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writes:ok, i have been chatting to this guy online (yes i am gay) and have fallen deeply in love with him. we are meeting soon and i dont know where to start with anything, especially things like do we kiss, hold hands etc. what do i do.. thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Merisier  +, writes (22 October 2008):
Well you gona meet him for the first but that doesnt mean you have kiss and do everything else on your first date. Sure i know you really like him, but the first time you meet him try to see what he likes to do. It is not all about sex.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 just chat like you are friends and wait until you feel ready to act the way you desire. then relax and let things progress
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Just treat it like a first date. Get some coffee and see whether what you have online translates into real life. Do what feels natural and try not to obsess! Generally people don't kiss on the first date but because you've been talking to each other you have a certain repor already. Just see what happens and relax (I know it's harder than it sounds.)Oh, and mirror his body language. He'll trust you faster :)
Good Luck!
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