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writes:Why is it that girls aren't attracted to nice guys? I'm always nice and courteous to the girls I like, and always listen to what they have to say, yet they won't go out with me, girls say that chivalry is the best quality a guy can have, but they don't see it when it stands right in front of them. I'm no Jude Law, but I know I'm not revolting either, so what could be the problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): hey girls do like nice guys girls just have to know that they r nice and there has to be a connection
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): My friends describe me as a nice guy, possibly too nice for my own good and they can't beleive that I do not have a girlfriend, but what I will say is that it will happen and don't give up. What I say to myself is that if a women is not interested then it is her loss and not my problem. I find this thinking helped me get through a few rejections. I was obviously not mean enough. Just don't give up, keep going and when you find that one who sees you as a decent man it will be sweet.Anyway I would rather known and remembered as a nice guy rather than a bastard.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 October 2008):
 This is a very common question. Here's the answer some women gave:
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Lol. It's a sheep mentality, a lot chase the same guys and then whinge there ain't no decent guys.
It's like a fashion thing. They all wear the same clothes.
Look for the one that doesn't follow the crowd. She maybe the one dressed as a hippy or something. Thats your gall.
Good luck
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