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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't think she fancies me, how do I stop liking her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - I like my friend. We are close. We talk a bit, but I don't know if she likes me. She sends me pics of hear wearing new outfits and asks my opinion. She was tellin me bout this guy who liked her, and she turned him down. So she feels free talk to me ...

Can I go on with my boyfriend if I'm falling for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is in love with me. I love him too. But I know there is someone else out there for me. I am beginning to like his team mate who told me he likes me and would like to go out with me. But, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I ...

I loved her even though she was extremely cold and unresponsive! How can I get over this break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - I'll cant promise I'll keep this short. I promise I wont ramble, however. Me and my long-distance girlfriend had been having problems making time to see eachother. She was also extremely cold, and completely a-sexual. She cited saving sexual ac...

What can I do for my boyfriend to really turn him on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi This one's for the guys (or maybe girls, you can tell me about positive/successful experience?) Now, if I wanted to spend an evening/day showing my man a good time what would you recommend? I'm up for anything, but penetration is not...

If I lost her do to my shady sexual history, I'd be devastated! Should I reveal what I've done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - I've recently started a relationship with the most amazing woman I've ever met. Things are better than I could have ever imagined and have ever been with anyone else and I'm certain we are both deeply in love with each other. The problem is that ...

My boyfriend has been lying to me about money and other girls. How can I cope with all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - help please help!!! i just dont know what to do at the moment. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we've lived together for 2 months. things seem to have gone from bad to worse with us, i found that he has been talking to other girls on...

I don't want to be with my live-in girlfriend anymore, as I'm interested in someone else! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - I have a crisis of conscience and I'm in a very sticky situation!! I having been with my current girlfriend since November. I knew her for quite a while before we got together. She moved in with me after a couple of months because she was having ...

Confused, and wondering about my commitment to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old female who has been in a serious relationship for almost 2 years now. Give our age difference (he's 30), he's been one of the most wonderful guys i've ever dated. But starting at the beiginning of this year, I sta...

My crush took my number, now what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - My crush just took my number and he said he would call me in a few hours..god!!!! I am so nervous..what do i talk about? How do i make the conversation interesting so that he likes me too???...

Should I include her in my future or not??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - About 6 months ago i met this really great girl through the internet. We met on a dating site, but we were there just to find people to chat with (wasn't strictly at dating site) because we had both just come to terms with our sexuality. An...

I insulted my crush, how can I make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I have known this guy since i was at primary, even though he is a year older than me. When i got to high school i started to fall for him. When he found out how i felt he started ignoring me. I asked him the other day online why he was ignoring me. ...

I don't love her as much, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...

He says he needs space...so why is he seeing someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend told me he needed space and is seeing someone else. He still calls me, comes over, we go to dinner, etc. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. Should I just let him go? My heart seriously hurts everyday that I ...

My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...

I still can't get over him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hello again people..my names _______ and my boyfriend for 1 year just broke up with like 2 months ago and i still can't get over him..i thought i was but other nite was prom and i seen him and when i looked at him he jsut liked stared at me..idk wat ...

My boyfriend makes me do things I don't want to do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - my bf always wana let me do stuff i dont wanna do like sex and smoke i told him i dont wanna do these things but then we together again and he says he wont do it again but he just does and i realy love him what should i do cause we realy love each ...

How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex? I always have to do it and if I dont initiate the sex then we never have sex! I know he likes having sex with me but I always have to actually start it. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets...

Why have I still not got a boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - hey, Okay... I feel like a pathetic 17 year old- ive never had a bf.. I used to be a bit of an ugly duckling, but I've grown into myself more, gained some confidense ect, that was 2 years ago...why have I still not got a bf? There have been so ...

My parents want me to finish with him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - my mum has met my boyfriend and thinks hes okay . shes not sure weather she likes him because he lives in a rough part or our area . my dad has never met him , but dosnt like like '' at all '' and hes saying to me every day that ive been out with ...

My boyfriend calls me names around his friends, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - hello , i have bin with m? bo?friend for around 6 month and now we're getting abit serious . but when hes with his cousins and mates well , he acts different and i know that hes only joking and messing around but when he calls me likee '' silly ...

We both tested positive for Clamydia, does this mean she cheated?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for one year. We recently got tested and we tested positive for chlamydia. I have never cheated on her and I know it can be symptomless for a while. Funny thing is, I had my symptoms a couple of days after her. I ...

He doesn't seem to care if I was abused as a child but I love him with all my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I told my boyfriend i was sexually abused as a child one night when we were both drunk... he was so upset over it i actually saw him cry and i took comfort in getting it off my chest... however sometimes i feel very isolated and upset, and want to ...

I'd like to take things a bit further but don't really know how to ask him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for six months and we are very happy together. I want to take things a little bit further with him but I'm not sure if he wants to and I don't really know how to ask him. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks in ...

Is he embarassed to hold my hand? He says he will but never does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - hi, well I know it sais I'm like 16-18 or something but I am not I am 13-15 ...anyway here goes I have a boyfriend and we have been seeing each other for about a month now, I have very strong feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same, th...

He is the boy of my dreams, but now my mom has decided that I'm going to move to live with her. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - My dad and mum divorced 9 years ago when I was 6, since then until now I've lived with my dad and his new wife in another country, while my mum lived in England with no money. During all these years, my stepmum has made my life hell. Now I'm almost ...

Being single and how not to be it...advice appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - Well, to put it simply, I have been single but, oh around 6 months and now I'm kinda ready to start out again. But I have no idea what the heck to do. Its not like I havent really avoided relationships, I just haven't really tried. The issue...

