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writes:Well me and my girlfriend have been talking about oral sex lately and she says wants to give me a blowjob but thinks it's nasty if I go down on her therefore she won't let me. Is there anything wrong there or anything I should be worried about??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): ok hold up, ur girl wants to give u a blow job and she doesnt want you to to go down on her. whats ur problem dude you get all u need and u dont gotta do nething, stop complaining and go enjoy ur bj... and eat her out when she wants u to.. its that simple
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 October 2008):
 As long as both parties in a relationship are free of sexually transmitted disease, and are otherwise healthy, there is nothing "wrong" or unhealthy about the genitals or secretions. In fact, there is some evidence that exchanging these bodily fluids may be beneficial (both male ejaculate and the small amount of female semen that may be secreted).
As "aunty_rach" suggested, just be fresh and clean, but females should not routinely douche or use oil-based lubricants, which are situations that may cause an imbalance in the normally healthy vaginal chemistry. The vaginal environment does contain healthy bacteria, which if out-of-balance can cause unpleasant odor and taste. You should be aware that most all women do have a musty or sometimes pungent taste and aroma down there which most men can find quite palatable. It usually dissipates quickly after you begin. Each vaginal environment is affected by dietary intake and genetics, and is therefore usually unique. In other words, some are more pleasant than others. It may be like sour cream, plain yogurt or even slightly sour.
Finally, I agree that both of you are quite young to be so sexually active, although I was as well at your age and would stubbornly not listen to advice on abstinence.
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reader, her-mom  +, writes (15 October 2008):
she don't know a thing. it is very rare for women to not like it for their man to go-down-there. i know i like it but i dont like him kissing me afterward bcoz of the smell. and yes listen to aunty rach, i can feel she's been there. tellin yu the truth she's doesnt like because she dont know yet, once yu start and doing it the right way she'll beg for more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): No, there's nothing wrong. Both of you are young and clueless about sex. Don't be in such a hurry to have sex.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (15 October 2008):
Wait a minute,... she wants to give you a blow job but she does not want to recieve!?! She has obviously not experienced the pleasure of getting oral sex before, a lot of women find it more pleasing then penetrative sex. There's nothing for you to be afraid of, just make sure that you both are clean. Tell her you want to give her oral sex as you want to make her feel nice but don't just lay her down and go straight down stairs. Take it slowly by kissing her then kissing the whole of her body, make her feel like a goddess. It will be arousing for you too. Then slowly go down to her vagina and pay all the attention to it, maybe with your hands as well. She will see it's nothing to be afraid of and disgusted with. If she wants to put your penis in her mouth then she should be okay with you giving her oral sex.
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