girl ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - He broke up with me for someone else but he says i can still talk to him on the phone if i wanted to why does he still want to talk to me if he didnt want me anymore, i'm not aloud to meet him just talk on the phone Is it as I'm a back up if thing...

How do I find that one-night-stand again ? I want to get to know him better.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a question on how far it is ok to go to find someone you met only once before but really would like to know better? The story is this: I met a guy in a club a few weeks ago and we spend the night together. I wasn’t thinking I wo...

My girlfriend wants to move in with me and so do I, but her mom doesn't approve. What shall I do to make this happen in the best way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I seriously need ur help and advice on my love life and will appreciate every bit of it. I am seriously in love with a girl of 17, just 17 and she is seriously in love wit me. She is ready to do anything to make me happy and im also ready to...

My mom hates my boyfriend and me, because weve had sex, she's going to kick me out of her life, help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - OKay um, im 14 and my boyfriends 15,ive been having sex with him for about two months now, weve been together 3months.My mam found out about a month ago and asked me directly if i was having sex with him. (my mams 8 months pregnant after a condom ...

I met a wonderful girl but after 6 months I see my feelings change and I feel trapped, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Help, i've got myself into a right mess! I'm about 6 months into a relationship with this wonderful woman but my feelings have suddenly changed. When we first started dating it was great, we had fun I loved being around her and i thought this wou...

I'm dating a perfect guy and I feel I might never be good enough for him. Should I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I'm 17 and I met my first boyfriend, who's 19 a little less than a year ago and we've been dating for around 5 months. He's absolutely perfect! He's nice, smart, funny, and has a stunning body (bonus!) He is a type of person who is go...

Is 6 months too soon to be moving in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hi, soon ill be starting college 2 hours away from home and my bf will be starting university near there too... to minimise travelling my bf wants to move closer to uni...and has asked me to move with him, as it will be convienent as it is near my ...

Marry or not marry? Need your help to sort out the pros and cons!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I recently asked a question on here about what to do now that my boyfriend wished to propose but I wasn't sure I was ready. Recently my boyfriend and I have begun talking about our future, about what we want and about marriage and proposing. If it ...

What can I say to him that will help? I want to support him for his interview!

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26 October 2008 (F) - My bf has a big interview coming up next week, and he's nervous about it. He asked me if I thought he would do okay. I told him I thought he'd be great, which upset him -- he said he doesn't want a "line" and wants to know what I honestly think ...

How do I become more than just a "close friend" to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - i have been friends with this girl for almost 8 years. we date for a little while years ago and after we broke up we became really close friends. i have helped her through many breaks up and we have work together for about 5 years. she recently ...

How do I express my desire for my classmate without being punished by my school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - in our school, we are forbidden to have an affair to our schoolmates or classmates because they may ruin our studies. there is called PDA or Public display of affection. it is a rule that if someone sees you in the campus with your boyfriend or ...

After two weeks of texts I said we should meet up- she gave no reply. Did I scare her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - met this girl at uni last week. She's great. Had an hour long chat. Exchanged numbers etc. She text me next day, than day after. I replied. Just general stuff. Than few days later she rang to see how i was. Than i rang few days later and she was ...

We've been dating on and off for a year, he says he loves me, is he playing me?

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26 October 2008 (F) - ok theres this guy i have been dating on and off for a year... he says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me..... everytime we break up he says he always loves the gurl he is dating and stuff is he playing me or what help me ...

I've have 2 guys to choose between and it's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Ok, here is my problem. I feel really silly about it because it almost sounds more like a stroke of good luck than a problem. That is, I have two guys to decide between. Guy # 1: I have known for years, since high school. We have always been very...

Girlfriend was off sequence with her birth control, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend takes Otho tri-cyclen lo and this month while taking the pill everyday she notice the week before her period she was a day behind on the order she was taking her pills. For example she was taking Thursday's pill on Friday, how in the ...

I feel I am nobody to her... what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - 2 weeks ago, I had a huge fight with my gf. She ended the relationship after few days. A week passed, I started to feel better. However, she called me. We talked a while on phone. The next day, she called again. For the first time, she called...

He has a history of self harming... but I want to break up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and in my first real long term relationship. We've been together for just over a year, but for at least four of those 12 months, i have been wanting to get out of my relationship. I really care for this guy, but i don't love him. I understa...

I had sex with my boyfriend and didn't feel anything.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys, Okay, so I'm going to get right to the point. I'm 14, and me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex with each other for 2 months. I know for a fact that I am not pregnant, and up until 3 days ago, the sex was normal but on ...