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writes:I'm 23, and my boyfriend's 25 and we live together. Our relationship's been great up until about 4 weeks ago.We were out shopping, and had fun in the sales, and I happened to see my ex (who lives in the same region/town as us). We got talking, and my boyfriend got on well with him and seemed to have a lot in common - and didn't get one bit jealous (which freaked me out!)Unfortunately for me, it was a little too well. He now spends all his time with him, according to a very good friend of mine who says he's seen him spending large amounts of time drinking with him and socialising with him. She said there are rumours they're sleeping together but doesn't believe them.She also told me that all the times he says he's working late, he's actually been spending it with my ex.I spoke to him about it, but he just ranted about a supposed "loss of freedom".How can I deal with this? Is counselling the answer? what can I do?please help, Dawn
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 October 2008):
Next time he says he working late, call his work and ask to speak to him. If he's not there then you know he's lying.
Rumours are rumours but if he's lying to you and sneaking around then you might want to tell him you know and are not happy.
If he goes off on one and refuses to admit he's wrong then you may want to consider leaving for a while so he can see he will lose you if he doesn't shape up.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, karlgoo  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 It's your ex? that can be weird for you but as long your boyfriend knows your ex isn't interested in you anymore it is just like another guy to him and doesn't want to let you know too much about it because maybe he does not want to hurt your feelings.
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