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30-35,
anonymous
writes:If I am not with someone anymore but were friends with benefits, is that bad? And if I am in love with him, and he says he loves me too, does he really mean it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): I'll say this once more, Friends with Benefits is basically Free Prostitution. You're Worth so much more than that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): "friends with benefits" hahaha! translated as "he gets to sleep with me when he wants and he doesnt get to give me the love and support and respect i deserve" Hon, ANY guy who says you can be friends with benefits has got problems- and at your age its appalling. i have sex with my boyfriend who loves me and respects me. i don't have sex with my friends, yet they still love and respect me. this guy wants neither to be a proper boyfriend nor to be a proper friend but still wants sex??? Get out of here!! I certainly hope he isnt older than you. is it bad? yes it is. tell this creep where to get off and find somebody who respects you before you end up feeling bad about this for the rest of your life! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Talk to your parents or you are lining yourself up for a lifetime of misery.
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (15 October 2008):
 Er, no, of course he doesn't mean it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): FWB at your age? Jesus, what is the world coming to?
Does he really mean it? No, of course not - he just enjoys slipping you one whenever the mood takes. You're a convenient receptacle.
Some girls will fall for it - and you appear to have done so.
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