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He sends mixed messages and won't even come out with me without a reason. What's going on?

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Question - (15 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Im unsure on what to do. please help me. 15. me and a boy at my school like eachother. He has confused me. But iv spoken to him and he says he isnt ready to progress anything. When i try and ask him to come out after school. he says and do what? like there has to be permenant plans. he goes out with other mates without running through every single thing there gonna do why cant he take it how it comes if we was to go outside somewhere. and When i say il come over and ill talk 2 you.. he says theres nuffin 2 talk about, we've spoke about everything. he doesn't make an effort :@ . what should I do. he says he likes me but sends mixed messages and doesn't make an effort. its upsetting and confusing. What should I do. I cant say anything harsh because he has a weird mind.. he will take it all the wrong way and stuff.. What should I do? Without him I dont have anything to hope for.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008):

Tell him to get lost. The boy who is keen on you will jump through hoops just to see you. Redirect your attentions to someone more worthy.

good luck, hon :)

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