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Archived questions from: 27 May, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I name this horse 'noid' or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - today my girl and i had a very good day laughs and jokes. so after i drop her off at home,she calls me and tells me that she loves me and that she had fun today, about 3 hours later she calls again and says she loves me and thanks me for everything ...

Do people who get engaged young have lasting relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Ok. i just got engaged to my bf of 3 years and many people have criticised this. so i want to ask you ppl do you think a relationship wer u fall in love in a young age and then get married wen they are older will last??? like we started goin...

Should I pay for this holiday if I don't end up going?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I am considering splitting up with my boyfriend. I don’t want to go into why, but there is a slight problem if we can’t sort out our problems and do split up - we are due to go on holiday in 6 weeks and I don’t know what to do. He paid for the ...

I give relationships my all but always end up feeling used, should I get tougher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - i'm the type of lady thats stick to one guy if i care about him even if we are not in a relationship. well , i don't know how to get out of this habit. i feel stupid when i put my all into someone and they just use me because they know that i will ...

I'm not really interested in him in that sort of way but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hi there, I have a problem at the moment, right i recently got together with this guy and he's so sweet and kind and has a great personality and he really cares about me, but the problem is i really don't find him attractive at all! Like, I'm not ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my girl friend almost 2yrs. This has been my best relationship no arguing no fights. So far the only beef we have had has been about her going with a male friend to the mall, which I felt was bullshit, seemed like a date to me. So ...

He is ignoring me again but it seems like the logest time ever!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I have the same problem that many girls seem to have on this site...my BF is ignoring me. We have been together for 3 years. It is the 4th time he has done it but it seems for the longest time this time, nearly 3 weeks. for the first few days I t...

A boy I went out with has completely bumed me out and blames it on tests... is he trying to get rid of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Well.. A Boy That Took Me Out On A Date And That I Texted Alot Has Completely Bumed Me Out :( He Said Its Because He Has Loads Of Exams And Stuff At The Moment..But I Don't Know If He's Just Saying That To Get Rid Of Me Or Not.! And I Went To A...

Is this bachelor party a celebration of marriage or cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hi so i found out my bf went for a bachelore party. he told me they had normal strippers. unfortunately i found out, that those "strippers" were fingering each other and using other stuff to please themseves infront of the guys and also giving d...

He wants to meet me again, but is moving too fast, saying why wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Just met this guy online..... we met briefly and we kissed. Now he wants to meet me again, but is sending me texts saying he wants to make love to me. I'm not happy with moving so fast, and have told him this.... but he feels we have a great con...

What do you think is sly, liking his mate and not breaking up with him, or breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid I used to like this lad but when i started to go out with him i stoped liking him and started liking his best mate. Everyone says its sly but i think its sly not bracking up with him. What do you think Lots of love Despreat x ...

Help!!! We've never kissed on the lips! I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hi,me and my boyfriend are really close and love spending time together and we sit next to eachother in class and really trust eachother. But we've never kissed on the lips and we've been going out for 4 months and we're both quite shy. So how and ...

Am I confused about him or scared?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are great together. We have a wonderful friendship, our sex life is amazing and he is really attentive; treats me like a queen. Having said that, I have my moments when I really don't feel like being ...

I'm furious with my boyfriend for the way he broke up with me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I'm so hurt. So, so hurt. My boyfriend and i got back together yesterday. We had a faboulous time! He had broken up with me because of things from the past. But we got back together and spent most of the day together. Then, at night, he got up...

How can I ask her out without making myself look too 'easy?'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I got to know this girl who i started texting. Over time she said she really liked me n we saw each other about. So we finally went on a date to watch a movie. We kissed n all went well. But after few weeks we was showing signs of likin someone ...

Why does she treat me like dirt?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been seeing a woman for 6 months, there have been good times and bad times, but overall there has been progress...and that is what keeps me in this relationship. However, I am burnt out and my heart is dying, and on the two occassions I pla...

I don't want my boyfriend to go into the military!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants to go into the military! He just turned 21 and we have been dating for a year. This bothers me A LOT! I'm pretty sure my past has a lot to do with it, my dad left me and my family when I was 16 for another woman. And shortly after ...

Is it all men or just mine?

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27 May 2008 (F) - I have a simple question which may have a very simple yet obvious answer. My boyfriend cares for me very much as I him but when he says he'll ring me he doesn't. He works as a carer but when says can't ring because he's busy he's kind of lying (I...

A guy asked me to watch a film with me...does this mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) - Heyy. So this guy asked me to watch a film at the same time as him. I know this sounds silly but its sounds like something out of a love story watching things at the same time. Does he like me ? hurtagen xx...

