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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am a freshmen in college at the moment. A couple of weeks ago I met an amazing guy. He is a junior. I made the mistake of having sex with him already. Every time I see him I like him more and I'm beginning to think that I want a serious relationship with him. How do I go about gaining a relationship when we have already had sex? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): From poster of Question:
No I do not normally have sex with a guy that fast and I wish I would have waited longer with this guy too. Since then we are still talking, but he acts as if he doesn't have time for anything more than what we have now.
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reader, benefattore +, writes (16 October 2008):
Getting a relationship with a guy AFTER having sex can be hard. A lot of guys tend to lose some respect for easy women and don't view them as girlfriend material, however you could be lucky and actually have some one who is interested in you.
Spend time with them and get to know him. Hopefuly you're the only girl he was with recently and it isn't a one night stand. Ask him if he feels the same way you do and let him know that sleeping with guys before getting to know them isn't what you usually do (at least I hope it isn't).
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