Is he waiting for me to get better or has he moved on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) - Sorry, this is a long post. Just trying to clear certain things up in my head I guess. I was with my ex-partner for 18years, 10 of which we lived together. We never married, and never had children. But we were saving money for a house and were...

How long is too long on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - My gf and I split up just over a month ago after 18 months to have some time apart etc. She said she did want to get back with me eventually. Its been a month and all she says is that she doesnt want a bf at the moment however I still see her and ...

Did someone perform some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because it obviously wasn't me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Please I need some help before I start pulling my hair out!! And i'm sorry but i'm going to be blunt there's no beating around the bush with this one. Ok some background info I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years we have a good r...

I need help arranging a threesome as a gift for my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and I wanna have a threesome with another women. Not a friend, just an anynomous hottie. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend and I love eachother very much and our sex life is amazing, but I wanna give ...

Is he too young to want the sort of commitment I'm looking for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) - Okay, I need your advice to keep from feaking out the b/f anymore than I already have... So I'm a 24 year old woman dating a 20 year old who appears quite serious about me. We've been dating for 2 years and we've had our ups and downs, but we're...

Should I cancel my trip to see ld boyfriend? he said he is unsure about our future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6044 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm planning a trip to visit my boyfriend he lives in the UK. We have been together for 8yrs but have been long distance for the last three years. My last visit was about a month ago and he told me he is uncertain about us getting married....

We flirted then wanted to meet, but we got waylaid, now she's got someone else, should I keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - A while ago I met this guy on an online community. We became close friends and eventually even more. It was then that I decided it would be best to let him know I was actually a girl, with a male avatar (kind of a role playing community). He ...

Is 17 too young to know you have found "the one"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Ok I know what everyone is going to say when I ask this question but is 17 to young to find the one? Me and my boyfreind are very matture then most other couple and so happy, everyday just keeps getting better with him , so what im asking is can it ...

He started to change and become restrictive. Am I just an awful girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so jealous/upset/dissapointed because of my past. It happened gradually... she knew about some stuff (past crushes, etc) when we started dating. It didn't bother him much then, he just asked me not to give him details, to talk about ...

Can someone please tell me how to trust my boyfriend? He's cheated in the past.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I have really bad trust issuses with my boyfreind, the problem is he has never done anything to betray my trust. My ex boyfreind cheated on me so much and i never found out till we had broken up...Im jsut worride my boyfreind is doing the same. Even ...

He says we are too dependent on each other. Now, he's distancing himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - my best friend and i fell in love and started dating a few months later we realized we couldnt go ahead with it coz of very strong external influences (family..our families would not hav let us be together) so we decided to let it go and stay ...

Can someone help me understand his behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I dated a guy (Ulises) July of 2007 to Nov. 2007. We had a really ugly break-up and did not talk to eachother. Until the middle of Feb, 2008. He apologized many times for all the things that he did and the way that we broke up. I had decided to give ...

Things are starting to fade, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and i can't help but feel as if things are starting to fade. Well before I met her i really liked this other girl who is my best female friend aside from my girlfriend. About a month ago I told ...

My girfriend broke up with me but still hasn't moved out, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - so i was seeing this girl for a few months, felt we really connected. we moved in way to soon she needed to stay for a bit while she looked for a new place, and eventually we both agreed we enjoyed living together. that was after 2 months, soon i ...

Is 21 too young to know if you've found 'The One'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - is 21 too young to know if you have found "the one"? I spent my whole life thinking I didn't believe in marriage, or I didnt want kids. Now I have been in the most amazing relationship for a year and a half and that has all changed. I don't want ...

I support my boyfriend financially and also lend his Mum money too now. I don't know what to do, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I've been supporting my boyfriend financially for three years now, to the point I lend his mom money because she can't manage her own money. I don't want to break up with him because he stuck with me through very difficult times, but when I tell him ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't like kids but I have a 4 year od son. Can you advise?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for about a year and half. I love being with him, he is amazing. Although he has met my 4 year old son a few times, I don't like to bring him around because I'm afraid that my son may get attached ...

I confessed my feelings to my crush but am not sure what to make of his actions since!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - My crush went on a temporary duty 2 months ago ( he's military) before he left I said I was a silly girl who cares about him and that wanted to keep in touch with him. He replied that he was definitely be in touch at his return. Well, he did. He ...

How do I find out if she like me without letting on I like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - goin shoppin next week with my friend who I think I like. First time we goin alone jus for a few things anythin I cud do to test her if she likes me without giving the teeniest hint I do? Cud I buy her a meal? Cofee? Nythin?...

So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time. I want to do something this summer. I've never had a G/F, and I really don't care for one, but i always think it would be nice to have someone sweet te be there in your...

We've done nothing but fight for the last few months, should we still go on our anniversary trip to Rome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - Hey, I don`t know what to do! My girlfriend of one year and myself have done nothing but fight for the last few months. When it`s good it`s great but I am just so unhappy about us clashing all the time. My heart is telling me to just give up. I`m ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - I'm currently in a healthy relationship with a guy that does not live nearby. He has visited me numerous times and we spent every minute we can talking (whether it be on the phone or online). I'm in love, and he is too. He's very into sex. He com...

I'm too scared to tell him about my past in case he doesn't want to see me anymore.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I married when i was 22 (i'm now 27). I was with the guy for 5 years and we have been separated 3 years now. It was an amicable separation, we just grew apart and were too young I guess and rushed into it. I've started seeing this guy who I r...