Do I mean more to him than a friend? I'm starting to like him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - this guy i like, eally notices the small things about me or about the things im wearing...we are really close friends. but culd it mean more to him...i like him and i actaully am starting to fall inlove with him. he notices things about what i wear ...

We had a big fight...and he left to stay at a friends...now he is saying that he has things to sort out..whats going on? Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I got in a fight after one of his nights of drinking and him calling me at 7 am to come pick him up.after huge fight in which I tell him to leave but not seriously he left but left all his things and went to a friends. He said he ...

How can I overcome my fear of approaching girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - HI, im 19 im male and live in the uk. i realy want to be able to approach girls confidently and know what to say. im a good looking lad and i cant understand why im to scared to approach. i fear the girl rejecting me coz i look to young or skinny. ...

It started as friendship, then casual sex. Now it's more to me and I don't know how to tell her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi. I am a 17 year old male. lately, me and this girl who I am pretty much best friends with have been sleeping together quite frequently. At first it was just casual sex, but i eventually developed a lot of other feelings for her from being around ...

Where do guys liked to be touched?? (In a non-sexual way!)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - i was just wondering, where do guys like to be touched the most...not as a sexual way...for eg i am a girl who likes a guy to put his hands around my waist and play with my hair...so i was just wondering where do u guys like to be touched?....thx...

I've been going out with a great girl for a year...but she cheated...should I stay with her or end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - i have been going out with a great girl for about a year now.at the moment it is a long distance relationship. anyways we had an aruguement about the people she hangs around with over there guys hitting on her repeatedly,and me getting angry cause ...

Did I scare him off by being so blunt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I have a guy friend/aquaintance who I have always really liked and had a crush on. I go to college away from home so I dont see him that much but when im home we hang out. Then he called me just to talk and that is kind of unusual for him. One night ...

I moved in with my bf but I then found out he had anger problems! My ex is also back in the picture from 2004...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - i only knew my boyfriend 3 months before i moved in with he and his brother. A few weeks later my ex called and needed a place to stay because his chick broke up with him and his buddy kicked him out. i wanted to move back so bad and provide him ...

We had an abrupt break up from a long distance relationship...we haven't talked in 3 months...should I call him? I'm confused!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hello I used to be with this guy that I deeply loved for a year and half. then things started going downhill for the last 6 months and hung on as long as could. I hurt him a lot and then he ended up hurting me back. we finally ended it, abrupt...

Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with ...

Is it possible to love someone that you are sexually unattracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been dating the same girl for almost a year and a half now. Shes great. I love her to death. She wore a promise ring until today. At first glance I wasn't that attracted to her. But a couple months after we met we started dating. We started ...

We haven't had sex yet, but he's such an amazing bf, he's prepared to give me a guilt-free day to explore my bi side!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - okay Ive been on this site for quite a long time and I have ALWAYS gotten the advice that helped me through everything. So once again I need your help people!! Ive been with my guy for a year and a half and my life has never been better, heres the ...

Is my problem insecurity or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - is my problem insecurity or not. i love my boyfriend very as he loves me. at times i know that he loves me and at times i just think he's out just for the physical thing. well, he is very charming and galz do love his company... he likes making ...

My boyfriend uses porn a lot so I tried it too and now I feel awful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Hi Pleae help, I feel really terrible. I found out a few months ago that my boyfriend was fairly heavy porn user. I know it was probably naive but I really hadn't realised, and it really hurt me. I guess if I had known just that he used porn, bu...

How can I make sure it's better this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I'm sorry this is long, but it's quite complicated. Please hear me out lol! I got back with my ex 3 days ago. We had been split up for 3 and a half weeks and had been going out for 1 year before we split. I really loved this man, I still do and I...

Did I come on too strong and obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, so me and this college girl a couple years younger than myself did the long distance thing for the past couple of months. We texted, facebooked, phoned everynow and then, and visited eachother a few times. Things seemed to be good. Well, last ...

How can I move this on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I think I'm in love. I can't stop thinking about this man, he is so sweet towards me and affectionate and calls me babes and gives me warm kisses on the face, but still I'm unsure. He is younger than me 30 but I can't help having feelings for him. ...

How can I get some answers out of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, A little over a month ago, my first boyfriend broke up with me after we spent seven weeks together. He didn't give a reason, and he's not even the one who told me that he wanted to end things (he had two of our friends do it for hi...

Did she sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, About two years ago my girlfriend cheated on with with her friend from London, over about 3 months. My g/f says it never went any further than kissing all the time they were together, but i have a feeling that sex was involved. The...

Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship?...